How can I be bolder, how can I be bold?

The premise of boldness is self-confidence, we will show stage fright when we go to a strange place, that is because you are not confident enough, as long as you are confident, you are the most shining!!

If you want to express yourself boldly, you must first be confident, neither humble nor arrogant!

Believe that you can express yourself and be able to express your inner thoughts well. This requires frequent communication with people, and people can't think exactly the same way all the time, so there will be disagreements, and even later when both parties insist on themselves, there will be conflicts. You have to know that this is normal, and it happens every day, at any time.

If you can't escape it, you have to face it bravely. Regardless of whether others will be persuaded by you in the end and compromise according to your ideas, no one can take away your right to express your opinions.

If you're afraid of saying it badly, don't impulsively say it right away. "Count three seconds before you speak" will allow you to calm down and speak more rationally. Listen to what the other person has to say, then think about what you want to say, get it organized, don't say too much or too much, but express the main point clearly.

After you have finished speaking, ask the other party to give us their opinions based on what you have to say, and the communication will become harmonious. Listen carefully when the other party disagrees, and know how to reserve your opinion when the other party cannot be convinced. But reservation does not mean that even speaking can be dispensed with, expression is necessary.

Don't think that you don't dare to express that it's family reasons, it's an external cause, and it can only affect you. The main reason is yourself, and that's the root cause. Believe that "I can change who I am".

Taking a book and reading it aloud and over again can be very helpful for "speaking". Watch "Speech and Eloquence" and "Youth Digest", say the above words out loud in the mirror, look at yourself in the mirror, and say, "Look, I can say it so well".

In the end, communication is a mutual affair, based on a kind of respect, and if you want others to respect your conversation, you must first show respect. If you really don't agree, remember what you learned from this conversation: what are the highlights of other people's ideas, what I am missing, and what is missing from the point.

Then improve next time.

They're not so good that they go, maybe they're not as good as you.

Said generously, can you take me next time, I don't play very well, I want to practice more with you.

There is nothing to be afraid of in this world, what is terrible is that you can't face it, the biggest enemy in this life is yourself, and those who can defeat yourself are the strong people in this world

If you want to be bold, the main thing is that you are afraid, what do you have to be afraid of, the same is a human being, others are not afraid, what are you afraid of You are afraid because you don't believe in yourself, you may sometimes have low self-esteem, you want to be bold and start to change from your mentality

As for the method, I think you also know what the methods are, but you yourself are afraid and dare not do it Speak loudly every day, do whatever you want, don't look at other people's eyes, we don't live for others, we can do whatever we want, I'm not afraid, I'm not afraid, because I'm the boss, what do I have to be afraid of.

Do you like to stay at home and go out with friends more?

Also, joke more, boys who love to joke, are thick-skinned, outgoing, and don't Sven.