When you go to dinner with your colleagues, how can you not be embarrassed to propose the AA system?

First of all, there is no special meaning for ordinary bureaus

When people are in the company, people want to eat, such as at lunchtime, a few colleagues go to the restaurant, and in the afternoon, some colleagues, several colleagues will gather together to eat and sing. Dinner has no special meaning, because everyone is equal, no one owes, except for meals, small gatherings, everyone has no special purpose. In this case, I think that the AA system is very reasonable, and only the AA system, this rice bureau will only get more, and the friendship between colleagues can be solar.

Secondly, there is a special meal.

There are two types of props of this type:

1.If there is anything worth celebrating, he asks for guests. For example, a certain salary, ask some colleagues, one is to celebrate, the second is to show support for everyone, I hope everyone can help you.

2.The group's restaurant people are interested in those who attend the dinner. For example, you encounter a problem at work. He deliberately invited a colleague to eat in order to ask a colleague to help him solve the problem.

Eat with colleagues, the AA system is the best, I will talk about the time to get the AA system, colleagues work together every day, eat once a day, everyone can taste a variety of vegetables, jokes talking about it can be relaxing, I think this time is better, so everyone feels more comfortable, no one ignores, the work is easy to get along with, there is an entanglement, there is an entanglement to post their own opinions and opinions, the people who save the diet are short, take care of the hands, take care of that, take care of it, Don't use work progression, then, everyone is an adult, go straight to it.

There is also a good relationship with colleagues. It takes more care of you and takes care of you. If you accidentally take the initiative to eat it, then it is not suitable for the AA system and is not suitable for increasing the feelings between colleagues.

She took care of her work and thanked her for showing her appreciation. You have to pay for it yourself. You can even ask better colleagues to sing and sing and have afternoon tea.

If the company gives you a bonus, you can also ask everyone to gather together in order to liven up the atmosphere, it is not suitable for the AA system.

The AA system also wants to see, sometimes it is appropriate, sometimes it is not suitable, to see the specifics, if everything is clear, ii feel that there is no taste of people, or if necessary, please eat, drink more, sometimes you can't see that the money is too much, but also to be able to accommodate. Ask everyone, please.

It's a good idea to make it clear in advance, so that you can avoid the embarrassment of bringing it up in person.

The best way is to discuss it before eating, and tell colleagues to adopt the AA system in order to avoid unnecessary trouble, and generally more sensible colleagues will understand.

I think you should tell your colleague that I didn't bring enough money today, so it's better to have an AA system, so it's still very appropriate and won't be very embarrassing.

Pay half of the money yourself and ask him to pay the other half.

If you have said AA in advance, then both parties should have the spirit of contract, so when checking out, both parties should take the initiative to AA, so that it is not embarrassing, and you can also end the dinner perfectly.

If he doesn't pay, you are embarrassed to ask him to pay, so you endure being a good old man and help him pay. At that time, you didn't show your displeasure on the surface, but when you got home, you felt that you had suffered, so you sulked and scolded the other person. But it doesn't work, you have already suffered a loss, and the other party will also think that you are a good bully, and in the future he will continue to cheat you for your money in this way, not only without thanking you, but also laughing at you like a fool.

So you don't force yourself to pay for the sake of face, and don't pretend to be dumb, you should just ask him to pay, it's best to tell him to scan the code in **, and how much to pay, and keep an eye on him, he won't run away.

Because you and him are just colleagues, you don't need to be very good to him in life, everyone is polite, and you have to be clear about money and money. It is normal to invite colleagues to dinner occasionally, after all, everyone works together, and it is inevitable to help each other, and it is necessary to have a little human contact. But it has been said that AA is good, then it should be in accordance with AA, otherwise it is a violation of the rules, and the two people will not be able to get along anymore in the future, and the impact is very great.

If you have reminded him to pay and he still does not pay, then you have paid his share and you will never have anything to do with him again. If you still feel angry, then you tell other colleagues about these things and ask them not to associate with him, he will be isolated, he will apologize to you, and then take the initiative to invite you to dinner, and then you will make a decision whether to associate with him or not. I suggest you still don't associate with him, after all, he may not really change, and then he will be in the pit again.

I would suggest to him that if he still insisted on not paying at this time, then I would pay the money first, but this kind of inconsistent words and deeds will cause my opinion to change about him.

I'll ask him directly, because the two of us have already agreed on something, and he didn't do what he promised, and he broke some rules.

At this point, I'll probably just pay for it, and then I'll never go out to dinner with this friend next time.

At this time, I won't pay. Because I'm not wronged, I won't let others bully.

What should I do if I say that I have a good AA system before going out to eat with my colleagues, but he doesn't pay after eating?

1. In such a situation, it is best to settle the account first.

It's normal for colleagues to go out to eat together. It's more fun to have lunch together at noon and talk while eating than to eat alone. However, in general, it will be AA system.

If you say the AA system in advance, but the other party finds a reason not to pay or deliberately does not pay, there is no need to fall out on the spot for a meal, which will also damage your image in front of everyone. So, it's best to settle the bill yourself. Even if it is to eat a trench and grow wise.

2. Tell yourself that you will try to deal less with such colleagues in the future.

Of course, after the fact, if Bishu himself feels unbalanced, he can also say that the other party should be responsible for the money to be returned, but this will definitely affect the relationship between the two people. I believe that after such a thing, in fact, the relationship between the two people will not drop to the freezing point, and they will also have a grudge. Even a little dissatisfied in his own heart.

Of course, wisdom can also be seen through this matter of a person's character, to a certain extent, it can also reflect that the other party is a person who does not speak or loves to take advantage, for such people, in the future work and life, we must avoid dealing with them, even if we have to deal with them, we must be cautious, so as not to be fooled.

3. Be honest, and honesty is often mentioned in small things.

People often say that honesty is a good life, and integrity is reflected in all aspects of life, and the understanding of a person is also through the small things in life. Therefore, you must be good at observation in life, only in this way can you make yourself so easily deceived in this society and not so easy to be used by others. In daily life, although you must not have the heart to hurt others, you must also have a heart to prevent being hurt by others.

You can pay the money first and then ask your colleague directly, after all, two people are AA system, and don't go out to eat with such colleagues in the future.

You can pay the money yourself, and then the two people will explain the situation of the meal, let the other party transfer the money to themselves, and pay attention to the way when communicating with the other party.

I'll tell him, why don't you pay. Why not do it? Do people like you really do that? It's very bad.

What should I do if I say that I have a good AA system before going out to eat with my colleague, but he doesn't pay after eating?

1.You can discuss it with a friend before eating. This meal should be AA system, and the money should be given to one person first to avoid the embarrassment of asking for money after the meal.

If you don't explain the rules before eating, you can explain it at the checkout, and then pay for it, explain the meal to your friends directly after paying, average everyone's, or set up a group to explain in the group, so that you can also directly ask your friends to give red envelopes. You don't need to be shy about this kind of thing, and you don't need to be embarrassed. Of course, you can be absent from the speech, and you can also speak in the chat after you have dispersed, so as to avoid the embarrassment of face-to-face.

Some people who have a good relationship, are reasonable, and have high emotional intelligence will definitely give it to you. If you have already asked for it and insist on not giving money, then you don't need to associate with him.

There is a very useful function in WeChat, that is, "**". WeChat interface - plus sign - collection and payment - group collection - select group - fill in the amount - select personnel, you can set the group collection successfully. The biggest advantage of the group collection function is that everyone in the group can see who paid and who didn't.

In general, no one will be cheeky not to pay, unless he does not want to stay in this company.

3.There is a kind of person who always loves to ask you to invite him to dinner, which is both cheap and disdainful. He especially chooses high-end and atmospheric restaurants.

Afterwards, he still took it for granted that you invited him to dinner. If you ask him to invite him to dinner, there are various reasons, either he works overtime on his own, or he has made an appointment with someone else, or his parents live together. Anyway, he made up all kinds of reasons not to take it!

Once or twice it's understandable, but it's always like this, and you have to think carefully about whether he discredits you as a friend. But after all, some faces can't be torn. If we want to eat together, let's say AA first!

Don't be soft!

You can pay your own part of the money first, and then you don't have to worry about him leaving, if he insists on not paying, you can also transfer your part of the money to a colleague, and then, Shanyin let him pay it himself, or you can say that your mobile phone is out of battery and can't help him.

You can make an advance payment first, so that he can return it later, and if he insists on not paying it back, you need to stop contacting him in time.

Maybe remind the other party, and then maybe after the payment, and colleagues to bring this matter famous, if the other party still does not pay, such as the person who is not punished, must stay away.

You can remind the other party, and then you can also pay the money early, and explain the matter to the same fight, if the other party still does not pay, such a person will not be able to deal with it, and you must stay away.

should take the initiative to explain it clearly to the other party, and should also put this matter on the table to say, and if there is no Feng, he should also take the initiative to ask the other party for money, so that the other party can know that this kind of behavior is a very boring and annoying behavior.

Colleagues have dinner together, if everyone said in advance whether they want AA, or everyone knows the need for AA, then don't be embarrassed, since everyone is a colleague, then there is the same group, shout in the group, say that the money for the meal is troublesome for everyone to pay, and then start a group to collect, all those who have eaten are added, take pictures of the meal list and send it to the group, everyone will take the initiative to pay.

Don't put this kind of thing on for too long, everyone is silent, and you don't talk about it, maybe people will think you're going to have a treat. After we eat, we will take a photo of the final list and send it to the group, initiate the collection, we will be very own, don't have any burden.

If you're really embarrassed, you should buy a lesson and don't take the initiative to check out next time. Oh, and remember that the next time someone else takes the initiative to pay, you can take the initiative to transfer the money to someone else. Well, also, don't feel embarrassed, and at the same time you're not a friend, if you leave your job, who cares about you.

Alipay and other payment software do not have functions such as AA payment, you add everyone to initiate a good thing, this thing does not have to think about so much, they are just colleagues, what should be collected must be collected, most people just forget about this matter, you reasonably mention that they will not have much opinion, do not do to others what you do not want.

If you say that you have an income and you can afford to treat yourself to dinner, then I don't think it matters much if I pay for it, after all, the person who can eat with you will not be the person you hate very much, no matter how you say it, it is a friend, and it is not a big deal to invite friends to dinner. And if some people feel embarrassed, they will still take the initiative to mention the AA system.

Another point is to think about who you're eating with. If it's a friend of yours who doesn't know you well, I don't think it's necessary to invite someone to dinner, everyone is not familiar with it, why should you invite it. But if you are a good friend, you can also choose to invite him to dinner.

Because this one is invited in turns, you pay this time, and she will pay next time, so on the whole, it is actually an AA system.