The man wanted to get back together and offered to eat together, and the woman agreed at first, but

The man has lost the idea of getting back together with the woman.

Look at how this sentence should be understood, maybe she really wants to date you! It doesn't necessarily mean that a girl who takes the initiative is not a good girl, or maybe you are excellent and the type she likes.

She has taken a fancy to you, and you still don't think it's good to have the courage to ask you out?

What kind of society is it now, it is still so feudal.

The cutest confession, buy a set of big white gas suits and say that you will always love her alone, so that she will definitely be moved, and she will like you more.

Although it is not suitable, since it is a family, we must first see why we are late, and what is the reason for being late? If there is indeed an accident, it is understandable, but be sure to inform the other party at the first time, ask the other party to forgive and apologize, since it is an appointment, no matter who it is, no matter how many times, the most important thing is to be punctual, this is the respect for others and the trustworthiness of yourself, don't say that you arrive early, it is okay to arrive on time, if you are late for your own reasons, it is really inappropriate, it will make people feel that your time is not respected, and other people's time is equally precious, and there are people who make people feel that you are pretending, not real, Therefore, it is best not to be late to have a good relationship, and if you are late, you must explain it clearly, ask for understanding, and ask for a second meal next time to show your sincerity.

This is not suitable, you should arrive early for the first meal, contact and contact feelings.

After getting married, the parents of both parties have dinner for the first time, so that neither party should not, punctuality is the basic respect for the other party. Why is the other party late? If it is a special case, it can be forgiven, if it is deliberately procrastinating, it is indeed too undeserved.

The first meal after marriage should not let the woman's parents wait, this is out of politeness, I think it is particularly inappropriate, you at least have a reason to be late, explain it to your in-laws!

Letting the woman wait in China may be considered disrespectful to the woman. But it's best to ask why you're late, maybe the other party is nervous because they pay too much attention to it, and they suddenly remember that they didn't buy a gift halfway through. There are also so many traffic jams now, it is likely that they do not understand the traffic situation and are late when they encounter traffic jams.

If the man and the woman still say it in the past, if the woman waits for the man to say it in **, it is not very reasonable. After all, this is an appointment in advance, and it is too disappointing for such a party not to gather.

It's not about which side to wait! Emphasize that the woman herself is not good enough!

It shouldn't, but the man takes the initiative to wait for the woman.

Don't worry too much about the family, whoever pays later!

My opinion:

If the two families do it together, it will all be paid by the man; If the men and women are separated, it is best to pay for each of them.

Parents who give birth to a daughter are not married after raising you, they should do their best to provide you with a certain amount of material security for your future life, and pave the way for you to live a happy life after you get married, otherwise what is the difference between selling your daughter?

I am from a rural area in Hubei, and the marriage customs over there are: the man prepares a new house and furniture, the woman marries daily necessities and household appliances, the man gives a bride price when engaged, and the woman's parents will give their daughter more than 40,000 yuan in cash when they get married, which is considered to be a guarantee for their daughter's life after marriage. The two families of the wedding were held separately, each inviting its own guests and receiving red envelopes from each family.

Now they are all families with one or two children, and daughters are also the hearts of parents, our parents all hope that their daughters can live well after marriage, and no parents feel that they are at a loss to marry their daughters, but they feel that they are sorry for their daughters who are raised by their daughters.

The money for the woman's banquet has to be paid by the man, which shows how strong your feudal idea of male superiority and inferiority of women is, and the marriage of your daughter has completely become a matter of the man's family, and the woman's parents don't have to care about anything, which is a bit incredible.

It is difficult to understand that when getting married, the woman's family asks the man's family for a large amount of bride price, and she can't wait to hollow out the man's family, but as everyone knows, the daughter is going to live in the man's house after getting married, and the man's family has no money, can the daughter have a better life when she marries? Such parents are patriarchal and do not think about their daughter's happiness at all.

I don't know if you were with your boyfriend in the end, I see that the reply is relatively late now, but I also want to talk about my heart.

First of all, you can't blindly compromise and make concessions!

First, you have to explain to your boyfriend that marriage is a matter of two families, and you are not greedy for how much money the man has, and you must see an attitude. If you want to get married in the future, you don't have any sincerity, and you have to do it with an attitude and etiquette!

When I got engaged, both men and women did their own things, but the drinks and sweets for our banquet were all given by the man's family. Engaged toast, received a red envelope, and my parents-in-law also gave me a red envelope. When I went to his house during the Chinese New Year, their elders would also give me red envelopes, and these mothers-in-law let me keep them for myself, saying that it was the intention of the elders.

Of course, our woman's relatives and elders also gave my husband a red envelope).

If their family really can't handle it, it's very difficult, then it's okay to have a little less dowry. And you didn't say that you wanted a dowry, just a banquet, could it be that you sent a big girl to his house upside down?!

Second, it is a good thing to see that your boyfriend will discuss many things with his parents. But if you just repeat your words directly to your parents, it will make the other parents disgusted that you ask too much. He should be euphemistically articulated:

Girls get married for a lifetime, and as a man, you have to have an attitude! Communicate with each other and speak for you.

said that I will compensate you later, and when the raw rice is cooked and cooked in the future, who knows if it will be compensated?!

Thirdly, the man's parents are obviously unwilling to pay, and they seem to think that you should stick to the past upside down and not ask too much! Old-fashioned, and your boyfriend blindly obeys and has no opinions of his own. In the future, if you get married, you will probably be a nanny to serve his family.

So, you know, how to choose .........

Really with those who hate customs and customs, open and close their mouths about customs, the times are developing, human beings are progressing, if you have been stuck under the old feudal and old concepts, what kind of progress can be talked about, for example, if you talk about customs, in ancient China, did you wear wedding dresses to get married? The answer is no, so why are they all wearing wedding dresses now? Doesn't that need to be done according to the customs of the ages? It's disgusting to talk about customs.

You can't say you love it very much.

That's it. It's just selfish to each other.

This is the siege.

That's why a lot of people come in but desperately want to get out.

From the man's point of view: the woman's customs and habits should be fully respected.

From the woman's point of view: it is also necessary to understand the man's difficulty.

My girlfriend and I once discussed that all the money given by the families of both sides should be given to the elderly on both sides, and the wedding money would be all solved by ourselves. If it is true love, understand and support each other.

Otherwise, what kind of love can we talk about?

Generally, the man's family gets the money for the banquet, the woman's family runs the banquet, and the woman's family takes the money, but the party that holds the banquet for the gift money goes there.

It's all a family, of course, the woman's family paid for it.

I really understand your current situation, I am no better than you, the good thing is that he is the youngest in their family, the above 3 sisters, the conditions are not bad, we got married on October 1, and I have nothing, that is, I gave 10,000 yuan to me when I was engaged, and the wedding money in my family in Jiangsu is at least 30,000 yuan now. But his father didn't say that they didn't have that money here, I thought about it if I didn't want to give it or not, I didn't care so much, if we needed money in the future, he would definitely give it to us.

Don't think about it so much.,If your partner really loves you.,What's the point compared to more money and less money.,As long as the two of you love each other and work hard.,There will be anything in the future.。。 Wishing you happiness and happiness every day.

The bride price that the woman wants in Linshu will be given to the man on the day of the wedding, and the woman will give an extra 10,000.

A rural family! What do you want from the man's family?

Although you said so much, I haven't finished reading it, but it's a matter of 2 people, whoever has more money will have more, and the people who are married are all so finely divided, why ...... they still tie the knot

I think that since it can be done together, the man can pay for it, and if one person is separated, one side will be on the side. To each his own money. The dowry that should be given is given, as long as the man is willing, and the woman agrees.

Why do you do so much? Saying so much is actually to pave the way for more money. If you really love you, you will give you as much money.

What if the man really loves you and doesn't have that much money? Can you be sure that the man doesn't love you? If you want to live in the future, if you marry your mother-in-law, you will be mixed with the unhappy woman, at least how many young people can accept it now if you get married twice?

Think about it.

should meet, he is afraid that you will be hungry, and he feels sorry for you, if it is too uncomfortable, go to the doctor, you can take good care of her, and wait for the good to invite her to eat something. I can't even eat when I'm sick.

Since the boy knew that the girl was sick and couldn't walk, he insisted on going out to eat together; These daily behaviors are enough to prove that this boy has a strong and paranoid personality; Not only do they not know how to be considerate and caring; And it is selfish, only cares about its own wishes, and will not understand the suffering of others; This is true now, and it will be even more reckless in the future; It is advisable to leave it at this point and refuse to entangle.

Such a boy is not very mature, he doesn't know how to take care of girls, he compares himself, he is selfish, and he only thinks about himself, but this doesn't mean that this person is not good or kind, but he doesn't know how to stay at home to take care of girls when he is sick, he can only say that he is more childish and willful, but it doesn't mean that he won't meet again in the future because of this, you can't stand him and you just leave, just say that this boy is not suitable for you.

You already have the answer in mind!

No, don't worry, it's understandable for girls to say hello at breakfast.

Sometimes it's really shameless for them to be weird.

In the past, I went to my relatives' house for dinner during the Chinese New Year to worry about such embarrassment, and I ate to the end every time