How do you learn to speak better? How to speak well?

First of all, we can watch more programs of famous hosts in our leisure time. Everyone knows that Wang Han's cultivation is very high, his professional ability is very strong, and his coping ability is also very strong. The point is that he's a good talker, he can make everybody in the room happy, and he's not talking too much.

Watch more shows hosted by people like Wang Han, and you will know what to say. The more you watch, the more you learn, and it is naturally not difficult to learn to speak better. <>

Secondly, we should go out more to socialize with friends and expand our circle of friends. Because only in this way will our abilities become stronger in all aspects, and the biggest change should be our ability to speak. Because in a social situation, what kind of person will say what kind of thing, they are all people on the field, and they will not say more, but they will say what should be said.

It's not called sycophancy. It's very hypocritical to pat yourself on the back, and people who really can talk often say the most authentic things, but with a few more modifiers. Therefore, this kind of communication situation can best exercise people's communication and expression skills, and being able to speak is also a science.

First of all, we must know some human accidents, and only on the basis of self-experience can we speak better. For example, if a group of people are talking about the topic of broken love, and the people involved in it are deeply aware of it, and you, a person who has never experienced anything, go there and interject, and show an expression of disdain for falling out of love, then you will be disgusted by these people when you decide to finish the game. <>

Secondly, it is necessary to learn to divide people into words, not all words can be said to all people, show the true self in front of worthy people, instead of saying it when you meet people, the story of Xianglin's sister-in-law has sounded the alarm bell for us, and some words will not win the sympathy of others, but will attract jokes.

The tone of speech is also not negligible, and some people speak in a tone that makes people dislike it, as if they are superior to others, and they feel that all they spit out of their mouths is gold. Down-to-earth, you can't go wrong at any time.

The most important thing is to know that there is no one in the world who does not like to listen to good words, and it is an art and a survival skill to see people and talk nonsense. There are many textbooks on speech on the market, such as "Speech and Eloquence", which provide some theoretical knowledge, but learning to speak is the same as growing up, and you have to find out slowly.

Learn to observe words and colors, say the right things on the right occasions, some people say "speaking is an art", as if it is true, the same sentence, different people have different sayings, will receive different effects, the same sentence, in different occasions also have different sayings, to learn to use different ways on different occasions, so speaking is not just learning to speak, but also to be able to say, a sentence may make a person, it may also destroy a person, don't think this is alarmist.

In ancient times, the emperor ordered to "drag it out and behead" because someone said the wrong thing, although it is now the era of freedom of speech, but it is still necessary to pay attention to what you say, especially some public figures, they are often called "low emotional intelligence" by netizens because of the reason for speaking, in fact, they should always remember that as public figures, they should be cautious in their words and deeds, and don't say what they shouldn't say.

Talking to an intimate person, in a private space, of course, you can say whatever you want, and I believe that he will not be angry, but in public, of course, you have to take care of his face, and you can't say whatever you want. People who are not familiar with it, whether in public or in private, should also be suspicious.

Learning to speak better has several meanings, do you want to learn to speak more standard Mandarin? I still want to speak better and sleekly. <>

If you want to learn to speak Mandarin well, then you should read more articles and dictionaries to figure out the pronunciation of words, and don't mix dialects with Mandarin, so that your Mandarin level will improve by leaps and bounds.

If you want to make yourself better at speaking and being able to speak, then you need to improve your emotional intelligence, and you need to exercise yourself in practice to communicate more with others, so that you will have more experience and gains, and in the process of dialogue with others, your thinking will also be expanded to a certain extent, which will have an experience for the next time you speak. In fact, the most important thing is to learn a principle, do not do to others what you do not want to be done, and you may wish to be able to empathize with empathy when speaking. If you don't want to hear something you don't want to hear, don't say it to others, and sometimes you like to hear what others say to you, so say it to others in the same way at the same time.

Speaking is really a very esoteric matter, and it doesn't mean that you can speak just by opening your mouth.

Just like the baby goes to kindergarten now, many parents respond to why the teacher doesn't teach the baby in school. Then we parents should think about it, when you send the baby to school, the baby may not even say a complete sentence, how to teach him knowledge. <>

Just like my baby, when I come home from kindergarten, I ask him what he learned in kindergarten today, and he says, "The teacher told a story." I'll ask him

What a story! After he told me, I couldn't understand what he was saying, so I had to guess.

If you want to learn to speak better, you have to start from an early age. When the baby is still young, we take the baby out to play, and when we see other children, we should politely call the children and play with other children.

As parents, we communicate more with our babies, which can exercise the baby's oral language ability and promote the relationship between parents and babies. In this way, when the baby grows up, he can better use his speaking ability.

This is closely related to people's literacy! Less talk and learn more, say less and do more, and say more is useless. No matter how much you say, it's better to do a realistic thing.

The most powerful force in the world is dialogue, and there is nothing that cannot be discussed, and if there is, you are not very good at talking.

If you say it well, you can speak, and if you don't say it well, you can pat yourself on the back.

Talking well is not to stuff the other party into the corner, and to say that the other party is slow and auspicious, that is not called to speak well, Tongyou to speak well is that both parties are satisfied, and the bureau is comfortable, there is a saying in the past in the rivers and lakes, called Vientiane to return to spring, you say that everyone is happy, this thing is easy to do, I will tell you from the bottom of my heart, communication is 70% emotion, 30% is content, this thing is very difficult to do, but I said, you are very happy.

Don't grab, don't shout, don't be too straight.