I m 20 but my girlfriend is 30, how should I deal with it!

Updated on society 2024-05-04
64 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The reason why you like her is because you lack maternal love, in fact, you can be with her, as long as you don't care that she can't have children, don't care that she is older than you, you go and comfort her, as for the problem of the child. Adopt one = =? Anyway, your parents are not good to you, so why should you plan your love according to their wishes.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Age is not a problem at all, the main thing is a matter of fertility, as long as you don't care, then you should be brave enough to go to her.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It doesn't matter if you love her, it's a matter of the two of you, it's okay if you're happy, don't care too much about what others think! I wish you all a lifetime of happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    As long as the two of them get along.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There is no age difference in true love! ~

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    She doesn't pay attention to you at all, you don't care what she does, find another one.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You may go shopping for clothes, or shoes, and cosmetics on your own.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Either I ran away, or I went missing

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    No, I have a boyfriend, and 20 fortunes want to trick me into being your girlfriend.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Young? Can't have a girlfriend too early? Focus on the cause first!

    She didn't even tell you when she left, think about it! How credible is such a friend? Friends talk about treating each other sincerely, reputation first, don't have to be tired for this kind of person, even if you come together in the future, you are also tired, it's better to let go.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It would be nice to adjust it yourself.

    As a man, you have to bear more, you see that she is so good to you, shouldn't you give her a better one, to meet what she wants.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Actually, you have two choices, 20 is still young, right? Your girlfriend is not much different in age from you, and if you keep going like this, and wait until the reality of a woman changes, then she doesn't belong to you. One choice is that you are enjoying your girlfriend's kindness to you now, and you continue to be unmotivated, and the second is to be your girlfriend's self before being good to you, at least you are worthy of yourself, who will say clearly what will happen in the future, but if you are not motivated now, you will definitely not have a chance in the future.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    At least you're aware of the problem, and that's good......

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I know I can't, but I want to like you, many people are like this! However, many times it often hurts itself. After a long time, you will find that you feel ridiculous, a little silly, and even childish!

    So sometimes we have to learn to give up, when we know that we can't, we should choose to give up, long pain is better than short pain, give up to give yourself a glass of cold water, extinguish the fire in your heart, run wild in the rain, sing and chant drunk, it's not impossible,! In order to be able to get happiness in the future, the so-called strong twisted melon is not sweet, don't ignore the whole garden because of the withering of a flower, open your hands, you will get more beauty!

    Meteors are beautiful, but do you know that any star has its beautiful side, but you haven't found it, as long as you use your heart to find it, a lot of beauty is no worse than your current one! Well, that's it, people sometimes need to calm down and think with their hearts, only people who know how to give up will be happy people, I hope you get your own happiness! ~

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The first feeling is that you didn't tell the story completely, maybe you hurt her. I am a girl, once in the most painful time, when I broke up with the man I once loved, I couldn't bear the pain of breaking up, and I also went to a man, for a week, ruined my body, hurt myself, made myself feel that I was dirty and unworthy, let myself give up in my heart and look for him again, or I was angry with him, to see if he cared about me. But as time passed, the heart that was so painful to death faded, and I also had my own things to do, and I also had many female girlfriends.

    He still wants to break up with me, and he doesn't pity me, but after a while, when I am in a better mood, and never mentions my filthy part, he feels sorry for my actions to hurt himself, and he doesn't want to bring it up and hurt me again. Because of him, I hurt myself, I hate him, but I also love him, I can only separate from him, and I don't want to see this person who made me fall into the abyss again, and I feel that everything will never go back to the past. Now I have a new life, I am sunny and cheerful again, and I have succeeded in fading love and hate.

    There is nothing that time can't pass, you can also find a psychological counselor to enlighten her, but you must not dislike her for being unclean, to prevent death, just pass this time. But in fact, what's the point of me saying this, it's already 2021.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    She doesn't know if she hurts herself or you by doing this, but it's just to anger you, it's too stupid, if not, then you don't pay attention to her anymore, when people grow up, their hearts will change.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Ah, no, you, it's better to think about it, I don't think it's good, girls transmute!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you really like it, a little age gap is not a problem!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Nabs! Go straight to it!

    Go and say it in person, there's still a chance!

    If you don't get it, you won't have any chance!

    And the people around her!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Once you miss it, it's too late to regret it. As long as you like it, be brave enough to express it to her. Go even if it's rejected. Don't let yourself regret it. Don't leave yourself with regrets.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Now, it is definitely not okay and unreasonable to tell her to get married and have children. So your way out lies in how she treats this relationship after the college entrance examination and college. If you want to change your mind, it won't take too long, it's only about half a year and a year, this time, you should wait, instead of rushing to ask, the more you ask, the more you have to promise, the more it will backfire.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think you'd better forget it, this is too unreliable, the portal, education, and cognition are completely different, and it's not even age. You'd better find a reliable one.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Forget it! Is it possible for a brick mover to be with a college student? Later, when she went to college, she had a wider horizon, and she had more contact with people, and her thoughts were different.

    For example, the boyfriend of one of her classmates is a boss. A girlfriend's boyfriend earns hundreds of thousands of dollars a year, and she will change at that time. Tell you, it doesn't matter if you are loyal, it just depends on whether you have enough chips for betrayal.

    Enough chips, no one wants to be a henchman, does it?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Don't insist on love first, let's make good money! Take some savings plus this year's salary, do a good job of your own business next year, and still be afraid that she will change her mind after four years? Even if she changes, you are not afraid that you will not be able to find the right one when you have money.

    It's worth noting that you can be nice to her right now, but you can't spend too much money on her.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The gap between moving bricks and college students, as well as age, is too great, so you just wait to be abandoned!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's like a math problem, true love is invincible! How can you know if you can be together if you don't try, now it is impossible for people of the same age to be completely sure that they will not change their minds together, the most important thing is that you love each other, believe in yourself!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    She couldn't afford it, she hadn't seen anything in high school. It's hard to say when you get to college. It's harder to get into society.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you can't afford it, give it up, find someone who can get married, and get married quickly.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you calculate it like this, can you calculate it, if you wait like this, you may end up alone, in fact, you are not suitable for her.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I guess I'm looking for someone to live a down-to-earth life.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I went to college, the world is bigger, I know more men, and I know more handsome, okay, guess

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Everyone's thoughts are different every day, so be realistic!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Love is about the right door!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I don't think I can afford it, and when she comes out of society, she may not necessarily choose you, maybe she will choose younger than you.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If you go up more, you can get rid of it, it won't last long, otherwise sooner or later he will dump you.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    In today's society, even if you move bricks and have money, you are also a brick mover, understand?

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Moving bricks January 7000 Then I'll throw myself into the river.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Let's get her on first!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Holy, big brother. Can I move bricks with you?

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If it's unstable, don't look for it.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Can you make so much money moving bricks?

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    I think she's just having fun with you.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Find a new one and step out of the shadow of the past.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    As you said, you are only 20 years old, when you are still in your prime, you are depressed because of a broken love, it is too worthless, men are ambitious, they have careers, what women can't find, when you have a successful career, you look back at yourself now, how naïve and ridiculous! Stand up, man!

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    There will be a lot of unsatisfactory and helplessness in life, which is normal, this is the ups and downs. The only attitude is to face it, let it go, look forward, and strive for tomorrow to be a sunny day!!

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Cheer up, where is there no grass in life, not only your girlfriend who has no chance is a woman in the world! Besides, you're young!

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    That's the state of falling out of love now, slowly get used to it, and you will find that falling out of love is also a kind of learning in the future.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    After three months, you will be fine, I understand your pain, you have been there.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Time will work it out, well. With the washing of time, everything will pass.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    This kind of pain is not you, only by finding the next person who loves you, will you have a way forward, you can't give up for a girl, so how can you be worthy of your parents.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    I can't think about it, but it won't take long to forget.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    After a while, you will find that without her, your life is still the same, and the earth is still the same.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    If you don't cheer yourself up, no one can help you.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Look at the opening point, and time will dilute everything.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Little friends, the road of life is difficult, and you have to make friends. My suggestion, have you ever had that? Tell her to tell you. How to do it.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    You'll know how to do it when you're older....

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    It's good to go out and have a super woman come and have a shot.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    Time is the best thing, it will fade after a long time, don't deliberately think about it, my brother has experienced the same thing, but I am more exaggerated than you.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    A lot of people have said that, but whoever leaves can live

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    You're only twenty years old, and you're going to have a girlfriend, ......

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    If you don't meet the right person, life is sunny everywhere.

  62. Anonymous users2023-12-10

    You also said that she is your ex-girlfriend? Let's just say that she is not your girlfriend, she broke up with you for someone else, it can only mean that you are not so important to her, you can see some of it, give up if you can't catch up, don't embarrass yourself.

  63. Anonymous users2023-12-09

    I don't understand what you're saying, or do I have a problem with my understanding...

    You say your girlfriend, and then you say his boyfriend... Who's with whom first ... One moment you really love each other, and one moment her boyfriend knows about the three of them, and she breaks up with you ruthlessly... It's a contradiction...

  64. Anonymous users2023-12-08

    The beautiful can only be remembered, the twisted melon is not sweet, don't be blind.

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