When my boyfriend said this, did he imply that it was time for us to break up, and his parents were

Updated on psychology 2024-05-04
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Personally, I don't feel like you have much hope......In words, he was ready to give up....If a man gives up in his heart, do you think you still have a chance? If he is very determined, even for you and his own parents, in order to fight for you and his own parents, in order to fight to be with you, so that it makes sense for you to persevere, but it seems that he is ready to give up, and advises you to find someone else, maybe he has a hard time, but in the end it is unlikely that you can be together, this is not a blow to your confidence, it is not that you are not optimistic, just analyze it from an objective point of view, I hope you also think it through, if you think it is worth it, just hold on and try again, but also leave yourself a way back, don't let yourself fall into it and can't extricate yourself If you see the situation completely clearly and feel that it is impossible, then end it as quickly as possible This must also strive for the initiative Since he is ready to give up, then you must also minimize the damage to yourself I wish you happiness There are many good men and the end is wrong to meet the right one! Come on, I wish you happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    He's not sure, but he's probably more filial and listens to his parents, so you don't have a good chance

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Without accumulating small streams, there can be no rivers and seas.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hehe, people are realistic, don't think about it, what should you do, do you have a way to solve this problem now? No, then you just don't think about it, learn more things, enrich yourself, and you will meet better ones in the future, depending on your boyfriend's Hehe, let it be.

    Before we got married, we couldn't realize the omnipotence of money, maybe we will understand in the future, don't tell your boyfriend what your dad said "money is not a problem" If your boyfriend is not far away from you because of this, then as soon as you say it, the two of you will be finished, love supported by money is very sad, but if there is no money, love will not be long-term.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Love that is measured by money will not last long.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Such a man broke up as soon as possible. It's clearly for your money!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Parental opposition is simply an excuse, if he really loves you so much, why would he choose to let go just because his parents are opposed, instead of choosing to face his parents with you and strive for his parents' approval.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The point is that does your boyfriend care about money? And how your boyfriend treats you, to be honest, nothing is constant, the key is how you grasp it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    He flinched, unable to hold on. Maybe he thinks it's better to retreat at this time than to be bruised all over his body.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Summary. Good morning, I don't think there's any need to tell his parents, feelings are a matter of two people, it doesn't make sense for you to tell his parents, it was he who proposed it, it means that he wants to think it through, even if you tell his parents, his parents can't influence his thoughts.

    My boyfriend told me to break up, should I tell his parents.

    Good morning, I don't think there's any need to tell his parents, feelings are a matter of two people, it doesn't make sense for you to tell his parents, it was he who proposed it, it means that he wants to think it through, even if you tell his parents, his parents can't influence his thoughts.

    You don't have to tell his parents, if you want to redeem it, you can only start with your boyfriend, and it has little to do with his parents.

    I thought it was not necessary for his parents to know, I didn't know what it was, and it wasn't a big deal, and then I told his mother euphemistically, your son broke up with me, I don't know what the specific reason is, you go and ask him, because his family wants us to be good, it was he who broke up with me, his parents went to dinner with our family the day before yesterday, my boyfriend is not in his hometown, in Beijing, we are in his hometown with her parents.

    What is the reason for your breakup?

    He told me that because I was old and fast-haired, he didn't like it, saying that the two families were not compatible, and that our personalities were not compatible, and that it was okay to be engaged or not, and he had never said that before.

    We used to be very good, since the last Dragon Boat Festival quarrel and broke up and reconciled, we always quarreled, we have been living together for more than a year, and then I went back to my hometown, we have been in a different place for four months recently, always quarreled, he said that he was tired, and the emotional consumption was gone.

    The teacher took a good look at your description, and I think it may be that the two of you often quarrel and annoy him, and he is in a bad mood and is not in the mood to talk, so he proposes to break up, and the quarrel is like this, the more noisy the more the feelings are weaker, and in the end there is no more.

    In fact, it is normal for couples to quarrel, but if one of the two parties bows their heads and admits their mistakes, it can be recovered, if both people are very stubborn, the relationship is irretrievable, and couples should tolerate each other and understand each other.

    I tried to redeem him yesterday, but he said it very absolutely, and I wondered if I should tell his parents about it, and with his character, I would definitely not tell his parents, because we are still neighbors, and we have a good relationship, and we have known each other since childhood.

    Oh, then if you were neighbors before, if you know each other well, you can tell his parents, after all, you can't look up and look down.

    I used to be neighbors, but now I don't live there, but there is also a good relationship between the two families, but I wonder if I should take the initiative to tell his parents, or should I tell my parents about this first, to see what they think and how to deal with it.

    Then since you are old neighbors and are very familiar with each other, you should also tell your parents, and the other party's parents should also say it, otherwise they may be more embarrassed to ask after returning home, and suddenly break up.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Everyone hopes to be able to meet the kind of feelings in their dreams, our love is like multiplication, as long as one of them is zero, the result will always be zero, love is not wishful thinking, but two feelings are pleasing to each other, can feel each other's meticulousness, maybe the other party will not say some vows to themselves, but the other party can let themselves feel the love of the other party, then, this love is worth it, at least they are the treasure in the palm of the other party's hands. The reason why my boyfriend mentions breaking up is that his parents are against us being together, will the guy break up for this reason? I don't think boys will object to this relationship because of their parents, unless the other party is a mother's boy, if they give up this relationship because of their parents, then I don't think there is any need for the two of them to go on.

    One. Many boys will not give up their feelings because of their parents' opposition.

    When many boys want to break up, they will find all kinds of reasons, and the person who really loves you will choose to be with them regardless of their parents' opposition, and will slowly change their parents' minds, rather than choosing to give up the relationship when they are opposed. Boys are not as meticulous as girls, and truly loving someone will not give up this love for other reasons, because when you give up, you will feel extremely painful. <>

    Two. Someone who truly loves you won't find all sorts of reasons to leave you alone.

    If the other party breaks up with him for such a reason, then this relationship is not worth being nostalgic for, just let yourself see each other's faces earlier, and there is still a long life in the future, and we will meet better people, rather than being hurt by the other party, it is better to let go as soon as possible. As we said at the beginning, love is like multiplication, as long as one of them is zero, then, the relationship will always be zero, there will be no result, if you can't feel the other party's meticulousness and sincerity, then the relationship is not worth it. <>

    The above is just a personal opinion, so do you think boys will give up a relationship because of their parents' opposition?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There will also be some boys who listen to their parents very much, so if he chooses to break up with you, then I think you can also stay away from a mother's boy.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Boys should break up for this reason, because boys are more realistic, and sometimes boys will break up for this reason.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Boys will break up for this reason, because boys are more rational, and some boys really listen to their parents.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Summary. Dear, after the breakup, my boyfriend didn't tell his parents about our breakup. It may be that there is still room for it, but the two of you know that you have broken up, and the others don't know yet, and he still wants to get back together with you. It is also possible that he doesn't want his parents to worry about it, so he will talk about it to his parents in the future.

    What does it mean that my boyfriend doesn't tell his parents about our breakup after a breakup?

    Dear, after the breakup, my boyfriend didn't tell his parents about our breakup. It may be that there is still room for it, but the two of you know that you have broken up, and the others don't know yet, and he still wants to get back together with you. It is also possible that he doesn't want his parents to worry about it, so he will talk about it to his parents in the future.

    Why did my girlfriend mention breaking up, but my boyfriend kept silent.

    It may be that the boyfriend felt sudden in his heart and didn't think about breaking up, so he didn't say anything.

    said that he broke up with his girlfriend and returned his boyfriend's money, why did his boyfriend withdraw it.

    Because my boyfriend didn't want to break up, he agreed to break up if he accepted it.

    It's been three days since I broke up, and my boyfriend hasn't contacted my girlfriend, only when my boyfriend's mother contacts my girlfriend.

    Will your boyfriend change her mind?

    On the day of the breakup, my girlfriend deleted her boyfriend, and her boyfriend didn't add her.

    I think boys might change their minds.

    Why did my girlfriend propose to break up?

    I think my boyfriend's mother should like her son's girlfriend very much, and the two of them are often in contact. If he knew that he had broken up, he would definitely persuade his son to chase his girlfriend back. If the boy and the girl have a conflict and break up, after four or five days the mood is more stable, the two people should meet and communicate well.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Summary. You can tell his parents like this: Auntie, sorry to interrupt, I broke up with your son, because when we get along together, there are many aspects that we are not used to.

    None of them fit in, and there is no common language. They quarrel when they live together. He doesn't help with the housework or anything, and I do it all by myself.

    I'm tired when I come back from work every day. He's fine, and he plays with his phone when he gets home. I just can't take it anymore.

    There is no point in saying anything now.

    You can tell his parents like this: Auntie, sorry to interrupt, I broke up with your son, because when we get along together, there are many aspects that we are not used to. None of them fit in, and there is no common language.

    They quarrel when they live together. He doesn't help with the housework or anything, and I do it all by myself. I'm tired when I come back from work every day.

    He's fine, and he plays with his phone when he gets home. I just can't take it anymore. There is no point in saying anything now.

    Auntie, I'm sorry, but I don't have the ability to take good care of your son. Let him leave me. We weren't fated to be together, but I really like you.

    I hope that in the future, even if I am no longer with your son, you will allow me to visit you, because I really like you so much. Reasons for BreakupAfter breaking up, tell your boyfriend's parents directly, you have broken up, why did you break up, what reason, reason, let his parents know in their hearts, it is the boyfriend's problem, parents can make suggestions to help him change himself, although you broke up, his parents will always like you, not suitable to be a daughter-in-law. But it is suitable to be a daughter and godparents, don't hide it from his parents, because if you can hide it for a while, you can't hide it for a long time, and sooner or later you will know.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    1. Parents will know sooner or later, and when parents know instead of knowing from you for the first time, what kind of situations and phenomena do you imagine will appear.

    2. Parents are the people who know your character best, from childhood to adulthood, parents are the people who have been with you for the longest time, and they can see at a glance what you are thinking. So when you communicate with your parents, you can get more comfort from them.

    3. Parents will communicate with you verbally, help you relieve the sadness in your heart, analyze the reasons for your breakup, analyze the inappropriateness between you, and avoid the same mistake last time when you are dating.

    So as to sum up the experience, instead of being sad for someone who does not belong to you.

    4. Sometimes, there is still a certain generation gap between you and your parents, and they don't understand your current life, so when you communicate with your parents, try to be easy to understand.

    5. If you don't want to disappoint your parents too much, you can re-associate with someone who is suitable, and as a parent, I just hope that you will start a family as soon as possible, and I hope you can find a reliable person who suits you, and it doesn't have to be with anyone.

    The best way to do this is to sit down and talk to your parents and make it clear that you have broken up, and that no matter what the reason, parents always want their children to be okay.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think it should be said, if you don't say it sooner or later, you will know, it's better to say it early.

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