What parents say doesn t always count. 30

Tell them that children learn from adults, and that if even their parents are not honest, don't expect their children to learn well.

Let's talk to them, and there should be more communication between family members, so it's prudent to have a family meeting with them.

Belch. Sign the agreement.

You also have to talk and count.

1. Make a contract, and when they don't have pen and paper, they agree to record instead. 2. Tell your parents that you've always liked them, except that you don't like them to mix jokes with promises.

Ask them if they want to ask for the money again, and they say didn't they give it to you, and you say when did you give it? Hehe.

Chinese parents with traditional characteristics are more tired and have a harder life. Your parents often say that they are useless, which is a typical example.

Because they have suffered a lot themselves, they want to do more for their children and pay more, as long as they let their children live well and decently. This kind of comparison mentality is very harmful, as long as they feel that the gap with others is too big and they can't give too much material to their children, they will blame themselves and be sad.

Being a parent, working hard for a career, for a family, and for children, they have all been a little unbearable, but they can bear it. Only in the face of children, sometimes they will even lose control in front of them, showing extreme vulnerability.

As a child, when you know all this, the first line is to understand the difficulty of parents, according to the actual situation of the family, do not make excessive demands on parents, do not try to be vain, and do everything according to your ability. The second is to be grateful for their upbringing, and in addition to studying, do some housework as much as possible, reduce some burdens for parents, and be a sensible and good child. The third is to study hard and report to your parents with excellent results.

I think when parents say that they are useless, it is usually when they feel that they have not given their children better living conditions, at this time, we must comfort our parents, because it is really not easy for them to give birth to you and raise you, so let them stop blaming themselves, they have done well enough.

Parents feel that you should live a better life, you should have some opportunities to get in touch with a wider range of practices, but because of their personal financial ability or their own problems, they can't let you get in touch with a better world, so they blame themselves, so they feel guilty, there is not much you can do, is to repay your parents with better grades and better development conditions, let them know that they don't need your support and efforts, I can also develop very well, they will be very happy to see you live well, There are no high requirements, just hope that their children can live better than themselves.

Personally, I think that my parents often say to themselves that they are very useless, in fact, it is a kind of encouragement to themselves, hoping that they can be motivated and can do better, they all use a more encouraging words to say to you, so you must not hold a grudge against your parents. You must listen carefully to what your parents say.

In fact, I also feel that I am very useless, my father is hospitalized, I can't even ask for leave, my mother wants to buy a house, I can't get out, I can't help with the things at home, it's useless outside, it's not that they think I'm useless, I feel useless myself, I never reciprocate by giving birth to me and raising me.

Your parents often say that you are useless, then others should think the same, of course, you also feel useless in your heart, in fact, you don't care too much about other people's opinions, what you have to do is to realize your dreams in your own way and ideas, people really have to do something in their lives, otherwise when they are old, they recall their lives, leaving nothing behind, and feeling in vain.

In fact, there are still a lot of such situations now, because now the society is developing faster and faster, and sometimes it can't keep up at all, so it will be useless in the eyes of parents, in fact, sometimes they can't see what you are doing at all. You still have to give yourself confidence, after all, you are the one who knows yourself best.

Sometimes your parents want to give you a better life, but they think you are working hard, or when you are working very hard, they always feel that they have given you very little.

That's why they say they're useless and don't bring you a better life.

In fact, we also have to work hard ourselves and be grateful to our parents and tell them that I am very happy.

The health of our parents is our greatest blessing, and we must work hard to make good money to honor our parents.

Hello dear, this situation is open, there are the following situations. First, what parents say doesn't count, you can give your parents advice and tell your parents that if you don't want to do something, don't always promise, let yourself have hope. Second, you can let your parents fulfill their promises and tell them that since they have promised, they must be trustworthy, and third, you can communicate with their parents and let them know that people must be honest and trustworthy, not lies, and they must work hard to achieve their promises, otherwise they will lose their credit.

Summary. Hello dear.

You really don't have any good way to talk about your parents, you can't beat or scold, but you can reason with them and tell them that if you don't count, you will lose your trust, and you will never believe them again. Under normal circumstances, your parents will do what they promise you, unless your requirements are too high, you have to be considerate of your parents' hardships, but it is really not possible, change to a lower condition.

Mom and Dad's words don't count.

Dear, hello parents, you really don't have any good way to talk about it, you can't beat it, you can't scold, but you can reason with them and tell them that if you don't count, you will lose your trust, and you will never believe them again. Under normal circumstances, your parents will do what they promise you, unless your requirements are too high, you have to be considerate of your parents' hardships, but it is really not possible, change to a lower condition.

I asked them for a tablet in the fourth grade, they said to buy it, now in the sixth grade, he said to buy it for me in online classes, now online classes, he promised to buy it for me last night, and he said yes, who knows, today, he lied to me.

You can communicate with your parents, you say that you have promised to buy, if you don't want to buy it for me, you have to stop buying it in the first place, you have not kept your promises, if you don't buy it this time, you will not believe a punctuation mark in the future, anything, anything. Even if you say what time it is and what are you going to eat at noon, I won't believe it anymore.

But you have to combine the situation at home, whether your parents are financially tight, and if so, then you also need to understand your parents

Summary. Hello, Daddy's words don't count, you have to educate him, you tell him, fathers must lead by example, otherwise I will learn from you. Look at what he says, and you have to educate him with the method of agitation.

You are a man to talk to him, a woman is spoiled, just sell a cute one next to him alone, or chat with others, first say that he is good, that is good, say for a long time, let him have a little pride, and add a sentence at the end of the sentence: these are all illusions. If he listens to you and gets angry with you, just ignore him:

Your words don't count, and I will follow your example as an example.

What if Daddy's words don't count.

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Hello, Daddy's words don't count, you have to educate him, you tell him, fathers must lead by example, otherwise I will learn from you. Look at what he says, and you have to educate him with the method of agitation. You are a man to talk to him, a woman is spoiled, just sell a cute one next to him alone, or chat with others, first say that he is good, that is good, say for a long time, let him have a little pride, and finally add a sentence at the end of the sentence :

These are all illusions. If he listens to you and gets angry with you, just ignore him: your words don't count, and as an example, I will follow your example.