Should we continue or end? Isn t it time for us to finish?

Updated on healthy 2024-03-04
5 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I'm also going to study abroad, and I can see that you really love him. If the relationship is average, it will be separated early. Personally, I think that unless the two of you have a very good relationship, the chances of being in a good relationship for four years are very small.

    Because not only him, but you are also likely to meet another Chinese you like abroad, (knowing that most girls have no good impression of their foreigner boyfriends). I still support you very much, and I suggest that you try to save this relationship, just ask him directly, don't beat around the bush. Tell her your love for her, and I'm sure he can feel it.

    At the same time, let him also know your hopes and requirements for him, ask him what he thinks in his heart, whether it is the same as you think, and whether you have a common tomorrow and goals. But don't overthink it. If you've done everything and you still can't get him back, then don't hang yourself from a tree.

    I hope you are happy.

    He said that it is not yet the time to take me back, saying that there is no job and no graduation, no capital to talk about marriage, at least wait for me to graduate and work, I thought, my family does not suspect that he has not graduated and has no job, my father also said, mainly depends on whether the boy has potential, but my boyfriend is now annoyed to listen to me, saying that I will disappear when I mention going to his house in the future, I am very sad, if he is telling the truth in this passage, it proves that he is a responsible, thinking farther away, but if he is to perfunctory you, That proves that he is terrified and impatient about the future of the two of you. I can only analyze this in his heart, and the rest depends on your evaluation of his essence.

    And speaking of his mother, I think that whether the relationship between the two of you is good or bad, if you marry him, it is likely to be a problem and trouble that you will face for the rest of your life. There are many mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law who are not in harmony, but there are also many mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law who have a very harmonious relationship, depending on the person's experience. I think you're at a disadvantage if you rate your marriage.

    Finally, whether you are in the same country or in a foreign country, remember that it is always taboo to get together less and leave more, no matter how good the relationship is. Over time, there will always be all kinds of problems. So I hope you can think about the two of you objectively and the crises you may encounter in the future.

    Of course, if you still love him, he still loves you. Then just enjoy the process wholeheartedly. I still hope you two are happy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What kind of mother is he, the first time I went to his house, I wanted you to work, and if you really get married, you won't die bitterly! You have to let your boyfriend know that it is you and not his mother who will live with him for the rest of his life, if he can't even do this little thing, then this man is useless, his mother doesn't want her son to be good at all, she just thinks that her daughter-in-law can work for their family like a donkey in the future, and she doesn't dare to talk to her!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When the interruption continues, there will be chaos! The boyfriend's vague way of dealing with the problem is very wrong.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Divide! Simple and straightforward....His house is not for you....And you don't fit into his family....Finally, a weak sentence....Give points....

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    First of all, congratulations on the new stage of your love.

    During the hot love period when men and women love each other, the other party is good for everything. From strangers who have just met to princes and princesses in love, everyone sees each other's strengths, and if they find a little flaw, they will be filtered and ignored. In order to have a deep relationship with the person you like, both parties will restrain their own thoughts and behaviors, show their best side to each other, and deliberately make each other satisfied.

    And once the love period is over, sooner or later it will be restored and show its true self. At this time, it is normal for two ends to quarrel for three days.

    It's a pity to give up easily at this time, it's too hasty. Why don't you calm down and think about why you tried to walk together before? What is most intriguing about each other? What is the reason for the frequent quarrels now? The two sides disagree in **?

    Now is the real beginning of your love, to figure out what is the reason for the quarrel? Is it the vexatious behavior of one party, or the fact that one party has violated the issue of principle, or whether the outlook on life, values, and love of both parties is contrary to each other.

    You ask yourself again, in the face of an unreasonable lover, are you willing to use it as the spice of life, and use your own wisdom and tolerance to resolve it, or you can't accept it; In the face of principled issues, the bottom line of your forgiveness and acceptance is in**?

    This is the time when you really get to know each other and adjust to each other. Every day you go through something, you ask yourself if you're happy with her, is that what I want? Am I willing to tolerate her shortcomings?

    How do I see what happened today? Does the other person have the same views and attitudes as me? After a period of continuous experience, verification, and search for answers, you will become more and more aware of whether you should be together or not.

    At this time, it was decided to talk about it and then choose. Maybe you can love each other more and more, or maybe you will go your separate ways. In short, no regrets!

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