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You are so good to her that you have lost yourself, in fact, sometimes the more you treat her, the more she will take it for granted, and never think: You are so good to me, I will remember, and I will treat you well. Very few women think like this, so you should get back to the original you, you pay so much, you are tired, and she will not think about it for you.
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Anyway, if she can meet a man like you who treats her well, she should be okay, but such a person is difficult to find, sometimes people can't follow her in everything, so that after a long time, you will only get used to her bad things more and more.
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Showing off the post and basically certainly saying something is definitely not the user's behavior.
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Since you like her so much, you still care about him, and you are worried about whether there is a good man to take care of her, then why do you want to separate from her? Just because you're tired? You have been together for 6 years, it is impossible not to be tired, your love has been transformed into a family affection!
Maybe they quarrel occasionally, but each other is used to each other, why be so selfish to leave the people who love you and the people you love? Aren't you afraid that you will regret it? If you really want to break up, I think it will be difficult for a girl who is used to relying on you to accept this fact, she will be very sad!
As for whether you can find a better man than you in the future, that's something that no one can predict! I hope you cherish your feelings!
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I think you should talk about it, the six-year relationship is not said to be in the past, you have a girl to rely on is a kind of happiness, girls are to be spoiled, if not then you must be a person who will not love, learn to be tolerant.
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You should be a good man, but true love is not tired, and society is too realistic.
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People are always trying to grow, and they can't rely on anyone for the rest of their lives
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Everyone has shortcomings, the key is whether you can accept her shortcomings, and if she can't change her shortcomings, can you tolerate them? After all, falling in love is not getting married, falling in love is to see if two people are suitable, if it is suitable, enter into marriage, and break up bravely if it is not suitable.
If falling in love is about running towards happiness, then so is breaking up.
Furthermore, she has a disease, so what is the reason for her illness? If it is a life style problem, then it must be resolutely broken up, if it is caused by other reasons, then it means that the girl's life style is fine, and it will definitely be cured. If you love her, just tolerate her well, and the two of them will run in well, after all, teeth and tongues are still fighting, and there are no two people in the world who are naturally suitable.
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First and foremost, do you really love her? I believe that if you really love her, her badness is not a problem in your eyes at all. I believe that there is no need to say this, there must be an answer in your own heart. In other words, whether you want to spend the rest of your life with her.
Secondly, let's talk about the so-called shortcomings of this girl. First of all, single-parent family, I believe we all have more or less understanding of the word single parent, the atmosphere of the original family will affect the child, this is already a well-recognized conclusion. If your girlfriend is influenced by her family in some way, I believe it will take a long time to change, and here you play a key role.
Let's look at the issue of STDs again. First of all, there is a disease that can be cured, and as far as I know, your girlfriend's illness is completely possible. Secondly, it is whether you can accept her past. If that's acceptable, the next step is to pay attention to maintaining a healthy sex life.
Let's look at the issue of temper tantrums. We can do this with the swearing**. In fact, it is said that "the country is difficult to change, and the nature is difficult to change."
But there is another saying, "At the beginning of man, nature is good." In fact, the more grumpy a person is on the surface, she is often very soft and kind in her heart. I don't know what kind of personality your girlfriend is, but you have to see if she has a kind heart.
There is a saying that is particularly reasonable, that is, "You must not have the heart of harming others, and you must not have the heart of preventing others." "You can refer to it.
Let's take another look at the problem of throwing things and arguing and hitting people. In fact, it is normal for two people to quarrel. It takes both people to have an inclusive heart.
But hitting people and throwing things must be changed. You have to tell her well, I believe that these two problems will be corrected, and we need to use the right method. Actually, when my dad used to dry the rack with my mom, he used to break things.
Later, our home was renovated, and the furniture in the house was replaced with more formal and expensive furniture. Probably because he was worried about money, my dad never destroyed the furniture again.
Finally, let's take a look at the problem of complaining. Actually, I think when a girl complains, she must want to be comforted by you. But that's not to say that you need to be infinitely tolerant of her complaints.
It's more about listening carefully to what she's complaining about and why. Then you can enlighten her based on your own experience, and even teach her some ways to get along with people.
Now let's take a look at the pros of your girlfriend. I won't say too much here. Suffice it to say that behind a successful man, there will always be a great woman.
If she can run the house for you and support you in the family. This shows that she is willing to work with you and shoulder the responsibility for the family with you. This problem will be more reflected in the family after marriage.
The last thing I want to suggest to you is that, after all, you have known each other for 2 years, and I hope you will refer to what I said above and think about the breakup calmly.
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If it's not suitable, just break up, and just spend your whole life deciding how to live for yourself.
Don't think about her good, her bad. Only you want to or not.
If you feel tired, you can calm down for a short time. I'm making decisions about my life.
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Of course, if you break up, you will be very uncomfortable for the rest of your life, so change to a more suitable one, don't be too sad.
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I think since you are here to ask, you may be planning to break up with her, if you feel that you can't accept her shortcomings, don't force yourself, if you love her very much, you won't ask if you want to break up.
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It's up to you, if you don't feel happy, if you're not warm, then break up, love is a matter of two people, you have to feel happy and warm, hehehe, think about it carefully.
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In the adult world, there must be a standard and bottom line for everything, love is compatible, and if you don't love, you have to give up. Don't force it if you don't like it, a lifetime is a long time, but there is no reincarnation.
Although everyone is not perfect, there are some things and some people you can't change her, so let's do it!
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Illness can be cured, personality can't be changed, think about it yourself, your days together, more happiness or more troubles, if there are more troubles, divide it, a lifetime of happiness.
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It's not advisable to drop things.
You can lose your temper, you can be noisy, you can be emotional, but it is not advisable to drop things, otherwise no matter how much furniture you buy at home, no matter how many supplies you buy at home, it will be broken, which is the destruction of property.
If your temper can be lowered by him, then it's okay, if you can't control her, then there will be a lot of quarrels in your future life, and this kind of life is also more troublesome, you think about it yourself.
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I am also a single parent, and I am also short-tempered, I also love to complain, I love to scold, I also love to quarrel and beat people, I drop things occasionally, I can cook but I am not proficient, and I can do housework. But I also got married and had children. Your girlfriend should not mind if you really love her except for STDs.
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…Allow me to be silent for a moment!
Do you love her?! If you love her, change her She grew up in a single family and is a bit quirky you should understand! But she still has merit to speak of, right?
Please believe that love can change a person! It will make you laugh with joy!
Change someone, it's a happy and beautiful thing!
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If you have a sexually transmitted disease, you can't accept it, and everything else can be changed.
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If you really like her, you won't send us this question to help you answer.
I don't like it anymore, so I follow myself. It's better for both parties to end it early.
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Everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages, we are looking for objects mainly because we pay attention to that point, we have to have a trade-off in our own hearts, and comparison, there is no perfect person.
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The second drawback, which is a bit scary, is better to treat it first.
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It's a bit scary to quarrel and beat someone.
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I just don't want to have anything to do with you anymore, friends inevitably mention each other's lovers or something, she tells her friends that they broke up, and no one mentions you, in short, she wants to completely break off the relationship.