I m not CHU, I m afraid he knows, what to do

It depends on whether your boyfriend cares very much, and some people are more conservative. Even a man who is more open-minded has a bit of a plot in this regard, other people's wives can, but their own can't (although I personally think this is wrong, but there is no way). Unless he grew up abroad or something, that's a different story.

Whether you want to be fake or not depends on yourself, you can do it if you want to, it doesn't matter. But there is one thing you must remember, there are some things that you can't be too frank about, especially don't tell him about your ex-boyfriend as it is, otherwise it will be difficult to eliminate the shadow, let him downplay the past, after all, the future is more important. Choose your lifelong partner carefully, a good man with a big heart, and someone who truly loves you, will not change his mind because of this incident!

Don't feel guilty and be brave enough to find true love. Good luck!

One, let's be honest, it might be better this way, I mean when he asks, most men don't ask, unless they're not grown up.

Second, if you lie to him, the man will be more sad, because he can see that you are lying to him, but he will always feel sad or cold. You must know that it doesn't matter if you ride a bicycle ugly, you are such a beautiful ghost and will not believe you.

Third, when a man is looking for a beautiful woman, he will generally think that the other party may have experienced a relationship, so it is generally not the point to get around, the key part is the reason why you are not together and broke up, he will define the index of security or the degree of aggression of his possessiveness.

Fourth, go with the flow, and play the role of tears when it is critical, a man's nirvana.

Five, on the other hand, the man you're looking for won't be bad, right? Then he also has an experience like you, maybe he thinks about how to get you Just kidding) In short, it's the growth of experience, and no one can guarantee who is right and who is wrong when injured, and it's not a young lady, I think men will be sad but they will accept it.

Sixth, everything goes naturally, and it is enough for him to understand that you love him.

Regarding this issue, first of all, you should have a correct understanding, do it, there is nothing to be embarrassed about, and you may not go back to the past, you must face up to the reality that you are no longer chunv, although there are some losses, but you are still an excellent girl! It's better to cover it up, otherwise wouldn't it be worse if he found out later?

If he can't accept it, should you commit your life to him???

Happiness to you!

They won't mind if they like you.

You shouldn't take this too seriously.

Society is realistic.

It's better not to say anything and just let it be.

Go fix it, you don't mind talking about your boyfriend.

Ay. All the women said they were broken by riding a bicycle. Ha ha..

You can say it again, too.

But this kind of thing can't be hidden, he will know sooner or later, so it is recommended that you tell him the truth earlier, although he will be uncomfortable and mind if he knows, but if he really loves you, then he will still forgive you, I wish you happiness.

Let's listen to his opinion first, and if he minds, you should think of a way to make amends; If he doesn't mind, he can tell him frankly, after all, this society is still very realistic!

It's okay to be fake.

Man, it's all false to say you don't mind.

There's just no way.

White lies are sometimes quite good.

Or make a fake! Or face it bluntly! It's best to say it before you get married!

Rest assured, people who really love you won't care very much.

If he loves you, he won't mind, and on the contrary, he doesn't want to have such a love

It's better not to lie to men.

If he is happy to tell other men that his wife is a virgin.

And the person listening to it happens to be your man.

At this time, your husband's dignity was degraded by you.

As a man's wife.

You're useless, you're going to be nothing.

The dignity and face of her husband should be put first.

Insulting him like this is not loving him, it is a sign of your selfishness.

If you love him, don't lie to him.

If he loves you too, I'm sure he won't mind.

Let him know that you only love him now.

If he minds, he can't help it.

It was better for him to know than he got married later.

The consequences should be good.

Trust that the man you love will understand you.

Happiness to you!

If it's really not much, it's much easier, and if it's much, then you can see it.

Let's go for surgery, if you don't do it, it's okay to start with it, and you're going to inevitably have friction in the future, and I'm afraid that you'll mention it when the time comes, and it's kind of a handle, just in case.

Let's do it anyway.

To be honest, what age is it, if that man still cares about this, he is not a good man.

If you don't have much previous experience, you might as well opt for surgery. In order to make him feel happy, I think white lies are understandable, but it is better to be very secretive, never to be discovered, you know, this kind of thing, once you do it, you have to hide it for the rest of your life. If you have a lot of experience before, let's be honest, you can't be fooled.

I want to tell the brother who was the first to answer! In fact, men still care a lot about whether girls are in the right place, even if they are very indifferent now, but after marriage, they will still occasionally show dissatisfaction! Of course, there are also men who really don't care, but this is divided into two situations, one is that he really loves you very much, which is too rare, and the other is that he just wants to enjoy your body temporarily, and he doesn't care what you used to be like, because he doesn't want to be with you in the future!

Suggest that if you think your boyfriend loves you enough, you should tell him sincerely, if he loves you very much, he will understand you, so it is better than being found out in the future! If you also plan to play with him for a while, it is better to hide it! Ay.

Why did you indulge yourself before? Regret it, right? Ay.

Be careful!

Not at allDon't you understand the saying that paper can't contain fire?

Can you hide it for a while, can you hide it for a lifetime? If you know about it after many years, you will be more passive.

Why don't you make it clear now, tell him everything, and if he loves you, he will definitely accept you. Can you understand?

If you really love that person, then you have to say it.

It would be even worse if you deceived him.

After all, people now accept this kind of stuff and they mind.

It can only be seen if his feelings for you can transcend his own traditional notions.

I think it's better to say it, at least it's very honest! If he really minds, maybe you are really fated to be inseparable, and he is not the happiness you are waiting for!

Happiness to you!

When he finds out later, he will hate you. You shouldn't lie to him, tell him.

Although this is a really serious problem.

A friend of mine she's not a virgin, she's in love with a guy, and that boy is a virgin,-

After they talked for a long time, my friend told him that it was not a place, he was shocked at the time, and then he didn't contact him for a long time, but after 1 week, he told my friend, although I care, I think your first time is mine, just me, but you told me, the psychology must have gone through a lot of ideological struggles and contradictions, I know that you really love me, you believe in me, so don't mention this matter again in the future. ,

Ahem. Don't be a fake! Men can tolerate their women making mistakes! But we will never tolerate being deceived!! I swear, if you lie to him, you'll be discovered!! You're done! This is not alarmist!!

I think, I personally don't recommend going fake, that's cheating, everyone should learn like me, hehe, keep it for the first time until the day of marriage

Depending on your luck, maybe you should just tell the person about it.

What are you afraid of, what does he care about shows that he doesn't really love you.

If I love someone, I don't care about her past.

1. Do you make sure again first to confirm that it is not your husband's?

2. If it is confirmed that it is not your husband's, then, you take the initiative to confess to your husband, and be ready for your divorce and taking care of the children by yourself.

3. Talk to the child's biological father about it. If possible, start a family with him, so that the baby can have a complete home.

4. Don't make any requests to your husband, such as dividing the family property. Because it's your fault in the first place.

Hello! I guess there may be some perfection in your heart, you want to be elegant, intelligent, considerate, and make everyone like it, you are afraid of quarrels, you are afraid of unpleasant relationships, but you can't do it, you will have a lot of guilt, frustration, because of introverted relationships, strong self-reflection, so often think, causing a lot of pain. Or have had an unpleasant relationship before, have negative expectations for interpersonal interactions, and are always worried that others will cheat on you, hurt you, and take advantage of you.

If you don't even know if you are chu or not, then you can be fooled.

Since he is not married yet, there is still a chance to find a suitable opportunity to talk about his own affairs and see if he can understand, no matter whether the result is good or bad, after all, he is not married.

If he only finds out about this thing after getting married, and he cares about this kind of thing very much, it will really not end up at that time, so do more things that move him, so that he won't think too much.

Talk to him well, if he really loves you, he won't care about that membrane.

Don't tell him that you don't have a membrane.

You go to the hospital and fix one! Let's make a fake!

I'm sure he's at least 26-28 years old, right?

If you say that you are not a chu girl at this age, the consequences are still more serious!

Hey! I also answered the same question. Give him the rest of your first time! For example, cooking, everything! Sincerely do everything for him! How do you know if he'll be with you forever if you don't give it a try!

It's not as complicated as you think, but you complicate it, he loves you and you love him. But you feel guilty in your own heart, it won't work for you to break up, and you don't want each other. Together, you love to think ...

It's good to be relaxed, it's good to be nice to her, and it's good to be kind to yourself.

Everyone has their own past, forget about her, you tell him right, give him the right to choose, you also have to respect his decision, after all, love is free, if he really loves you, he won't care about this, it's just the past, but this takes a little time for a man to adapt, I wish you happiness.

Since he is willing to accept everything from you, it means that he truly loves you. Now there are really very few such good men, you don't want to give up a person who really loves you for the sake of momentary emotions, in that case, you will regret it, regret it for life. Seize the opportunity, cherish the people who love you, and wish you happiness.

Didn't you say that he can tolerate everything about you, like you will not care much about your past, but more about your future.