I want to give up, sane Should I give up my ideals?

Friends suggest that you don't always stay at home with your girlfriend, and go to the nearby parks and theaters (preferably at night) to see if you can get back the feeling of being in love, because you do the same thing every day, facing the same person, maybe you will find the new person more attractive, do you make sure that she will not change after falling in love?

Friends, after a woman falls in love, she is not as rational as before she fell in love, so reasonable, this is a manifestation of love for you, change the environment in which you get along, try again, if it doesn't work, don't give up casually if you haven't tried for too long, you know?

I shouldn't have cohabited with her if I didn't want to marry her, and abandoning her now is an irresponsible performance, unless she is willing.

Responsible BA adjusts the mentality.

Let's see if it's true.

It's really going to hurt her.

You're the bad guy Why are men all the same.

I think you should be responsible for your current girlfriend, no one is static. Think about it, what you like is the divorced woman, and she can divorce you in the future, how long have you known each other? How much do you know about her?

Since there is someone who truly loves you, then you have to cherish it, whether she has no education or nothing.

Responsibilities and feelings are chosen by yourself.

Your girlfriend must be a woman who doesn't understand men, she doesn't know how to capture men's hearts. So there are often thoughts that make you want to give up, you say that she is not the person you want to marry, then what did you do with her at the beginning, and you also made a human life, you now feel that you don't feel at all with her, but when you really separate, it will be too late to regret it.

This is not a matter of reason, but it depends on whether you are compatible or not? Do you love each other?

Personal thoughts.

To be a man, you have to be responsible.

I think that a person keeps struggling in order to realize one of his ideals, which is an act worthy of affirmation of Zhaoliang. At the same time, you also need to set practical goals according to your own conditions, and if you find that your ability cannot be reached, you should give up in time. Don't run all the way to the dark, it's really not worth it.

First of all, I applaud this lady for her perseverance. Because to do something, you have to have a persistent attitude. If we give up in the face of difficulties and setbacks, then we will never be able to achieve our dreams.

In my hometown, there was also a girl who had been taking the civil service exam for eight years, and finally passed the exam in the eighth year. I think if she gives up halfway, she will lose such an opportunity, and it may become a regret for him for the rest of his life. No matter how hard you put in, as long as you can make your dreams come true, it is worth affirming.

Secondly, everyone has their own aspirations, and everyone's choice should be respected. Some people's lifelong dream is to be admitted to graduate school, so she will continue to work hard and struggle for her dream, no matter how much she pays and how much she loses, he doesn't feel pity. I have a colleague who took the graduate school exam while working after graduating from college, and she also took the fourth exam to get in, and then she quit her job and went to graduate school, and after graduation, she found a better job as she wished.

As an outsider, there is no need to discuss and blame them for these actions, because they are working hard for their dreams and should be respected and understood.

Third, dreams should match one's strengths. Of course, in the case of my own strength and my hard work, I must make unremitting efforts to realize my dreams. But if you don't have that strength, don't set yourself an unrealistic goal.

You should only implement your goals when they are possible, and if there is no possibility of achieving them, you should not do them, which will be in vain.

If you really don't want to give up your ideals, then you can find a job first and work hard while working, so that you can also achieve self-reliance, without increasing the burden on your family, and at the same time, you can also achieve your ideal goals, I think this is the most worthwhile.

Failure is the cornerstone of success, and giving up may allow you to avoid facing the difficulties and challenges that allow you to grow and improve. By accepting challenges and facing difficulties, you can accumulate more experience and skills, and enhance your self-confidence and courage.

Hello dear, I'm glad to answer for you, and thank you for your patience! You can argue that giving up may be a sensible choice, but it's not always the best option. Failure is the cornerstone of success, and giving up may allow you to avoid the difficulties and challenges that give you the opportunity to grow and improve.

Moreover, giving up can also bring regrets, and if you give up on pursuing your dreams and goals, you may regret missing out on some valuable opportunities and experiences. On the road to becoming a complete slippery worker, you may experience some failures and setbacks, but these experiences are valuable and can help you grow and progress better.

In real life, the reason why we give up the career we are pursuing, and the ideals and dreams we once had, I personally think that it is because of the following factors that make us make such a particularly tangled and sad decision.

First of all, after I have worked hard for myself, I have been obsessed with the cause I have been pursuing, and I find that this career is very different from my ideal goal, so that I realize that my previous efforts are not worth it, so in this case, I will wake up, I will let myself completely give up the career I once pursued, and I will find a career that is really suitable for me, and no longer waste my precious time and energy because of my own obsession and blindness.

On the other hand, the reason why he will give up the career he has pursued is very likely to be because of the factor of imitating the wheel for his family, nonsense, when he reaches middle age, he is injured and young, and he suddenly realizes that he can not use all his energy and time on his career, and he should consider taking care of his family and doing his duty in the family, so in this case, he will give up the career he has pursued, and will put more thoughts on his family, Because this way you won't let yourself have any regrets, which is also very understandable.

But no matter what, giving up the career you once pursued will make you feel a sense of entangled grip and sadness in your heart, but we also clearly realize that there are two sides to everything, so when we give up the career we have pursued and feel pain, we must also adjust our mentality, thinking that we will get other different feelings and compensation after giving up.