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Don't think about your ex anymore, despite any regrets or residual feelings. Because you have to love you, the person who was there for you when you lost love. Remember that he is not a spare tire, but someone who cherishes you. No matter how good the ex is, he can't go back, and if he is separated, he will be separated.
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Prove that your ex still has a place to love, although it has become a thing of the past, but his good is still deeply remembered and missed.
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The ex is the person who has accompanied you through a period of life, there is no completely deleted format in life, only let ta be there, not just red roses or white roses, as long as the past is always the scenery.
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Personally, I feel that feelings are really too elusive, just like there is a saying: dare to ask what the world is like, and teach people to live and die. I can't put it down.
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I can't let it go, I'm very nostalgic and painful, some things and people can never be forgotten in a lifetime, and there are too many things experienced.
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When it is broken, it is broken, and it is not disturbed! If it were me, I would quickly cut through the mess and dump him first!
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I feel that this kind of person is the most hateful, since they broke up, they should be broken cleanly, otherwise they should not have a girlfriend again.
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In my opinion, the entangled person is the most emotional, because he can't let go of this relationship, and he wants to save the other party, as long as he is not too persistent, this kind of person is reliable, maybe finding a current one is not necessarily better than the predecessor.
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It's boring to put it aside, and it's a pity to lose it. Can't find a better one, if there is a current one, it's scum.
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I hate such an ex the most, it's him who broke up, you're very hurt, the injury is about to heal, he's coming to you again, it's not good, it's gone, you almost came out, he hit ** from time to time, it's not a pity that this kind of person really dies 10,000 times, only slap him a few times with his own hands to let him remember, don't mess with me again.
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It should be that the remaining feelings are not over, and there is still nostalgia in my heart! If you don't have a current one, go and get back together with your ex, and if you have a current one, break off contact.
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and the person who is entangled with the ex, and also starts a new relationship, so such a person is an emotionally disloyal person.
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My husband's ex-wife has been pestering and feeling disgusting.
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In love life, no one is sure that their love life is smooth sailing, two people together will have countless quarrels and angry moments, but still can't resist the moment when two people reunite and embrace each other after a long absence, after experiencing a lot of feelings, look back and find that what they love is still the original lover, and some people have become a passerby in their own lives, and they can't erase it in their hearts for a long time. So now let's look at such a problem, knowing that the ex is not good, but still entangled with the other party, why is this? When two people are together, they may break up for various reasons, and sometimes because they are used to every day with each other, they are particularly uncomfortable after losing, so they still choose to entangle with each other after the breakup.
One. Accustomed to the days when there is each other.
In love life, I think habits are more terrible than liking, because getting used to the existence of a person, in every corner of life can recall the days when two people were together, whenever they get together to a place where two people have been, it is easy to touch the scene, although the other party is not good, but it has left too many traces in their own lives, and they can not be forgotten for a long time. Many people are still entangled with their ex after a breakup, maybe because they can't let go, maybe because they are used to having each other's life and don't want to let go. <>
Two. To love someone is to be responsible for one's own love.
It's not a shame to be entangled with your ex, but the premise is that the other party has no object, and there is still a trace of thought for each other, and entanglement at this time may also rekindle the feelings of the two people. Some people are like this, they often don't cherish it when they get it, and they only know that the other party appears in their lives when they lose it, which is a very happy thing. We have to be responsible for our love, and don't wait until the time of loss, leaving ourselves with only infinite repentance and regret.
The above is just a personal opinion, so why do you think many people are always entangled with their exes?
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This is because the two have a deep relationship before, so they still miss each other after separation, so they will be entangled with each other.
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I can't let go of this relationship in my heart, and I still have expectations for him, hoping that the other party can find out that he is good and good to himself.
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You know, after you broke up, you were strangers, and there was no use in pestering your ex
Spend the whole day quietly reminiscing about your time together. The beauty of love and the torment before breaking up are best written down and then lit on the lighter to burn them.
You'd better develop the habit of writing a diary every day, and write your current life into a diary, both good and bad; The most important thing is to write about the impact of their departure on you, and you will find that you actually don't care about them more and more.
The best way to forget a relationship is to start a new relationship, don't reject contact with the opposite sex, and don't deliberately look for the shadow of someone else, you left a small tree in exchange for a tropical rainforest.
If you are really tortured by your ex and want to forget about him quickly, then you can write down his shortcomings, the more complete the better, the more detailed the better, find your best friend, read to them every day, and within a few days you will find that you were too stupid before, and your heart will not be so uncomfortable.
Seeing this, is that person in your heart becoming clearer and clearer? Although I'm writing a strategy for quickly forgetting my ex, I still can't bear to let two people who love each other die like this. If you still love ta, she also loves you, so hold on for a while, and there is no hurdle in life that you can't overcome.
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I think the premise of asking this question is that I don't like this person anymore, and I don't think there is much possibility of getting back together. Under such a premise, we must resolutely reject his overtures and give no hope. Because the reason for entanglement is generally nothing more than two kinds, one is still love, and the other is unwilling.
As a mature person, his refusal to let go and entanglement may lead you to fall into the relationship again, or to be soft-hearted and get back together in order to avoid trouble. In that case, the root cause of the last separation is not resolved, and it will only be repeated and separated again. This can cause further damage to both people.
Moreover, if he has already started another life, and his refusal to let go or entanglement is a burden, which will affect the harmony in his current life, since this is the case, he must be firm and completely cut off his illusion that it is possible to reunite.
In addition, if his entanglement has reached the level of harassment, it will only exacerbate the deterioration of the relationship and eventually lead to a situation that is even more difficult to manage. As an ex or admirer, he should redeem and pursue without disturbing the other person's life, and once the other party feels troubled, it should be stopped immediately. And for this kind of behavior, I think you must not slow down and choose to be friends or something.
Because for those who have intentions, easing will make him want to go further, he will want more, and it is impossible to stay in the position of a friend with peace of mind, so he will never have any illusions and stride forward. No one can live without him, and neither does he. If he will behave more excessively, it is not a bad idea to take coercive measures, I also believe that time will ** him, and you and I just need to go to your own life and live the life you want.
Therefore, if he does not let go and will even pester you, you must be firm in yourself, have the courage to refuse, and act responsibly for both parties, while also protecting yourself and taking care of yourself.
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