What if I look down on rural students?

Pride and inferiority are due to different people's concepts. You and they have experienced different living environments, and your behavior and habits will naturally be different. I think you should first respect others, understand the strengths and advantages of others, the hard work and simplicity of rural students are also beautiful qualities, imagine that you can get along with people at different levels, and harmonious, isn't it a valuable experience?!

If you become the boss one day, the people under your command must be from all over the world, all kinds of people, and your experience will tell you that experience is the best teacher! Bless you, I hope you have learned a lot, and you can study and live happily!

I'm a college student now, and I was born in a provincial capital.

I was in an aristocratic school in junior high school.

But when I got to high school, I went to an ordinary school.

Most of the class came from the countryside, and I looked down on them just like you at first, thinking that they wore dirt, no brand, and some bad habits of spitting, and I couldn't stand it, and I felt that I was different from them, and even felt that I was superior to them, so I consciously distanced myself from them, and as a result, after 3 years of high school, the contact was limited to those few people, and the others basically didn't have contact, and now in college, I regret it, because high school friends are very precious, after all.

Experiencing the battlefield of the college entrance examination together is a competitor and a friend, so I suggest that you can get closer to them, such as playing ball, inviting guests or something, don't show contemptuous expressions and actions in front of them (note that expressions are easy to reveal inadvertently), at least you must be able to meet, smile, and say hello, after all, gentlemen's friendship is as light as water.

In this way, you can handle the relationship in the class without affecting your grades.

Hope it helps.

Actually, it's your mentality that's wrong.

Rural students are human beings, but because they live in a different environment than you.

So it's normal to behave differently.

Put your mind at peace and you will find the good things about rural children.

Isn't their simplicity and enthusiasm also a hot topic?

And their strong desire to change their fate of learning attitude is also worth learning.

You will slowly change your mentality.

Everyone is equal, he may not be as good as you in learning, but there must be something worth learning from you, such as the perseverance of rural children, or their simplicity, try to communicate more, you can help him in learning, they will also have what you need, long to find it.

Learn to respect, you can integrate into their lives, you just need to treat their behavior as ordinary, key high schools have their own style, rural high schools have their own characteristics, you may not notice it for a while. I've got your back!

What's wrong with the countryside.

Do you think that you used to be a student in a key high school, and you were better than others Don't forget, that was before, and now you are not you, are you the smartest among them I don't think so, don't think that you used to look down on people, the teachers taught very poorly, and you can't get used to their behavior, then you go back to go to that high school, I think that high school has more than you, one less than you, I don't think it matters, self-righteousness, don't think too highly, that will fall very loudly.

Should they be looked down upon Good one to look down on I think what should be looked down on is you are all in high school and don't even understand the truth of following the local customs Haha It's funny.

In fact, rural children also have a simple and innocent side, to dig out the good things of others and establish a friendship of mutual respect, why not.

Everyone in this world is a peasant, and who has not been transformed from a peasant to a so-called "urban person", and looking down on them is tantamount to looking down on himself.

It's just that you should look down on you, sometimes you have to be extreme, kid, there's nothing wrong with what you're doing!

Personally, I think you have something wrong Why look down on others If you want to say that you look down on those who are of inferior quality, your values...

Actually, nothing....Because they also despise you....Will people who don't know how to respect others be respected by others?

It may be better to suggest that you do this, so as to avoid the embarrassment of being looked down upon and not to make people think that you are bragging.

Say more to jealous relatives and friends.

Among relatives and friends in their hometowns, especially in rural areas, there are also some people who are petty and jealous, and who can't look down on others and can't make more money than themselves.

For this kind of relatives and friends, when they ask you how much money you can earn in the first month, if you earn 5,000 a month, it can be said that you only earn three or four thousand, and if you earn 10,000 a month, you can say 5 to 6,000, just say a rough number, let them guess.

In front of this kind of relatives and friends, remember not to say it in a down-to-earth manner, let alone to say it outward.

Because in their hearts, they don't want you to earn a high salary, they don't want you to quarrel with their family, you earn more than him, you feel uncomfortable, you will be unbalanced, you will gossip about you everywhere, so it will not benefit yourself at all.

To people who have always looked down on you in the past. Earn less and say more.

Among those who work outside the home, due to poor family conditions in their hometowns in the past, they were relatively poor, and they were often looked down upon by relatives and friends who were hungry by their neighbors and right chains, and they looked down on you in their hearts because they felt that you would not be productive for the rest of your life.

When you come home for the Chinese New Year, this kind of person will naturally have a curiosity about you, and always want to ask how much money you have earned in the first month outside to satisfy your voyeuristic desires.

But when they ask how much money you can earn a month, at this time, you have to say more about slapping a swollen face and being fat, if you ask to make only 4,000 a month, it will be 6,000, if you only earn 5,000 a month, it will be 7,000, and you will also say that the work is very easy, and you will be paid for cooling in summer, heating expenses in winter, and the work benefits are very good, and so on. Don't let them find a way to continue to look down on you, don't let them get psychological satisfaction, so that they will look down on you.

It's because you're not confident in yourself, and then you're not confident in your roots, that's all.

You are a rural person, why look down on rural people, I have never had such an idea, I think rural people are more industrious, rural people are very good, and they are easy to get along with, and they are not proud, and they feel very happy to get along with rural people, there is no mustard, and there is no estrangement, because everyone is the same person, rural people are very kind and easy to get along with, there is nothing bad, you don't have to look down on others, you don't have to look down on yourself, no matter how good others are, only others' are better than others', just work hard, live well, come on.

After coming out of society, you now know that there are a lot of people who are better than you, so you might as well lower your mentality.

On the other hand, you can put yourself in the shoes of the person you looked down on at the beginning, which proves to some extent that you want to open up.

The loss of superiority does not mean that you are a failure, and the reality of people outside of people reminds you to know how to be humble and stop being self-righteous in the future.

Expectations and shelves are lowered to better face setbacks.

Oh, that's easy to do, find a poor ravine, go there and show your superiority.

It is recommended that you go to Dubai for a month to enjoy.

It's lazy to eat, it's idle; unfaithfulness to marriage; family disharmony; People who love to take advantage of small advantages will be looked down upon in the countryside. But I think about it, it seems that not only in the countryside, such people should be looked down upon!

Unfaithful to marriage This is someone outside, that is absolutely despised by others, every time I hear others talk about these people, that is scolding, as if I am a victim, when I see that unfaithful person, everyone has to mock him a few words, count him a few words. Those people too, aren't afraid of being poked in the back! How embarrassed to have the face to continue to stay in the village!

It's thick enough!

There are also people who like to take advantage, and my cousin's grandfather is an old man who loves to take advantage, and we are all famous in our area. As soon as others say it, they know it's him. is so old, he still has to eat and hold other people's things, people see that he is old and doesn't care about him, does he think he is great?

Also, every time I go to my cousin's house, I have to go and pack up my cousin's things, and watch everything at other people's houses. He loves small things so much, and he doesn't know how many times he has been complained about by everyone!

I feel that no matter what I am in, people with bad character will be looked down upon.

Love to take advantage of small advantages, quite unreasonable.

Rural people are an important force in our country, they work diligently, take care of household chores, silently dedicate their strength, and contribute their own strength to the prosperity and development of the country. However, many people in today's society have some bad views of rural people, thinking that they are dull, closed, and vulnerable, which is a misunderstanding for both rural people and society as a whole.

In fact, the people of the countryside are also very experienced, skilled and knowledgeable in their own fields. They can plant, breed, and take care of farmland, and they have skills that city dwellers don't have. They know how to enjoy nature and how to live with it, and these experiences and knowledge can help us find a more balanced, healthier, and more sustainable lifestyle in modern society.

Of course, education and development in rural areas lag behind those in urban areas, but this does not mean that they are intellectually inferior. On the contrary, these difficulties only push them to study and work harder in order to achieve better results.

In short, rural people are an important pillar of our country, they provide us with a lot of food and material resources, and they also contribute a lot to the whole chain model society. We should respect and care for them, take their work and efforts seriously, affirm their value and contributions, and hope that they will live a better life.