What should I do if I am often looked down upon by my relatives and have low self esteem

Don't care too much about their thoughts, life is your own, but you have to be independent, have your own life and work, friends, like to do, you can also go out for a walk when you are empty, you don't care about what they don't have more or less, people love to compare, if you look down on it, maybe you did what they are not satisfied with, or did not live well or work hard, but a good life still has to work hard to make it rich, isn't it!

No one is perfect, you have to be confident. Don't be bothered by other people's gossip, just go your own way and let others tell it. The big husband can stand up to the sky and bend to Shen.

Read more books and work hard. Today you ignore my love, and it will make you unattainable in the future. If you want others to look at you, you must first look at yourself.

Establish a correct outlook on life.

For almost a long time, with a monthly salary of 2000, many people looked down on me, saying that I went to college, no different from waste, and good friends who used to play, because I had no money, and they didn't play with me, because they thought I couldn't afford to spend, karaoke, and go to bars. Almost everyone thinks I'm a bad mix, and they look at me coldly, and my friends don't care about it. I was also looked down upon by my parents, and the most angry thing was that once in the thirtieth year of the Chinese New Year's Eve, I cooked a chicken and two chicken legs, and my mother sandwiched one chicken leg to my brother and the other chicken leg to my father, saying that the person who earned money was rewarded.

I was so angry that I almost cursed because I felt that even if I was useless and didn't make any money, my parents shouldn't do this to me, I was your son. However, there is one thing about me as a person, I have never felt inferior, I took a salary of 2,000 a month, and I lived out the self-confidence of a monthly salary of 20,000, I told myself that all this was temporary. It's okay if my friends don't take me to play; It's okay that my parents look down on me; It doesn't matter if the left and right give me a cold eye.

It doesn't matter, one day I'll make them unattainable.

A person who has no money, no ability and no effort will really be looked down upon, as long as you let you see your efforts, others will identify with you. We all like people who work hard and don't like people who are idle. No matter how much skill you have, if you work hard, you can change the situation.

Don't always stop thinking, but do it. If you are not afraid of slowness, you are afraid of standing, and if you work slowly, there will be hope.

No matter how poor a person is, don't look down on himself, always feel that he is inferior, as long as he doesn't steal or rob, earn money with his own hands to support his family, and get due remuneration for his own hard work, this is good! Don't give up on yourself, who hasn't had a personal life trough, at this time, don't feel that you are unproductive, you should not be able to raise your head in front of others if you have no money, this is wrong, this is caused by the mentality is not put in place!

I was a child who was disliked by my family from a young age. When I grew up, I realized that I was no worse than anyone else, but the way my relatives were educated.

A person who is incapable at work, if he lacks the ability to love in his interactions with people, then others will look down on him. We will also find in life that although some people have no money and no ability, others will still look down on them, which is the first reason why this person has the ability to love and is willing to do his best to help others when they need help. Such people are not only worthy of others, but also liked.

The ability to love also enhances the relationship with loved ones. Generally speaking, it is not the lack of money that causes relatives to look down on them, because relatives are blood related people. What causes your relatives to look down on you is that you have no money, and you don't have a good relationship with them, and your speech is always uncomfortable, which may be the main reason why you are looked down upon by your relatives.

Money is earned little by little, not thought out, so don't be decadent, especially in the countryside, many people are very concerned about what others think of themselves, feel that they are inferior to others, and they can't hold their heads up in front of others.

I'm probably in this state now, I don't care about them, I just don't think they don't exist.

If your relatives look down on you, let's figure it out first. What does he despise about you? If it is because of some material circumstances, such as poverty, family background, etc., then I don't think there is any need to care about these, which means that this kind of relative does not need to be friendly.

If it is because of some of your internal conditions, such as self-cultivation, family education, character, etc., then I think we can find the reason from ourselves first, and if there is one, we will change it, and if there is none, we will encourage it. But in any case, as your loved one, it is a very despicable act to look down on yourself.

People's face depends on their own to fight for society, and it proves that you are better than others, anyone's success is not luck, and it depends on personal perseverance and hard work to achieve success.

If you want to do something, your relatives will neither be optimistic nor opposed, and your relatives will look down on you, even if you can do it, they will think that you can't do it, and they can't beg you.

When your relatives go to school, they often look at whether you study well or not, and when you enter the society, they often look at your work and career, or whether your income is high, study badly, work is not decent, your career is not developed or your income is low, without exception will be despised or despised, to put it bluntly, in addition to your parents, most of your relatives only look at gold and silver, but they will not care whether they are close to each other, not so much that there is no one in their eyes, but rather that they do not put you in their eyes.

When you encounter difficulties, there are very few relatives who rush to help you, and there are many relatives waiting to see your jokes, and the more you look down on your relatives, the more so, even if you are in a hurry, your relatives will not help you, and they will often push you off, and your relatives will never take you seriously, and your relatives will think that it is worthless to help you, and even for fear that you will suffer, thinking that you are either without the heart of courtesy or without the power of courtesy.

Relatives look down on you, often will not be optimistic about you, even if you swear that you will double the return, relatives will not believe in your strength, look down on your relatives, neither optimistic about your present nor optimistic about your future, daily life will deliberately avoid you or avoid you, not to be proud of being your relatives, but to be ashamed of being your relatives, in the end even friends or neighbors are not as good, let you feel the warmth and coldness of the world and the cold of the world, since family affection is one of the favors, it will be like a thin piece of paper.

Summary. Dear, I also empathize with this problem, this is not a good experience, but we have to be strong, let's analyze it together.

What should a person do if he is particularly strong because of low self-esteem and feels that others look down on him and is unreasonable, and he treats his family and relatives the same.

Dear, I also empathize with this problem, this is not a good experience, but we have to be strong, let's analyze it together.

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Good. I used to have low self-esteem, but I was very competitive and didn't allow myself to lose face in front of others, because I felt that only by disguising myself perfectly would others treat me well.

It's the same with your loved ones, always let them see their strong side, especially the people they care about. But they don't understand me, they always think I'm strong, they always have to make their own decisions, etc. I'm sad too.

I don't know if you feel this way?

My dad is like this, not me.

I wanted to change him, but I couldn't.

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Yes, just like you, my dad is actually a strong person, and in terms of personality, I will also inherit a little bit of his personality. Therefore, two strong people will definitely not be able to communicate, and if they can't say a few words, they will blush and have thick necks. There was a time when I wanted to change before I found a suitable solution, and I talked to my dad, but it didn't work.

Later, slowly, after studying, I found a way.

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1.Ignore your love and answer it, indifferent and perfunctoryI believe that most people have encountered snobbish relatives, who always find ways to flatter and get closer to rich and powerful relatives, and are sneering at relatives who are not as good as themselves. If a relative habitually ignores you, to a large extent, they just don't take you seriously and look down on you.

2.Mock you and ridicule you when you are downIn the real money society, when you are poor, you go to your relatives for help. Some people won't help you, and they see your jokes, and they are even worse than strangers.

The richer you are, the better they are to you. And when you are down, even if you take the initiative to say hello when you meet, they will ignore you. They always put some bad labels on you and insist on preaching to you.

In fact, they look down on you very much in their hearts, and sarcasm hits you in order to show their own status.

3.Whatever you say, he scoffs at itNow, some family affection is not enough in the face of money. Some relatives do not respect your opinion, or even feel disgusted by your speech, so they will deliberately target you and interrupt you while you are talking.

Their disrespectful performance is actually looking down on people, and they don't want to curry favor with these snobbish relatives, let alone ask them for any help. People are cold, don't overestimate family affection.