There is a girl who is lukewarm, how can you be nice to her?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-26
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Chase 1 and find another one? Hello friend:

    Life is all about finding love.

    The first is the person you love the most, the second is the person who loves you the most, and the third is the person you spend your life with.

    First of all, you will meet the person you love the most, and then you will experience the feeling of love;

    Because you understand what it feels like to be loved, you can discover the people who love you the most;

    When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

    But sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person;

    The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

    What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

    And the longest-lasting, it's not your favorite or the person who loves you the most, it's just the person who appears at the most suitable time.

    How many people will you be in someone else's life?

    No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

    In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

    When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him, and if you don't love him anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

    If you still love him, you should want him to live happily, hope that he is with the person he really loves, and will never stop him, if you prevent him from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him anymore, and if you don't love him, what right do you have to accuse him of changing his mind?

    Love is not possession, you like the moon, it is impossible to take the moon down and put it in the basin, but the light of the moon can still shine into your room.

    In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is—love his good and love his bad

    Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.

    You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

    The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

    After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

    Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

    What about you? How many did you find?

    Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Maybe you didn't show her what you meant, and if she gets angry when you are close to another girl, it proves that she likes you. Therefore, I suggest you, give her a serious confession, if you like it, you will be together, if you don't like it, you don't care!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You need to look at the real relationship between two people and not use your emotions to decide whether to stick with it or not.

    It's actually very simple, if you don't know how the girl really feels about you and the real relationship between the two of you, you can easily make the wrong choice and sometimes even regret it. I advise you to properly assess the relationship between two people and choose whether to stick with it or not in such a way.

    1. Not all girls respond positively to boys.

    Most of the time, guys are likely to be more direct, and at the same time willing to express their true thoughts directly. But for girls, because girls are generally more introverted and shy, they will not respond directly to your interactions. You may feel that the other person is lukewarm to you, but if the other person also has a heart for you, you should be able to feel it, and you don't need to be overly concerned about the other person's behavior.

    Second, you have to properly evaluate the relationship between two people.

    I don't advise you to be wishful thinking because you like the other person, and I don't advise you to give up easily. In a way, you need to properly evaluate the relationship between two people. If the other person also has a good impression of you, you can take the initiative to communicate with the other party and express your true thoughts in this way.

    You can also create more opportunities for two people to be together and strengthen the bond between the two people in this way. If the other party has no idea about you, you can just give up, because the twisted melon is not sweet. <>

    In my personal opinion, although emotional matters are very important, they are not so much that a person wastes all his energy, and there is no need for us to think crankily because of emotional problems. Just imagine, if a boy's mind is full of emotional problems, the girl will think that such a boy is very unproductive, and at the same time dislike such a boy. I think the charm of a boy lies in being serious and attentive, and boys need to pay more attention to themselves, and there is no need to be self-effacing because of emotional problems.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Shouldn't. Because a girl is always lukewarm to you, it means that she doesn't really love you, so you shouldn't continue to insist on it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If it were me, I would advise you not to persevere, because lukewarm is clearly a kind of refusal. If the other person doesn't like you, don't force yourself, you will definitely meet someone who truly loves you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you are always lukewarm, then you shouldn't insist, if he likes you, he will definitely not hang you all the time, you can ask him what he thinks to see if you want to give up, if there is really no hope then give up.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you really like her, you have to insist on constantly loving her and giving her happiness, which should come from the heart and not perfunctory. After a long time, she will naturally feel full of love for you. Of course, in the process, if she really can't continue the current relationship, she will become more and more disgusted with your care and love, until she asks for goodbye.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think you should stick to it, if you love someone, you should put down your face, you insist, if she accepts you quickly, you will feel that love comes too quickly, a little incredible, and this is also the truth for a long time, so I hope you can stick to it, come on.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If he didn't mean to be hot and cold to you, he probably didn't notice, and you can mention it to him, and if he deliberately was hot and cold to you, then don't keep going.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    He is always lukewarm to you, you shouldn't continue to insist on it, because you won't have results with her, so don't waste time and feelings on him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Lukewarm and hot, in nature is the most comfortable temperature, but in the emotional world, it is the most painful temperature, if you have been so lukewarm, then let yourself, don't let yourself be so miserable. There are other wonderful things in life.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This kind of feeling makes people feel very tired. If you don't feel any love for him, then you can give up on him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I still don't want to insist, the girl should have no intention of continuing to develop, or get along as a friend.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It shouldn't go on, because this girl is likely to treat you like a spare tire and neither refuse nor accept.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In this case, the relationship between the two people has not reached the level of tacit understanding, so it is necessary to continue to run in. If girls have been behaving this way, they should think about it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If the girl is always lukewarm to you for a long time, I think you can't see it, and the hope of the relationship makes you not get the warmth of the relationship, then I think it's no longer interesting for this relationship to stick to it, and I think you still break up.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Girls are always right, if you can't help but be hot, I don't think you need to stick to it, which means that he really doesn't mean anything to you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This is something that both of you need to work on. Especially if the woman is lukewarm to you, or does she need you to pay? If you take good care of him and treat him well, and he is lukewarm to you, I don't think there is much hope.

    It's better to separate sooner.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    First of all, you have to make sure that this girl still loves you, if you don't love you, give up early, otherwise you will definitely be hurt in the end.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If he is always hot and cold to you, it means that he is hanging on you and deliberately letting you take the bait, if you don't want to go on like this, break up and protect yourself.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If it's not hot, it means that you don't pay attention to it, and it means that you don't hate it, as long as you are ruthless, so it will definitely work, as long as you insist, you can get it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This can only be known to you what his usual attitude towards you is, and whether you have the confidence to continue to pursue him, if love is greater than everything else, continue.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If she is always lukewarm to you, and you persist for a long, long time, and she is still like this, then you don't have to insist and can give up!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Girls always give up if they are lukewarm to you, and you also said always, not once or twice, which shows that she is dispensable to you in her heart.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you really like him, I recommend sticking to it, I have friends who have been chasing someone for five years, and it was perfect when they succeeded in the end.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Personally, I think you should communicate well, you have to know what the other party thinks. You can understand what kind of attitude this girl is by doing this, so it may be more appropriate to do so.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If I don't hold on! There is no grass in the world, why love that grass unrequited! She doesn't cherish you, and you still cherish her, but it may also be that she has been hit recently.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    At this time, you have to be decisive, to determine the relationship, and if the girl wants to wait any longer, you will give up directly.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Girls are always lukewarm to you, it may be that the topics you are chatting with are not on the same channel, you can pick some topics that are of interest to both of you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Girls always have this attitude towards you, so I may have a chance that his personality determines that I can talk to him more to see if he likes you or not.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I didn't be considerate of a woman, I couldn't understand and respect him, I didn't know how to surprise him, I didn't listen to women, I didn't know how to give women a sense of security, and I didn't want to get away with it.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Not paying attention to some of the things he said made him feel that he was being ignored, not considerate of the other party, not understanding the other party, not creating surprises for him, not giving him a sense of security.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Summary. Hello, dear, I'm honored to answer for you! <>

    The way for a woman to start being lukewarm to you is to take the initiative to withdraw herself from all active behaviors immediately, don't contact her again, and don't ask her out again. Retreat, return yourself from the identity of a suitor, to the relationship of an ordinary friend. It's best not to take the initiative to contact a woman for a month, and you will gradually feel lost because you don't contact her.

    This is what a woman thinks in her heart"How could he ignore me? Why don't you contact me? Is it because you have gone too far?

    What to do if a woman starts to be lukewarm to you.

    Hello, dear, very honorable, grandson is fortunate to answer for you! <>

    The way for a woman to start being lukewarm to you is to take the initiative to withdraw herself from all active behaviors immediately, don't contact her again, and don't ask her out again. Retreat, return yourself from the identity of a suitor, to the relationship of an ordinary friend. It's best not to take the initiative to contact a woman for a month, and you will gradually feel lost because you don't contact her.

    This is the woman's limbs, and Kaedan thought in his heart"How could he ignore me? Why don't you contact me? Is it because you have gone too far?

    If it's a girlfriend, try to please her. First of all, don't rush to ask why, and don't make too big a move, behave a little more attentively, and treat her better. Including some small details in daily contact, you should be more careful with the dusty fingers.

    There are also small gifts, which are really useful to deliberately snub your girlfriend. Because you are matched to your girlfriend, you will reflect on whether you have done something wrong.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Summary. Dear, chasing someone feels like a roller coaster.

    Whether a person is good or not, you need to look at his childhood experience.

    If she received more love in her childhood, then she is very assertive and understands what kind of person she wants, and this kind of person can't be caught up no matter how much she chases.

    Another kind of childhood life lacks love, then she will be very eager for love, and if she is kind to her, she can be accepted.

    Sorry, the other party can't be warm to you, maybe the other party just doesn't want to lose politeness.

    When a woman is lukewarm to you, how can you chase it?

    Dear, chasing someone feels like a roller coaster.

    Whether a person is good or not, you need to look at his childhood experience.

    If she received more love in her childhood, then she is very assertive and understands what kind of person she wants, and this kind of person can't be caught up no matter how much she chases.

    Another kind of childhood life lacks love, then she will be very eager for love, and if she is kind to her, she can be accepted.

    Sorry, the other party can't be warm to you, maybe the other party just doesn't want to lose politeness.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I think there are several main reasons:

    1.It means that the impression you left on her is still very good, but she is too busy with work and does not have enough time.

    2.Maybe she thinks that online chat is not real enough, she prefers to talk in reality, in fact, this is good for you, because it also gives you enough space, you can seize such an opportunity, invite girls to go to the movies, eat, take the opportunity to learn more about girls' interests and hobbies, and can also enhance the relationship between each other.

    3.She may not like you enough, she can't even talk about familiarity, and when she meets and chats happily with you, she may feel afraid of embarrassment, which is just a polite sign that she should have.

    In fact, for a person who is quite satisfied, what we have to do, I think it is more to show the other party with our sincerity and sincerity, rather than tempting, waiting, and being sad in a person, which is harmful to anyone.

    The chat software is becoming more and more powerful, but the communication between us has become very scarce, and it is also full of insincerity and uncertainty to a certain extent, therefore, judging whether a person is enthusiastic is only through WeChat chat, which is not convincing enough, because many people still like a more primitive and traditional way to communicate and communicate, so we must not be indifferent on WeChat and lose confidence.

    It is not easy to meet, we cannot stop the arrival and departure of those people, but we can decide how we choose to treat the arrival of a person, do not always hesitate, do not hesitate, do not always wait, and in the end there is a regret.

    I wish you all happiness.

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