When there is a conflict between career and love, which side should be abandoned

The straight-line distance between two points is the shortest, but men in life often can't take care of love and career, and it is relatively rare to be able to walk in a straight line simply. If you have a work to attend to and miss your girlfriend's birthday party, the question is not as boring as "who to save first", but it can still make people hesitate. Different people will have different choices, and the same person will have different choices, I hope that female compatriots can understand a truth, if he chooses to work, it cannot be directly understood that he loves you less.

It should be said that most women do not have conflicts with their boyfriends for this kind of thing, but I have found that some female compatriots will deepen this problem. They will be reminded of many other questions: Who does he choose between me and my pet?

How does he choose between me and money? How does he weigh it off between me and my relatives? In fact, these problems are like asking him to choose to cut the kidney or the stomach, and it will hurt to cut either one.

Therefore, female compatriots should look at him holistically and occasionally snub you, after all, the traditional concept of men from childhood to adulthood is that career comes first. It is not advisable for a man who only cares about his career and does not care about his feelings, and people who can take care of both their career and their feelings should be said to be relatively successful people, but unfortunately there are not many such people. "Behind a successful man there must be a gentle and virtuous woman" is not a macho dogma, it should be the basis for mutual understanding between men and women.

Find a way There is no absolute thing If there is really no way to do it It depends on which side you prefer Love do you love deeply Is the job a very stable and rich job? If the love is not deep, it will be divided, and the job is not safe, then why don't you choose love, because the job can be found again, but it depends on your job now, if it is really difficult to find a job, then you have to talk to your boyfriend, if he loves you, you must be considerate of you, love is two people, don't solve everything for yourself, he is also responsible

Try to coordinate with them, if they really don't support your career, give up on them, maybe you should find something other than love.

You should try to resolve this contradiction. It's really not good, if you're young, you have a career first, personal opinion.

Trouble, thanks!

I can't say which is more important, career or love, because both are necessary, and all we have to do is straighten out the relationship between career and love. Love is the foundation of the family, and the family is the harbor of life; In the same way, career is the economy of life, and career success is also an important goal of life. I believe that you will handle the relationship between the two well.

I wish you success on both fronts! A career without love is not considered successful in success, and no matter how successful love is, no career can only be poor! People can have no career, but they can't have love, there are many people who have love without a career, live a dull happiness, people who have a considerable career but no love, no one shares happiness, no one shares pain, there may be many people chasing him, but most of these people are around him because of his career!

So many times, love may be more important than career!

From the perspective of human nature, love should be important, and from the perspective of reason, career should be important.

Career is more important, of course, this is all in comparison, career and love are very important, but for the sake of your own career, for your own future, it is understandable to choose to give up love.

People who have experienced the vicissitudes of society and understand that life is not easy. In fact, which is more important, love or career, everyone will have everyone's opinions and choices, but it is everyone's wish to have a double harvest in love and career. Only when you really love can you understand the true meaning of love, career is important, career and love, family conflicts, personal opinions choose the latter, career work can be made again, there are hands of diligence will not be hungry, and those who are not willing to be ordinary will shine.

I feel that every time period is important, and there is no turning back in life! Therefore, it must be planned well and strictly implemented, and as for how long to adjust on the basis of the big plan, it must be judged on a basic basis according to the social environment and industry environment. Hobbies and life are both, everyone has to live in the moment, hobbies can be cultivated, but life is not a multiple-choice question, comprehensive four words:

Be at peace with what happens, that is to say, people adapt to the environment rather than the environment to adapt to people. Everyone has to have a dream, everyone must start a business, because only dreams can make your work more meaningful, our attitude towards work should be the spirit of parenting, so I think it should be for love, work for dreams, when you focus on one thing to do well, it is also the beginning of your good life.

Career is the mark of the ladder of life, every step is very hard, but every time is a proof of one's strength and the meaning of life. Have a solid foundation and then look for love, and use your own ability to defend your love is indestructible. And love is the common pursuit of two lovers, and both are indispensable.

If you blindly pursue love but do not lose the basic ability to survive in society, everything will be zero in the face of any great love. However, the purpose of working is to earn money, in order to live a better life, and if you don't have money, you should never talk about your dreams. No money can't protect your loved ones, love must have a certain economic foundation for a long time, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar.

This is the preservative. Hobbies and life are both, everyone has to live in the moment, hobbies can be cultivated, but life is not a multiple-choice question, comprehensive four words: with the encounter, that is to say, people adapt to the environment rather than the environment to adapt to people.

Love is the preservative of life and a strong backing for career.

Since ancient times, fish and bear's paws cannot be both, and I think the choice of love and career is also a question of "which one to save first when the wife and mother fall into the water", and it is also a question that cannot be vulgar. If this person is worthy of your life, then you can consider it. If you are just impulsive, you should think carefully, after all, career is also very important to you, and it is related to your future.

Of course, in my personal opinion, when there is a conflict between career and love, I should choose a career. Regardless of men and women, without a career, you have problems in your own life, you have problems in your own life, and you are still in the mood to fall in love? Career is the guarantee of love, and happy love needs a solid economic foundation, so that the relationship will be strong, and with a high-quality standard of living, love will be sweet.

So, if I were faced with this choice, I would choose my career and work hard to have my own career.

Maybe many people think that love is more important now, I can give up my career or job for love, I can only say, you haven't suffered in life, right? It is often said that distance produces beauty, but many long-distance relationships do not end up very beautifully due to distance. Knowing that too far away is a taboo in love, it will dilute the beauty of love and slowly make love very light, but why not plan early?

Because many people believe in their hearts that distance cannot defeat their love, but in the end, love still loses love.

Work can not be lost, love can not be found, in fact, who does not want to have beautiful love, it's just that most of it is just the fantasy of ordinary people like me. The love of an ordinary person like me must be subject to reality after all, and it is inevitable and inevitable to be limited by life.

Love is the temple of mankind, the desire for love in life, and the destination of life. A living person, without love in life, life becomes meaningless.

Love is the crystallization of love, and love is the fate of past and present lives. For the sake of love, people may give up their lives and fall in love with each other in different worlds.

In the face of love, life trajectory can be flexible. People can have love because of their careers, and they can also build careers because of love.

Love is sacred and full of responsibility, but human love is a social responsibility that goes beyond love and scum. When you come to the world, you have to take responsibility for your parents, family and social obligations that gave birth to you, and have love in real life to complete your life. Young people do have a dilemma.

If you have a happy outcome for love, you have to give up the career that you have worked hard for many years, and you are unwilling to give up your career. It seems that what Old Master Meng said about the incompatibility of fish and bear's paws has been verified again.

However, from the postscript, I learned that the person who raised this question is still young, and since he is faced with a dilemma in the choice between love and career, he still has to rely on his personal knowledge and ability to analyze things, compare the two, weigh them repeatedly, and choose which is more important. Don't be emotional, not calm, not calm, and do things that make you regret it for life.

The poem written by the Hungarian poet Pei Duofei is estimated to have been read by the subject, namely: life is precious, and love is more valuable. In this, the poet puts love and human life in the same important position, if young people really find someone who really loves you, don't give up easily.

As for the career, you can continue to fight for the stove shed. Connections can also be re-established. As long as individuals do not give up their work efforts, it is not impossible to find a breakthrough in a new career in Anhui's hometown and the Yangtze River Delta.

Life in the world is decades of time. And youth is even shorter, fleeting, and never returned. It's easy to find a job, but it's hard to find a soulmate.

Therefore, with personal ingenuity and several years of practical work experience, it is not impossible for young people to create a brilliant career as long as their wife supports you after marriage.

Don't hesitate, as long as love comes to a stage where the flowers bloom and blossom, give up work for the time being, solve personal life events, and then think about others.

Life is like this, you have to accept what you choose, no matter how much you regret it later, you can only carry your regrets all the way forward.

The above is only the opinion of passers-by on this issue, as a party, you still need to make a decision according to your specific circumstances, such as the defense situation.