How to deal with the problem between relationship and career.

It depends on what kind of person the woman behind you is, she likes the success of your career, of course she will support you, but if she likes you more than she likes your career, I think you should be inclined to the family, no matter what the situation is, I think the Gu family is right, the child will have few regrets about you, you give the child a small promise, that wish small may not be anything to you, but the child will always remember, don't wait until you make an appointment to go to the amusement park together, because you don't see and end.

The foundation determines the superstructure, the career is the foundation of everything, and the simpler thing is to have money, and the amount of money determines the object and depth of your relationship. If you have 100,000, you can talk about feelings with factory girls, if you have 1 million, you can find a very good girlfriend in second-tier cities, if you have 10 million, you can talk about life with urban girls in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, and dreams, if you have 100 million, feelings will automatically come to you.

The balance between career and relationship is basically a compulsory course for adults.

Usually, whether I am asked about love or marriage, I find that many people will not make a good trade-off between the two.

Especially when there is a problem with the relationship, some people will delay their career because of the relationship.

Since most of the people who come to me for counseling are women, I would like to talk about my observations of women.

I've met a lot of career-oriented strong women who are frustrated in their relationships, not because of anything else, or because most of their energy is invested in their work.

Usually dealing with feelings, it is easy to use the work set, one board at a glance, only look at the result, but a little less humane.

Either the girls feel that their other half is too dedicated to their careers and has very little time to contact them throughout the day, which makes them very dissatisfied.

What's more, there are some love brains, who delay their careers all day after falling out of love, and who are unemployed after falling out of love and suffer a double blow....

In fact, to be honest, no matter how dedicated to your career is, and regardless of gender, they all have their own emotional needs.

Since everyone is an ordinary person, it is difficult to say what kind of work machine they have really become, and they do not consider feelings at all.

It's just that people who focus on work may find it difficult to change their thinking when talking about feelings, and they take a lot of stereotypes to deal with relationship problems, so they make their feelings out of proportion.

It's normal to have emotional needs, and the key is that whether it's a man or a woman, whether it's a relationship or a marriage, you must first understand yourself.

You know what you need, find the right person, or don't find it, you can do that.

But the premise must be clear about your own needs first, and you can't say that you are always in the same place.

In this way, you will not only take care of your career, but also take care of your feelings.

In this fast-paced society, many people put all kinds of emotional needs last, career first, and be ready to work at any time. So are you that kind of person? In the future, will you regret this kind of business-oriented dedication?

First of all, what is the purpose of our work? The most obvious answer is definitely the practical question of making money, raising a family, living, etc., so what is the second meaning of a career? It is the realization of self, the embodiment of self-worth, and the search for the value of self-existence in the society, which is spiritual satisfaction.

If you think about it from the perspective of personal development, you should spend more time on work, because work itself is a good learning process, put yourself in the process of work, and the process will lead you to grow and improve. Similarly, if you're happy with the job now and have a good future prospects, focus on your work. The times are changing, the market is changing, and the technology is upgrading, which makes us feel uncertain all the time.

Only when we keep up with the trend and have the ability to make the tide will we not be eliminated.

In other words, if your current job is what you have wanted for a long time and that is your interest, then it is meaningless. You can achieve your dreams, gain recognition, and improve your life by doing your job, which is the meaning of work.

Some people's whole life is for work, some people, work for a better life, to improve the so-called happiness, the work itself is not so important, what is more important is what can be brought to you behind the work. Marx put forward an important theory in sociology: the economic base determines the superstructure, although Lao Ma does not recognize the principle of sociology that natural selection and survival of the fittest.

We always hope that our future can become better, but we are not willing to invest a lot of time in the career we like, then the most auspicious Qingqing will become the same as the clouds, a person always shows a passive mentality, then the harvest is bit by bit.

Life and work always appear together, the two are inseparable, life is interspersed with work, work without losing the career is the winner of life, and we are pursuing this state and wealth all our lives. Do you have any other comments or suggestions on this topic? Or do you have any other experiences that you might share?

1. Correctly handle the relationship between love and study.

The college period is the best period of human development, and in this period it is also a period when students should work hard to learn professional knowledge, and college students should focus on their studies, because learning is the main purpose of college students, and they must distinguish which is more important. But don't think that love is a stumbling block to your career, if you handle it well, love can also play a catalytic role in your career.

2. Be rational at all times in the process of falling in love. Although college life is relatively relaxed, there is more free time, and it also provides convenience for college students to make friends, so during this period, you must seize the opportunity to understand how to love in the right way, and at the same time, you must learn to refuse when necessary, so that you can become more mature, but this does not mean that you have to do something out of the ordinary in the process of love, many girls give each other the first time in their lives, I don't think this is a wise choice, there are still a lot of scumbags in the reality of jujube limb grinding, always remember this sentence, "Online dating is risky, investment needs to be cautious".

3. Have the courage to take responsibility and face reality. In a relationship, both parties should understand each other, respect each other, and take the initiative to take responsibility when encountering problems, rather than escaping the difficulties of the relationship, the more you try to escape the problems in the relationship, it will lead to the accumulation of more and more problems, and finally the relationship will break down, so it is necessary to solve it in time, if the other party does not take the initiative, you must dare to take responsibility, and under your initiative, the other party will also be infected by you.

<> for girls, having good job opportunities is more beneficial to their career development and personal life. However, when she is in love, in order to be able to be with her boyfriend, the girl needs to choose between her career and her boyfriend. For this problem, girls need to make a rational analysis based on their own situation.

Specifically, it includes staying calm and avoiding emotional matters, not giving up your career easily in the process of pursuing love, and fully considering the reality of life and work and making rational choices with your boyfriend. 1. Stay calm and avoid making wrong choices because of emotion. Although the relationship is very important in the process of being in love, it is precisely at this time to avoid being emotional.

As a girl, when your boyfriend chooses to develop in a different place, she must stay calm and must not give up her career rashly because of emotion. I should find a better way to solve the problem through rational analysis, 2, in the process of pursuing love, girls can't give up their careers. For girls, it is a very happy thing to be able to get perfect love, but this is by no means the whole problem.

As a girl, having her own career is the key to maintaining her independence and the basis for winning respect, so in the process of pursuing love, girls should not give up their careers, but should continue to maintain a good development in their careers, so as to win a stable life for themselves, so as to obtain a more perfect love. 3. Girls should fully consider work and life, and make rational choices with their boyfriends. As a pair of lovers, when faced with a choice, they should fully consider the interests of both parties, and face and solve problems together through negotiation.

For the problem of boyfriends choosing to develop in different places, girls should fully consider their own work and life realities, and make rational choices with their boyfriends, so that they can maximize the interests of themselves and their boyfriends, and make the relationship between themselves and their boyfriends deeper.