I always feel that if I don t mention breaking up, maybe I will be very happy with him?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-29
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's not worth nostalgia anymore. The past is gone. You should be glad that you are just used to the feeling of being around someone you don't really like, and that you haven't fallen in love with him yet.

    How many choices there are in life. Find someone you like. Maybe it'll appear in the next second.

    The person you don't like will be dependent on you after a long time, and you should be glad that you haven't fallen in love with him. Otherwise you're done. Because the person who used to like you doesn't need you anymore.

    Tell yourself to have a bit of backbone. The old love that has been lost is not worth picking up again, but it has lost your value. The past is gone. Time dilutes everything.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    We may be in the same fate.

    He's just a little less to go with.

    I didn't know at the time, but I thought it would be better to say it after graduation.

    But gradually, I also knew that I didn't like him, I just thought he was handsome.

    Nothing else at all.

    But in the end, I also figured out that he didn't like himself and deceived himself like this.

    It's painful, give up on him and make yourself better in the future.

    Khan, slowly I forgot about him.

    As long as you talk to your friends every day, the day will pass so quickly.

    I didn't think about him, I forgot about him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Forget about him, it's hard for everyone to get together and live together after the breakup. I hope you can find your own happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    That's because what you can't get is always the best, you know, distance beauty. Think of it as the rainbow of life, and the memory is the most beautiful.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's you who broke up first, then it's no fun, let's find another one, if I were the man, I wouldn't want you again. Men sometimes still have to save face.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you don't like it, don't be with people, or you may throw this one off when you meet another one in the future.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Parted. Love should make people feel happy and happy, and if two people are not unhappy together, it means that it is not suitable.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Love will definitely bring happiness to people, if you can't make yourself happy in such a relationship, then it can only mean that you are really not enough to compare, it is better to break up.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It should be a breakup, because if you are unhappy, it means that the two of you have come to an end, and there is no need to continue.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Try not to break up, you may regret it, find out the reason why everyone is unhappy, and work hard to solve it, and the situation will change.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In fact, you should break up, because it is very painful for two people to be unhappy together.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hello dear friend, let me come to your question. I feel that he often mentions breaking up, and he can't help but say that he doesn't feel like breaking up. It shows that he really thinks so.

    I really want to break up. Really, why do you agree to get back together every time? I think it's a habit for the first one.

    After all, after dating for so many years, as long as the two of them are together, he can get some benefits from it. It can be spiritual, it can be physical, and now physical. So he will agree to get back together.

    You 30 He may not have found a more suitable fit, so say maintain the status quo for the time being. So I suggest you think carefully about this relationship. Then make the right choice and wish you happiness!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    He often mentions breaking up, which shows that there is indeed a problem with the love between you, and if you love very much, you will not mention breaking up easily.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This is because you have done too much, and he is already helpless to you, so since you like him, change yourself quickly, otherwise you will lose too much forever.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    One is that after so many years of being together, I have feelings and are used to being with each other, although the feeling of love is weak, but there is still friendship and affection. The second is that you haven't found the right person to fill your place, so it's just a waste of money. Hope i can help you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    No one can answer this question for you. The word "unhappy" should be a long story for you, and I don't know, so I can't answer for you or give you direct advice. Before thinking about whether you should break up, I think you can recall your original intention, why you were with him in the first place?

    I thought that the beginning of every relationship was the beginning of the heartbeat. Heartbeat represents deep affection, shallow love, exclusive desire, and the expectation of love. Falling in love is the process of satisfying one's own emotional needs, even if there are occasional twists and turns and unhappiness in the process, but on the whole, it is still full of happiness and sweetness.

    In that case, you and his memories must be happy.

    Breaking up, it's no big deal. You may have only one reason to fall in love, but you can have a million reasons to break up. It's too easy to break up than to fall in love.

    You need the courage to start a relationship, but you can easily end it. In this case, don't you think it's a bit cost-effective to think about whether to break up?

    Try to look at your current "unhappiness" from a different perspective. Why are you unhappy? Is it because it's not easy to get along, or because you don't love anymore, or because there is too much resistance from the outside world? It's important to be unhappy, but it's even more important to know why you're unhappy.

    It's okay not to love it, but regret will accompany you for a lifetime, so please think carefully before making a decision. Encountering is the fate of cultivation in the previous life, and unless you don't love it, you shouldn't let go of it easily for any other reason.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Personally, I think so, since you are not even happy with him, how can you talk about happiness in the future, so end it early and free yourself as soon as possible.

    Two people will live together for a lifetime in the future, he can't make you happy before he gets married, so what are you going to do in the future, you can't be very unhappy every day, since you can guess the ending, it's better to end this love scene as soon as possible, maybe he is not your godsend, he is really right and waiting to meet you.

    You are unhappy, it may not be him, but yourself, you may be tired of living with him, you are not a girl who can be satisfied with the status quo, you may still be happy at the beginning, slowly the same him, so that you are no longer happy, you feel that this is not the life you want, then you have to break up, you let go of him as soon as possible, let him find a girl who is really suitable for him, and you can pursue the life you want. But you have to pay attention to the way you say you break up, and don't seriously hurt this innocent person who is really good to you.

    Although I think you should break up, but I want to say, you don't have to let go impulsively, you say that you are very unhappy, you can find out the reason first, if it can be solved, and then you can be happy again, then your love can still continue, every encounter is fate, or don't let go easily.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Love is beautiful and everyone who has tried it knows it, but not every love will have a happy ending. However, if you can learn how to deal with the relationship between two people, grasp the degree of love and make the other party feel your love, then you can even if you have worked hard, even if the two people have no future in the future, at least they are happy when they are still together, if they are not happy with each other, then it is better to choose to break up.

    Breakups sometimes hurt more than just your own heart, so if this love still has a chance to redeem and remedy, try not to let go. Sometimes it is not the fault of the other party to be unhappy with each other, the difference in the personality of men and women will make there are great differences between each other, if the two people can deal with these differences of opinion well, then both parties will be satisfied and happy. If it is difficult for the other party to take into account their own feelings in dealing with things, they have to say their thoughts, no matter what way they use, just tell the other party their suppressed thoughts, if the other party still does his own thing in such a situation, then this person is not worth loving.

    The most important thing for us to spend time in love is that the person we love can bring us happiness and happiness, if the other party can't even do such basic requirements, and has been making themselves unhappy, think about if you really live with such a person for a lifetime, then you don't want to get depression, so even for your own future and health considerations, you have to take your feelings seriously, if you really haven't been happy, it's better to choose to separate, In this way, you can also find the person who can really make you happy.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Don't just mention the word breakup, it's really heavy. Are you really unhappy, does his presence make you want to leave? Even you are already tired of him, have you ever thought about the sweetness between you, have you ever thought about the difficulty between you, you have gone all the way, even if there is no thrilling scene, there will be a picture of love, have you ever thought about his feelings, he will be sad, you will too, I don't believe that there is no affection between you, have you ever thought about why you are together, is it just that two people are lonely, just warm each other.

    There should not only be use between you, but also feelings, hundreds of times in the past life, there is an encounter in this life, and you are now going to break up because two people are unhappy together, what do you do with feelings, is the relationship so worthless in your eyes, you have to leave him ruthlessly, I hope you can think about it carefully, don't let your heart regret it, since you can be together, don't break up casually.

    But if after you are with him, you feel that his true character makes you unbearable, you have to break up as soon as possible, don't hesitate, for example, he will lose his temper with you or even domestic violence, you have to be careful, because this kind of person is hopeless, and the easier it is to get, the less you will cherish it. There is also Ma Bao Nan, you have to leave him, a while ago the pregnant woman jumped off the building on the Internet, it can be described as an alarm, this kind of family really won't treat you as a person, you are just a machine for giving birth to children in their eyes, that's all.

    But if you have really carefully considered your relationship, and in your opinion, he is really not suitable for you, and you can't communicate well with each other in terms of values and so on, then you really have to think about breaking up.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you're not happy together, why be together?

    Breaking up is an important decision, and there are bound to be many aspects to consider before making this decision.

    So take a good look back at the bits and pieces you have with him, those memories and the current state, and think about the difficulties along the way.

    The emotions generated by an event, sadness or sadness, cannot become the inevitability of a breakup, and it is too early to talk about a breakup;

    And only in the case of many judgments, the feeling of being together often is already an unhappy state, then you can consider breaking up at that time.

    The beginning of the relationship and the end of the relationship are both prudent things, not easy to decide, but once you decide, don't regret it, and have the responsibility to bear all the consequences, it is right!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Divide it! When two people are together, it's important that both parties feel worth it.

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