What if you always feel that no one in the world cares about you, only your own sadness?

I'm like that too. But you know, even if no one cares about us, we have to care about ourselves. Even if no one loves you, you have to love yourself.

But you also have to believe that there will always be someone who cares about you and loves you. Trust that there will be someone waiting for you not far away. Also, you have to find someone you can trust each other and confide in him.

It's going to feel a little better.

I think it's normal, when others don't care about you, it means that you have a distance and are drifting apart. Just like you like love like the sun, it always makes you feel warm, but if it's a rainy day.

The sun will disappear without a trace. No matter what life gives you, you have to learn to face it, don't care too much about what others do to you, don't rely too much on how much others care about you, otherwise it is you who suffers, not all people will be like their parents, and they will always treat you as a treasure in the palm of their hands. When you look at everything and look down, your heart can be relaxed, there are people who make you cry, there are people who make you laugh, there are people who hurt you, there are people who hurt you, life is like a cup of coffee, if you are afraid of bitterness, you can only taste it yourself if you add some sugar.

First of all, if you don't know how to refuse, you will feel very tired. However, from another point of view, not knowing how to refuse will make the surrounding indifference slightly less. I feel that others don't care and need to observe more of the good things around me.

I've always thought the same way before, and I always feel that the people around me make me spend more energy and care less about me. I don't think so anymore. After all, everyone is born for themselves, so sometimes, a sudden greeting from someone else will make me feel like I am missed, very surprised, very warm.

Let yourself have more expectations for the better. This way you won't be too tired to live.

Parents can't selflessly raise your cousins and cousins, don't just see the appearance, although your younger brothers and sisters are more lovable, but more importantly, because your parents care about their relationship with their siblings, they will show that they like their children very much. What you lack is to be cared for spiritually, there is a generation gap between children and parents, the most befriended people are peers when you are a student, make more friends, learn to care about others, and don't always think about whether others care about yourself, so when one day you have someone around you to give back to you, you will feel very worthwhile.

Many people will encounter this situation, including myself, so how to overcome it, I am like this, others don't care about me, then I must care about myself, and I can find something to do without feeling lonely, I usually read books, because I think it is very important to improve my self-cultivation, and when I can one day jump out of the small circle that only asks others to care about and cares about themselves, you, I, we have grown.

What kind of person you think you are, what kind of person you are. It's you who don't feel cared for. Some others may not think much of it. If you want to change that others care about you, it is better to change yourself, only to change yourself. The people on the side will care about you.

We can't demand that others give as much as we give to them. Love itself is unrequited. Two people should compare hearts to hearts and work together.

You should express your views directly, rather than hide them or even endure them. Unless you're confident that you can endure it for the rest of your life. The most important thing is to be yourself, and only excellent self can have greater freedom.

In fact, many people will have this kind of thought, try to care about others, and enjoy the comfort of others being cared for. Maybe you won't feel lonely. It's like everybody is helping you solve your problems right now. Lonely or not, it's always there.

This problem has to start from the Cultural Bai Revolution, at that time all the zhi people were scared, in order to survive, the monopoly of the dao, slander, etc. are commonplace, the personality of our society, it is from that time that it began to be distorted, and when the reform and opening up began, family planning began, and the only child was spoiled, because there were no brothers and sisters, so they lived the life of a little emperor since childhood, and they were educated to become a generation of "I am the most important". It was probably from the 80s that there was a kind of outlook on life in society: "I would rather bear the people of the world than the people of the world should bear me". Under the influence of this concept, the next generation of the only child, inevitably continues to circulate ...

In addition, the Cultural Revolution hit feudal superstition, so that Buddhism, Taoism, and Confucianism were all broken. There will be no moral constraints in this society, and a group of people who have no moral bottom line, who will care about the feelings of others.

If you think about it, why the divorce rate is so high now is actually one reason: they only care about themselves and don't care about each other's feelings!

It's not all like that.

It's just that we have sometimes.

Know yourself better.

So the starting point is to think about yourself first.

I used to be too, until someone hated me, and I was still looking for why, when a mature woman's words cleared my head. After all, people are human answers, seven emotions and six desires, jealousy, but the performance is not obvious, I didn't say it, I admit it or not, I am old and most of the people who care about other people's feelings, this is mature and young, you get along with men and women over forty years old, a little bit of cultivation, as if you don't only care about yourself,

You must be very distressed, but first of all, you have to get yourself out of this helplessness, calm your mind, think for yourself, friends are just a synonym, like a person's name. After removing this pronoun, what you see is the real thing. There are many kinds of friends:

Best friends, bad friends, good friends and even bad friends. It is said that "those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black" I think you must have been hindered on the road to seeking friends, and all of them will question friendship. Not really.

As long as they will reach out and pull you when you are in trouble, they will accompany you when you are sad are friends. It's too general to say that, but as long as you can feel the brilliance of humanity, you have a friendship. No one is an island, because they are people, they need friends.

As long as you open your heart, you can always gain friendship. I wish you a smile in the future, and let the world be drowned in laughter.

True friendship is not rhetoric, but the hand that holds you at a critical time. Those friends who surround you all day long and make you a little happy are not necessarily real friends. And those who seem to be far away, but actually pay attention to you all the time, do not flatter you when you are happy; The person who does things for you silently when you need it is a true friend.

Send carbon in the snow! is your true friend! Icing on the cake! It's just that each has its own picture! A friend is one who is willing to give for you without asking for anything in return! Whether you are poor, sick, or hurt! Friends in distress!

In fact, everyone's experience is different, the values are different, and the definition of friends will be different. In short, friends will not be jealous of you and retaliate against you. Friends are like loved ones.

You don't have to make too many friends, it's better to be self-reliant, both materially and emotionally.

This society is like this, where is the real confidant so easy to meet, I also think that no one really cares about me, except for my family, others care about some interests of things, such as whether I have passed the certificate, what is the job, what is the monthly salary, compared to Xiaohong, how is it, I am really lazy, I am sick, I am uncomfortable when I encounter difficulties, it is always my parents who come to ask me, friends ask me like this, there is no one. But so what? I don't live because of others, I live for myself, for the people I cherish, the things I cherish, now I see that the world is nothing more than this, instead of being sad, it is better to live my life well.

I had this experience, but then I realized that it was my lack of spiritual food, and if there was a hobby or specialty that I was obsessed with, everything would be better! Good luck! Friends who are happy to listen!