Let s chat, how can we discover children s interests and hobbies?

Be accompanied and observed. When every child is born, it is a pure and immaculate blank paper, and the companionship of parents and the education of the day after tomorrow paint this blank paper with colorful colors. Some of the children's interests have inherited genes, for example, many children who are good at opera and singing are often born in the Liyuan family; Some children have a talent for singing, and there must be people in the family who like **.

Some children's interests benefit from the influence of nurture, for example: in a family with a strong reading atmosphere, parents tell stories to their children from an early age, and this subtle influence makes it easy for children to show a strong interest in reading. Therefore, parents should accompany their children more, discover their children's interests in time, and guide them appropriately. ‍‍

When a child is interested in a certain thing or phenomenon and can focus for a long time, then it can be judged that the child is interested and likes this thing or phenomenon. For example, when you ask your child to sit in front of the piano and practice music, the child is impatient, restless, and inattentive, and the child will definitely not like to play the piano. If the child can concentrate on drawing for a long time, then it will definitely be interested.

Parents should observe and pay more attention to their children's interests and hobbies in a timely manner, and be able to give timely support and guidance. ‍‍

Parents should support and encourage their children's interests and hobbies, and do not impose their own ideas on their children, because perhaps a humble interest will cultivate an inventor and scientist. For example, Newton, known as a "giant of science", caught his attention and conjecture when he was reading a book under an apple tree.

It is a very common thing for an apple to fall, and no one will pay attention to it, because we think there is no fuss, and if it does not fall to the ground, will it still fly into the sky? It was Newton who became interested in this problem that we didn't care about, and thus discovered the law of "gravitation". ‍‍

Respect the child and guide patiently. A child's interests are not static. At a certain time, children may be accustomed to drawing, but after a while, they may not like it; At a certain time, I liked to dance, and after a while, my interest shifted again.

As a parent, you should respect your child's choice, don't complain, don't force, follow your child's inner needs, and as long as your child's interests are legitimate and reasonable, parents should support and guide patiently.

Basically, every little doll is active, playful, and curious. He wants to touch everything new, and he is interested in everything. It is the nature of children to explore the world and learn about it.

Parents should grasp the characteristics of the child at this time, protect the child's curiosity, and accompany the child to try under the condition of ensuring absolute safety. A child's interest is cultivated through play.

I don't think it's so difficult to find out your child's hobbies, you just need to put some thought into it. First of all, you have to pay attention. When your child is very young, you have to pay attention to what attracts your child's attention.

For example, when I hear **, I dance with my hands, I am very quiet when I hear a story, or I like to play with a toy for a long time, I like to scribble with a pen, and I spend it quite interestingly. ‍‍

You can take your child to participate in various interest classes, such as singing, dancing, piano, painting, Go, calligraphy, etc., after participating in these interest classes, see which one your child prefers to go, and you will find out his interests and hobbies.

Be observant, this is the most important point. Do more things with your child and watch your child's reaction carefully to determine whether he likes it or not.

Pay attention to the child's preferences in daily life, deliberately cultivate what the child likes, encourage and praise more, so that the child can experience the joy of success and gradually mature.

Let the child try more things, figuratively speaking, that is, to cast a net generally. Only when you have done it will you know whether you like it or not.

Enroll your child in extracurricular specialty classes, let him have more contact first, and if the child has something he likes, he will be particularly positive.

Personally, I think that interest is slowly cultivated. Before enrolling your child in a class, let him have a preliminary understanding of the class, and introduce him from the point he is interested in, so that he is willing to take this step. As for how to develop and learn later, in addition to the child's own factors, there is also the guidance of parents, and I am more interested in the influence of the class teacher.

In any case, if you don't treat interest classes as a mandatory homework, or if you don't define a certain interest class as something that children must learn on the road to growth, otherwise they will fall behind the necessary conditions for people, I think interest classes will have real meaning. In other words, it is to make interest classes really a place to cultivate interest. Guided around this central idea, children will really become interested in it.

This requires us as parents to patiently find and discover the interests of our children, and we can't just feel the need to enroll our children in interest classes, which can only be counterproductive.

Observe your child's every move in your daily life

Parents should be the ones who know their children best, and if parents can't find their children's hobbies, others can't find them. In fact, parents can't find their children's real interests and hobbies, that is, they usually don't pay enough attention to their children, or their usual life is not rich enough and they don't give their children the opportunity to stimulate their interests. If that's the case, parents can take their children to do something meaningful while they're resting.

In daily life, we should also pay more attention to observe children, and accompany children to explore their interests and hobbies.

You can also discover your child's interests and hobbies according to their personality

Often, a child's personality also determines what their interests are. For example, children with quiet personalities are usually more interested in literature. Extroverted personality, interested in specialties that can show their abilities.

Children with strong hands-on skills are usually suitable for learning some skills, so if you don't know what your child's real interests are, you can explore their interests according to their personality, you can try with your child, and find out which activity they like more in some activities.

Communicate with your child

When some parents want to know about their children's hobbies and hobbies, most of them will ask them in an inquiring tone, what do you like. In fact, this is the wrong way to ask. If parents want to know what their children's hobbies are, they can communicate with their children in the tone of communicating with friends, or say a few interests and specialties, if they talk about the point, the child will continue to talk to you, and you can find out what the child likes.

At this time, if they want to cultivate their own interests and specialties, parents need to explain to their children in advance, since you have chosen to learn these things, you must persevere, no matter how difficult the road ahead is, you must try to persevere, and get vaccinated with your children in advance, which will make your children better persevere.

Parents should let their children play freely, and if they find their children's interests and hobbies, they should support their children, so that the growth of their children will be better, and they can also make the children have more changes and make them more excellent.

Parents should let the child play freely in the process of children's growth and preparation, if they find the child's interests and hobbies, they should support the child's interests and hobbies, and should also help the child solve some of his problems.

Pay more attention to observe children's behaviors in life, learn more about children's living habits, pay attention to the personality of friends around children, communicate more with children, and understand the character of early and middle school children.

To help your child find his interest, you can observe from three points.

You can let your child try more, whether it is painting, playing the piano, playing chess, table tennis, etc., try more to see which one your child prefers, so that it is better to determine the child's interests and hobbies.

Let the child try more and try different interest classes, because when the child himself does not understand, what we parents can do is to help the child find his interests, or discover his child's strengths in life, and find out what he can do quietly for a long time.

If you want to help your child determine your child's interests and hobbies, you can take your child to see more things. Let children be exposed to more meaningful activities, so that children can find their own real hobbies in these activities.

Parents should follow the good path, make the child's hobby relatively stable, step by step, and form a central hobby among many hobbies. From simply starting from interest to developing specialties with a purpose. We must not see different thoughts, but persevere.

Especially when the child encounters difficulties and setbacks on the way forward, it is necessary to encourage him to overcome the difficulties and persevere to the end. Through the cultivation of interest, it is necessary to improve the quality of children's will to do things seriously and resolutely. In the specific process, parents can put forward some effective and useful suggestions to inspire their children to think, encourage them to use their brains, and find ways to overcome difficulties and succeed.

Provide children with an environment where they can develop their creative thinking, do not do everything, cherish children's curiosity, and patiently and carefully guide children to open the door to creative thinking and satisfy their curiosity. Guide your child to observe the world around him carefully, and once he has a strong interest in observation, he will take the initiative to understand the world for a long time. The important responsibility of parents is to guide their children to explore, and at the same time cultivate their children's interest in cultivating their character to overcome difficulties, so that they can gradually form a good will to have perseverance, not afraid of difficulties, and finally overcome difficulties through hard work.

Observe your child's interests and give them encouragement. For example, if they like to collect basketball cards, don't ban them from buying gum with the cards in the package. If they enjoy skateboarding, don't say they're wasting their time on boring activities.

If your child asks you to take them to a comic book market, try to accommodate them. If your child likes to feed the chickens, prepare some cereal ...... for themDon't criticize your child's interests casually.

Combined with personality and strengths, parents should guide their children and help them find their own hobbies. For those who are impatient, it is necessary to strengthen children's patience, such as drawing, playing chess, practicing the piano, etc.; There are also some children who are born to destroy the home, as long as it is not based on the destruction of danger, parents can tolerate it, and the child's destruction may be the basis for his future creation! Interest comes from life!

You can let your child try to do more things, such as rapping, dancing, drawing, writing, etc., and see which one of them she is more interested in, and cultivate it into her hobby.

Observe your child's daily life every day, see what your child likes to do, and then start with what your child likes.

In daily life, observe the child's own strengths, see what character she belongs to, each child has its own strengths, parents should observe the child attentively, for example, my child is not patient enough, impatient, irritable, but there is an advantage that is strong adaptability, strong communication skills, and good physical fitness. She likes to play sports and dance.

Give your child a voice. For example, if you think your child will love cross-country skiing, but all their friends love downhill skiing, let your child try both. Ask your child if you were to play downhill skiing with them, would they want to play cross-country skiing with you?

If you don't know how to ski, arrange for your child to go with a friend or a ski group.

Parents and children share activities to explore and cultivate children's interests and hobbies. In the common activities, you can not only understand the child's behavior characteristics, but also gain insight into the child's inner world, and also experience happiness with the child, so as to discover and cultivate the child's interests and hobbies.

If your child is tired of a hobby, don't scold him or force him to continue, let your child know that he has the right to change his mind even if you spend money to buy him equipment.

Cultivating children's interests and hobbies should be based on the characteristics of children, and cannot be based on subjective assumptions based on parents' likes and dislikes. Choose the most suitable project for your child according to your child's personality and flag.