Can reality defeat love? Can love without a material foundation last?

Many times love is defeated by reality.

In the face of reality, we can only sigh helplessly.

Love doesn't necessarily need a material foundation.

But love without a material foundation will not last long.

Because our first love was blind.

It's eye contact with each other.

and the spark of heart-to-heart collision.

However, little by little, time passed.

This surging will gradually decrease.

All the questions will arise one by one.

That is to say, how can you live without bread in love?

When even living is a luxury, why do you want love?

In fact, getting married at the age of 21 is a bit early, but can you guarantee that she will marry you when her relationship matures after 4 years?

Of course, if you really love each other, it doesn't matter if it's fourteen years, let alone four years.

It mainly depends on whether you can hold the girl's heart firmly.

Perhaps, Bijin sometimes has to bow his head in order to survive. There is nothing material, but the minimum standard of living should be there. Otherwise, there is a lasting negotiation.

This kind of thing is a matter for the two of you, and you have to ask her what she thinks, and if you can be sure that she loves you as much as you love her, what about four years? If you're not sure, then don't be confused, just bless her.

Can love without material foundation last? Will love really be slowly worn away in firewood, rice, oil and salt? Poverty is something that creates a terrible chemical reaction, and if you are a poor girl yourself, then after marrying a poor man, your poverty level will not be multiplied by two, but squared and squared.

Then your love and hope will be eroded. Some people will definitely say, there are more than one billion people in China, where can so many rich people marry you. But the point is that you can see from the question you asked on Zhihu that your heart is looking forward to a happy life and has relatively high expectations for marriage.

Without material security, your expectations cannot be met.

Those who are poor and poor are still doing well because they have lowered their expectations. Or rather, there were no expectations at all. So, either accept the fact that marrying him will not be happy, or you don't expect anything in the first place.

I am most afraid of getting married, and I still have the expectation that it will be better in case, which is usually a tragedy. Of course, there is a solution to this kind of bureau, that is, you make your own money, buy a house and a car by yourself. We women are always faced with the dilemma of love and bread, but when you have your own bread, this is not a problem.

You can choose to give bread to your loved ones, and you can also choose to have a cake.

It is not groundless for poor couples to mourn, even if they can be full of love at the beginning, but life is life, very realistic and cruel. Food and clothing need material, sick ** needs material, raising children and raising children requires material, empty love, can not solve the actual needs of all aspects of life. Therefore, with love, it is also necessary for two people to work together to create material things.

It doesn't matter if there is no material at the beginning, but you can't be without material all the time, otherwise, love will also be wiped out by trivial things and vegetables, rice, oil and salt. A happy life is built on the basis of the economy, and love without material things is simply a rare animal, a national treasure, the giant panda.

I think that without a material foundation, love can still last; It will not be slowly erased in firewood, rice, oil and salt, and the relationship between the two people will get better and deeper.

I don't think it can go on without a material foundation, yes, the love of two people will also exist because of firewood, rice, oil and salt, and in the end love will eventually go down the drain.