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Hello: First of all, I want to tell you that it is not easy to forget a person, or to forget a relationship. It takes a lot of effort from us.
Someone once said that it is impossible for a person to forget the person he loves, because once he forgets, it is not love. If you think about it, it still makes sense. So you don't have to blame yourself and be distressed that you can't forget someone.
But we can't forget what we don't want to remember, and it will be very uncomfortable, so we still have to try to forget or look down on it.
1.It is not easy to forget a person who has a weight in his heart. It's not impossible.
You can distract yourself by using the distraction method, such as: play more with friends, find more fun to do, read more humorous books, and relax. Watch some comedy and relax.
Listen**, and remember not to be sad. Go out and mingle!
2.Time will make you forget her (him), it is better to keep yourself very busy every day, it is better to stop living in the same city with her (him), it is better for you to make some new friends, maybe which one is your favorite in the future. In fact, you don't have to forget her (him), because the more you want to forget, the more you want to forget, you will subconsciously think of her (him) again.
You can recall little by little about her (him), when you recall, you will feel that you are very happy, but if you recall a little bit every day, every day a little bit, you will find that your memory is slowly unable to remember, just like we eat three meals a day, sometimes even what you eat in the morning, you will forget. Don't go out of your way to forget someone, because then you will love her (him) more than before, it's easy to love someone, it's hard to forget someone, it's even harder to really hate someone. You just need to leave the forgetting you want to her (him) to time to solve, and it's okay, after a long time, you will forget if you don't forget.
3..In fact, sometimes you can think differently: you love her (him)!
But sometimes, giving up is for a better option. On the one hand, you can find your own true love and get someone better than her (him). On the other hand, you love her (him), but you want her (him) to live better, maybe she (he) left you and lived better than now, you should actually be happy.
Friend, I can tell you a thing about me: to be honest, I have always liked someone, but that person doesn't like me now, but I also want you to be the same, every time I think about it, I have a feeling of regret, but I tell myself that I still have a long way to go, and that person doesn't accept me, no matter how hard I try, it will be useless. So bury this feeling in the bottom of your heart and treasure it.
Let me tell you one more sentence: the current girlfriend (boyfriend) or wife (husband) around me is not the person I love the most, in fact, it makes sense to taste it carefully.
The above is my summary, although it is not comprehensive, but I hope it will be helpful to you.
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Don't worry, first, time is the best antidote, even if you love someone very much, if you don't meet and don't contact for a long time, no matter how good the relationship is, it will change.
Second, start a new relationship.
Good luck.
You have to think like this, you love her so much, it is that she herself will not cherish you.
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Rest assured, take your time, time is a good thing.
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Love, with a tear to end. But spend his whole life forgetting ......
Be content and happy, and want to be happy! ~
You can say this to your friends, Gou is rich and noble, don't forget each other. In other words, if you are rich in the future, you must not forget the present.
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Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted. Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!