What do you do after a breakup?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-12
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Even if you have broken up, you should be grateful, because after all, you have left a lot of good memories with each other. If you have to put the blame on one party as soon as you break up, and say bad things about each other, then the relationship ends right.

    If the origami crane can be repeated, there will be no couples in the world who will break up.

    I also just broke up with my boyfriend, crying and sadness are inevitable, and not crying or being sad proves that this relationship is fake. Although I was the one who proposed to break up, I will only remember him well, after all, we were together because we liked each other.

    I'm not going to persuade you to give up on him or make peace with him, it's all up to you. Listen to your own voice, if you like him, if you like it, and then ask yourself if he is worth it.

    The most important thing for a woman is to find a man who knows how to feel sorry for herself.

    It is always said that men and women are equal, but in many ways, women are a vulnerable group after all, and they need to be cared for and loved.

    From my standpoint, if I were you, I would choose to give up on him, and since he already thinks that I am not good and unworthy, there is no need for me to pester him.

    It's just my idea because I have a strong personality.

    The final decision is up to you.

    Whatever your choice, I wish you happiness.

    Be happy!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I don't think you should care so much if you're really a good woman.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Men are all shitty and say this to satisfy their vanity and to improve themselves by degrading you. The old lady's first love is like this, how can I say that my character is not good behind my back, damn! I also stupidly folded stars for him!

    Now I think the old lady is stupid or stupid! Don't want this kind of man! Men crawl like dogs!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    She says she doesn't feel good for you anymore, does she not care enough about her, or are you nowhere near what she wants?

    She asks you to give her origami cranes, and she excludes that she's teasing you or using you, so she asks you to do it just because she wants to see it.

    See if you still care about her.

    You say that her temper is very similar to my girlfriend's, and when she's in a bad mood, she goes to her good friend to talk about so-and-so.

    How's that going, brother.

    I don't know exactly what that is.

    First of all, you have to find out whether she is worthy of your love, and is she the most important person in your life?

    If you're not clear, then you think about it, do you think about her before you go to bed? Do you dream of her in your dreams, and if so, it means that you need to turn back.

    It is recommended that you fold the paper crane, then wrap it up, and then go to her and say that you still care about her and love her.

    I can only give you some advice, and it's up to you to do that.

    Hope it helps.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Are you sure you like him?

    If you really like it, go back.

    But if something like that happens all the time in the future.

    I'm sure you're going to be tired.

    It's better to give up.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What you said is my current mood, my first love was also to meet such a boy, how to say how good at the beginning, I feel very happy, but also suddenly one day said that it is impossible to be with me, without any reason, but I was sad for a few months, delayed my good work, I feel that I dare not believe anything, why is it easy to change what men say,

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I will definitely find a way to keep him, because I really don't want to be separated from him in my heart, and I am willing to do anything if I can be with him again. Because I really don't want to miss it like this, I have paid so much. Still want to see a good result.

    I still hope that he can be moved!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    After the breakup, I will cry a lot, and then think about what happened before, miss my previous life, and at the same time listen to ** play games, decadent for a while, and then find a life and object that suits you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If I break up, I will be separated from him immediately and will not be with him anymore. I will take away all the items that belong to me in the house, and then say goodbye to each other, after all, I have loved each other before.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Then after you broke up, what I did was regret, so I immediately chased the other party back, and after my efforts, now we are finally together, and we are still very happy.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Usually I have a lot of things to do, I will reorganize myself, another bag, go and find another person worthy of love in my life, live with him, basically that's all.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    After a breakup, I like to stay alone quietly, look back on the time of the two people, find out the deep reason why the two people can't go to the end, and then completely forget about the former and start a new life.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    As the saying goes, in this world, no one can live without anyone, maybe you are used to having someone around you to rely on, give you comfort and warmth, but at this time you should learn to be emotionally independent, maybe you still have attachment to him (her), but this can only be said to be human nature.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    After the breakup, the first thing I did was to go crazy and play, and after the breakup, I would find a few friends who had a good time, go crazy together, go to singing, go to play, and play to an exhaustion. I wanted to cover up the sadness in my heart with an. I don't want the other person to see my sad appearance, I want the other person to know that I am still alive and well without the other party.

    However, when I returned home at night and was alone, I couldn't help crying.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    As hard as it was for us to break up, please accept the bad feelings.

    What you have to do during this time, pack up your mood and get ready to be a delicate and happy single aristocrat, adapting to a single life.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    1.Spend time with family and friends: When we are in a relationship, we often neglect family and friends, and after a breakup, you will have more time to spend with these important people in your life, and you will also learn how to balance your love in the next relationship.

    2.Reading: Reading can not only enrich your own connotation, but also broaden your horizons, and many times a single sentence can change a person's state of mind.

    If you feel depressed, it is better to plunge into the sea of books, the power of words is greater than you think, especially when you are emotionally vulnerable, you should put good thinking in your head.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Thank you for your interest.

    After the breakup, I will do a lot of meaningful things to divert my attention and get myself out of the shadow of the breakup as soon as possible. I believe that many people will feel very uncomfortable in their hearts after a breakup, and it will take a long time to get out of the shadow of the breakup, so we must do something meaningful after the breakup, which can also divert our attention and let us not be immersed in sadness all the time.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    After the breakup, I felt that I still liked each other. I followed my roommate's advice and texted each other every day, either to ask about the other person's current situation or to say something inconsequential... insisted on sending it for a whole year, but the other party never replied to the text message. Once I was really uncomfortable, I couldn't help but hit the other party.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Of course, it is very sad, because two people have feelings together, and now after breaking up, the mood will be very sad, at this time, they usually lock themselves in the house, or continue to drink with friends to express the depression in their hearts.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    After the breakup, I would delete all the **s, and then throw all the things he gave me in the trash, and finally clean up all the articles about him.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    After the breakup, I will let myself be alone, find a city I have never been to and stop and go by myself, think about what I have not done well enough in this relationship, whether I have changed when this relationship ends, whether I have made progress or whether it has become better than before, I will summarize this relationship, and then I will let go and start my own life.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Maybe you should get drunk, and maybe you can forget these memories that sting you;

    Maybe you should cry a lot, crying can paralyze yourself and forget this love and hatred;

    Maybe you should be presumptuous, take a trip that you can just go, so that you will no longer be depressed all day long.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Actually, there are a lot of things I need to do after I break up with the other party, I will develop my hobbies, or do the things I like, and I will have more time to take care of my family, so I think these are all things I need to do.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    After the breakup, I will engage in strenuous sports, which can consume my physical strength and energy, and try not to think about those troubles. Because after a breakup, you will definitely be in a bad mood. So you should divert your attention. Then face a new life.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I will give myself a period of time to slowly get out of this failed relationship, so that I can better meet the future, start my new life, put all my energy into work, prove my ability, and make myself better and better, so that I can attract the opposite sex and find a more suitable one.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    In fact, everyone breaks up for different reasons, and the mood after the breakup is not the same, some people are a painful feeling, very nostalgic for their previous life, and some people are a kind of relief, feeling free from the shackles, and the mood is extremely cheerful, so some people choose to be silently lonely, and some people choose to be with friends.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    After a normal breakup, I usually go out to travel, want to go to a place with beautiful mountains and rivers, isolate from the outside world, play for a few days, relax my mood, and secondly, I will have a good party with my girlfriends and friends, go shopping, and distract myself, so that I can better get out of the sadness of the breakup.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    After a breakup, they will pack up all the things about the other party, and out of sight is clean; return what needs to be returned to the other party; Try not to contact your ex after a breakup; will find appropriate time to go outside to relax and vent their emotions; Find friends and girlfriends to cry, chat and talk about hearts; Then adjust your mindset and face the new life positively.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    After the breakup, if you are upset, you can look for other things, divert your attention, such as travel, food, etc. to divert your attention and divert your feelings for him, you should look for new things, let yourself have something to rely on, have new ideas, and don't indulge in this relationship.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you didn't break up first, you would go home and hide in your room after the breakup, and cry happily. The boy doesn't flick when he has tears, but it's not time to be sad. Instead of being silent in the depression of thinking about her, it is better to vent her emotions by crying, and from then on, it will be cut in two, and the grace will be exhausted.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    After a breakup between lovers, the first thing to do is to negotiate a peaceful breakup amicably, and after the breakup, you must find a way to get out of the shadow of broken love as soon as possible, adjust your life, and start a new relationship at the right time to find your own happy life.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If I can't get to the end with him, I will choose to break up earlier, after the breakup, I will first make my heart strong, you slowly make yourself better, and finally choose to find other people who love me, and I will not keep worrying about the one before the breakup.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I think that after a breakup, you should never take revenge because you have a grudge against each other, nor should you resentment each other because two people did not go to the end, I think you should face life with a calm attitude, to create your own life, and not to disturb each other.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I'm looking for one after a breakup.

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