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Hehe, this is very helpless, because of the influence of society and people.
Most of people's hypocrisy is to cover up their weak and ignorant side, and they are very disapproving, self-righteous, don't care too much about what others think of you, just do what you have to do, you are not the only one in the world, and he is not the only one, and it is not one less earth that will not turn, most of the people in the world are ordinary people, all day long for the little things around them, people who understand the laws of the world will cherish every minute and every second of their own to do meaningful things, so that they are more valuable in this world, There is a sense of presence.
Good luck with you to overcome!
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It is related to the environment in which you grow, work, and learn. If you want not to be hypocritical, you can do it. As long as the essence is not bad, your hypocrisy is nothing more than a way of dealing with life, and no one will condemn you.
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Sometimes hypocrisy is just a kind of self-protection and disguise, and society needs hypocrisy and lies. It's all too real, it's time to mess up. Hehe.
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To be a human being is to be hypocritical, otherwise no one wants to have more contact with you, in real society, not being hypocritical will make people look down on me, I mean a lot of someone.
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Sometimes it's just helplessness, it's not that you want to be bad, it's that the surrounding environment has to make you do it.
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As long as you don't change, everything is fine.
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Because society is like that.
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The first thing to distinguish between hypocrisy and prudence is to begin with.
It's not that the bigger people are, the more hypocritical they are, it's just that people understand what flexibility is, how to survive when they know how to survive, and what prudence is.
When I was a child, I encountered something, I just told the truth, and I didn't have to worry about the consequences of my words, I laughed when I was happy, and I cried when I was angry, and I didn't have to think about anything else at all.
When people grow up, they know that they don't wipe your eyes, no one heals you, and they know that there will be unexpected consequences when they say the truth, so they will know to be cautious when they do things and speak.
It seems hypocritical, but in fact it is cautious. Honesty is a person's good quality, when honesty hits a wall everywhere, it will choose to be flexible, in this process of adaptation, there will be an element of hypocrisy, but people's honesty is something in the bones, and temporary hypocrisy is also to live.
Complete! If a person is growing, then he will not get closer to hypocrisy, because hypocrisy cannot bring him success, and when he succeeds, he does not need hypocrisy, but needs to move towards a low profile. On the contrary, if a person does not progress, only hypocrisy can find a reason for his existence.
Regardless of adults or villains, those who tell lies are harming themselves.
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In the real world, people are becoming more and more hypocritical, and almost everyone wears a veil and acts as an insincere self. The word "friend" has become more and more abstract. The meaning of friend has different concepts in the eyes of different people.
Friends, no matter how long they have known each other, no matter how many times they have met, as long as they treat them with sincerity, they are friends. Some people, when they use friends, try to compliment them, and when they achieve their goals, they scoff at them, and even ridicule and ridicule you in front of other friends, and belittle you in front of others, in fact, this is not a friend. It's just a tool he wants to take advantage of when he's in trouble.
Friends, not every day to contact, although the world is all over the world, but when will the other party not lose contact with you will not forget your mobile phone number to ask who you are, maybe because of each other's busy work alienated relationship, but the holiday text message is also a warm thought, friends, not everything has to be reported to you, friends, the longer the more true, the more plain and pure, the more sincere the longer. A true friend, when you make a fool of yourself, he will not laugh at you coldly, he will not look at you coldly when you are in trouble, he will not help you, and he will not run away like a ghost in fright, a real friend will not be jealous of you when you are excellent, when you tell him the secret. He won't spoil you or even take it as a handle.
When you are sad, he will persuade you with sincere and simple words, and when you are worried about work, he can accompany you to relieve your boredom and tell you some truth. A true friend, only one step worse than a lover, only one level lower than your parents, a true friend can accompany you through your life until forever. True friends are of no age, no matter whether they are male or female, nor are they classified as ranks, nor are they rich or poor, as long as you are sincere enough.
A true friend, when you are in a difficult situation, listens to you, he will not just take it as someone else's business and listen to the joke. True friends will try their best to help you, understand you, and pull you along! A true friend will not cross the moral bottom line to occupy your love or physical object!
True friends, let alone scolding, because friends respect each other, even if there are any contradictions, they are held in their hearts, at most they are estranged from the relationship, and they will not scold, if you can scold your friends, then you are not real friends. True friends, there are many sayings, in my eyes, this is a real friend, if a person has two such friends, then I feel that this person is really happy and lucky. However, lucky people are always rare, so when you have such a friend, you must cherish this kind of friendship, treat all kinds of emotions with your sincerity, and true friendship will last forever.
Remember to adopt it.
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Many people are snobbish, selfish, hypocritical, immoral, and unkind. But that's not what we should learn, what we should do is not to forget our original intention, not to let the world change ourselves, and to maintain the purity of our hearts.
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When I was a child, it was called innocence, and I could talk and do things without scruples!
You don't have to think about anything.
When people grow up, they are different, some people can't guess at all, and even do whatever they want to achieve their goals, in a word, what they see and hear on the surface is not necessarily true.
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This problem needs to be analyzed in detail. In some cases, it is more practical and mature to face the buried energy directly, but in other cases, it may be wiser to mask it appropriately. Here are some factors to consider:
Occasion: In some situations, such as work or formal situations, it may be more appropriate and professional to face them directly. But in private settings, you may need to consider your own feelings and those of others, and it may be more appropriate to cover them up appropriately.
Consequences: Some topics may cause controversy or have undesirable consequences, so you need to think carefully about what you say and do. Confronting it directly may have some negative consequences, while proper cover-up may reduce unnecessary trouble.
Purpose: If your purpose is to protect your own interests or the interests of others, then covering up may be a better option. But if your purpose is to solve a problem or express your opinion, then it may be more effective to face it directly.
In conclusion, whether it is confronted directly or appropriately covered up, decisions need to be made on a case-by-case basis and handled with honesty and respect in the process of dealing with the problem.
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First of all, it must be clear that facing and hypocritically covering up is not the right choice to repent.
Confronting and disguising will not solve the problem, it will only complicate it.
Therefore, in the face of the challenges of growing up, the best way to deal with them correctly and respect their own feelings is to find the most suitable solution based on effective communication.
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It's better to face it directly, if something goes wrong if you do this, others won't help you, if you say it directly, maybe you still have a way out.
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Man is not hypocritical in itself.
But human beings are social animals, diverse animals, they need to face all aspects, they need to think, they need to treat others and solve problems on different occasions and situations. No matter how bad the relationship between the two people is, no matter how much you want to hate him in your heart, you must get by on the face, otherwise you will be looked down upon by others and think you are immature. As a mature person, he will not open his mouth to scold or raise his hand when he meets someone he hates.
When it's time to maintain your demeanor, you still have to maintain your demeanor and show your generosity. This is because it is necessary to leave room for both sides, and the contradictions must not intensify to the point of irreconcilability, and only in this way will there be no situation in which they will not be slapped in the face when they need to ease their emotions in the future. Only children will, if there is a slight contradiction, they will say "I won't play with you anymore".
The unhappiness in the heart always needs to be vented, and it will be easy to get sick if you keep it in your heart, so you can only retaliate behind your back and say bad things about him. I think this is normal and understandable. If the person I provoked, the person who hated me, my enemy, he didn't speak ill of me behind his back, I felt abnormal, and he must be sick in his heart!
Because he doesn't vent his inner boredom. In the long run, you will get sick and eventually die.
I would like to ask, when the landlord is interacting with others, how does he treat people he hates? Cold faces? How do you deal with colleagues you don't like?
Don't speak? Not cooperating? Will you directly face him and say, you are not good, that is not good, I hate you very much, don't dangle in front of me!
Will you do that? What do you think if your friend treats someone you hate like this?
So people are sincere, and the environment needs to behave hypocritically.
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Hypocrisy, is necessary in this society.!
They don't even think it's hypocritical, because they're used to it.
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What can I do about this, when I grow up, I am not as innocent as I was, if he doesn't say behind his back that you are so difficult that you have to point at you in person, will you be able to stand it? He will talk about you behind your back, maybe not because he hates you and maliciously says bad things about you, but there are some ways you behave and do things differently from him. First of all, you have to see if this person is worthy of you.
In fact, everyone will have something that they can't get used to looking at others, but there are people who don't say it, I think that's the big yin person, and hypocrisy everyone has the one they can't escape, but they don't think it.
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That's not hypocrisy, that's probably a layer of self-preservation. Don't worry, when you become true friends with this person, it will fade.
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What a hypocrisy you say.
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Society is cruel and has to give you two slaps in the face. You know how realistic he is.
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It's true, you have to get used to it. I didn't think much about junior high school before, but high school people are very hypocritical, and I don't dare to imagine what kind of scenery people in college will be.
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Yes, people always have a hypocritical side.
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This is the first lesson in the adult world, protective colors, everyone will have. There are two roles: on the one hand, it can serve as a protection, and on the other hand, it can reduce conflict.
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This is a protective film, and you may think it's bad, but in fact, if you don't, it's easy to be deceived, and it's impossible to treat everyone sincerely, and to be able to say bad things about you to you is a friend.
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Because there are many things that have been experienced, and there have been many injuries, hypocrisy is one of the many masks, because if you want to protect yourself, you may hurt the people around you, so it is not easy to do it directly, and in the eyes of others, this is hypocrisy.
It proves that they are very insecure and have no sense of accomplishment.
They are afraid, afraid that they will be looked down upon by others, and always want to make something to be recognized by others. You may have met many such people in reality, always flaunting how great and capable they are, and meeting everyone they have eaten, in fact, it is a kind of inferiority complex.
The reason why they are hypocritical is because they are too inferior, and only those who have no ability have to rely on some additional skills of their own to be recognized by others, such as a mouth that dares to blow.
I have met too many such people in reality, I laugh at them and don't care, hypocrisy is the essence of human nature, if people are not hypocritical, they are not people, if everyone is sincere, then people are not people.
What the ideal society can never achieve, hypocrisy will always exist, just like everyone is willing to listen to praise and criticism, normal.
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