Why do some people want to die when they like it, but they have to deny it?

That's because of the thin skin, I don't have the courage to say I like the person I like, this is a bad habit and psychology, if you like it, you have to say it, if you don't say it, people will never know, don't miss a person you like for the face in your heart, you have to know that you like people are not easy to find, miss one less one.

Because I'm embarrassed, if I admit it, I'll be ridiculed or I can't even be a friend because of it, so it's too sad. And if you like it very much and don't say it yourself, it means that you have some inferiority complex and are afraid of rejection, so you will deny it even more.

Most of this situation is a girl, because she has her own little pride, and she feels that if she admits the person she likes first, she will lose. And she is also afraid that her liking will be known by the other party, but he doesn't mean that to herself, how embarrassing it is, maybe she can't even be a friend.

I think it's probably tsundere. Well, once I had a girl I liked. When she asked me if I liked her, I denied it.

I didn't know why I was saying that. I just said it subconsciously. Now that I think about it, I may have been shy at the time.

It is also possible that she was afraid of being rejected by her, so she denied it.

This kind of love usually occurs in the period when they are more ignorant of love, because at this time, simple children always think that falling in love with someone is a very embarrassing thing, they are afraid of being teased by their classmates, even if it is just a joke, she is afraid of becoming the object of gossip in the mouth of everyone, so she obviously likes to die, but she refuses to admit it.

I think there are compelling reasons for this, for example, he obviously likes someone, but he is a person who can't like this person, because he already has a family, a wife and children, and he can only suppress this liking in his heart and can't express it.

I have a friend who is like this, and the discerning person knows at a glance that she likes our class leader, but she just doesn't admit it. Afterwards I asked her why she didn't admit it, and she said to me, "I'm embarrassed because I always feel like I'm not worthy of him."

Now we go to friendship, and I'm afraid that I won't be able to make friends after I admit it, because my feeling is that he doesn't like me and I won't like you, thank you. Third, I was afraid that the other students in the class would laugh at me and say that I was whimsical.

If I like him, I think he's good and I'm not good enough, I don't think he's going to be good with me, because I'm not good enough, maybe he's better with another person, I don't know what kind of thinking I have, but that's how I think and I do, and then I'm really pushed away, and I will always want to think about him, I want him back, I don't want him back, I want him to be good, I want him to be happy, I want him to be happy, the more I think about it, the more I think I can't do it, the more I push him away, it will be an endless cycle.

You can think about it from another angle, 1, if you don't like the other person, and the other party confesses to you, you will be very embarrassed, and then there will be no then, he likes you at first, but after the confession, you will reject him very much, and then, he will lose you.

2. If he likes you and you like him, of course you want him to confess (a bad way to determine the relationship), and then you want to be together. However, I think that there are many ways to determine the relationship between the sexes, and the other party does not confess, but also through some of their own ways to test whether the other party likes or hates themselves, and there is still room for development. I think it is more appropriate and subtle to judge or determine the relationship between the two through physical contact, and reduce embarrassment.

For example, if the other party holds hands with you intentionally or unintentionally, if you hate him, you will definitely show disgust, and he will immediately understand: you don't like him, he knows what to do. But if you like him, then you won't particularly dislike him, and the next thing is that the relationship deepens further.

We need to think more, we want to live, we want to communicate, we want to meet, all kinds of rules limit more unexpected consequences, so if a person refers to more conditions, more rules, then he is even more afraid to confess, even if he weighs the pros and cons, it can even be said that "the merits and demerits are offset", but there are more uncontrollable factors.

Therefore, I think that a person who thinks seriously and logically will never confess when he is sure that you like him, at least without being 80% sure that you like him.

Of course, the above is logical

I think he has an inferiority complex in his heart, he is afraid of being rejected, and he is afraid that after the other party knows, he will not even be able to be a friend, which also shows that he cherishes the relationship between the two more.

The reason why this situation occurs is that the two of them can't effectively consider the problem from each other's perspective in their daily interactions, and they don't know how to respect, understand, and tolerate each other, and never know how to bow their heads and admit their mistakes first.

These people are in the way of face, and if they are particularly active, but others are not particularly willing, they will make themselves the object of ridicule by others.