In Shengji, don t allow characters, in anger, don t write with people What does it mean

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When people are happy, they will be fluttering, and they will often casually promise others to send something, and regret it when they calm down; It is easy to hurt others when you are angry, and it is easy to vent your anger on others when you write a letter to others, which will hurt others. Your words and deeds will also be inappropriate.

There is no praise or praise.

Quote from Master Hongyi:

In the midst of joy, no characters are allowed. In anger, don't answer people's books. Words of joy are more untrustworthy. When you are angry, you lose your body.

Meaning: When people are very happy, don't just promise to give things to others. When you're angry, don't write back to someone.

This means that when people are emotional (happy and angry), they tend to lose their minds and act irrationally. When he calms down, he regrets his excesses. However, once the word is spoken, the horse is difficult to chase.

If you have said things that should not be said and done things that you should not have done, you have to bear them. Therefore, in order to avoid similar situations, people are warned to "do not allow people when they are happy, and do not answer people when they are angry". When we calm down, we will know what to do and what not to do, so that we can do things more appropriately.

When people are happy, they tend to get carried away and promise others something, and this promise cannot be fulfilled by themselves. Thus losing trust in others.

When people are angry, don't praise others too much, otherwise you will lose decency.

In the midst of joy, no characters are allowed.

In anger, don't answer people's books.

Words of joy are more untrustworthy.

When you are angry, you lose your body.

Sit quietly, often thinking about Wu Lao Oak has passed.

Idle talk, don't talk about people.

With the frost of self-encouragement, the quality is high.

To accommodate people with the measure of the dome, then the virtue and the day are vast.

To learn from friends is to learn more and more.

If you benefit from prudence and prudence, you will have a long way.

Therefore, it is said: "Loyalty to deeds, forgiveness and things".

He also said: "Cultivate its heavenly lord, and the human lord will follow it." ”

The heart is not delusional, the body is not vain, the mouth is not vain, so the gentleman is sincere.

Don't deceive inside, don't deceive people outside, don't deceive the sky, so the gentleman is cautious.

things, avoid all wins.

things, avoid the United States.

People contain or, avoid the heyday.

Ammo is content with contentment. The danger is not too much.

This sentence comes from Master Yu Hongyi's "Uncle Li's Quotations in the Same French".

It can also be understood in this way: "In the midst of prosperity, no characters are allowed; In anger, don't answer people's books. Words of joy are more untrustworthy. When you are angry, you lose your body. ”

The meaning of this sentence is: when a person is ecstatic, he should never easily agree to give someone something (or something);

When a person is furious and manic, he should never write letters to others easily;

Because what is said when you are ecstatic is often exaggerated, irresponsible, and inconsistent in words and deeds, and loses credibility; When you are angry and manic, you often lose your mind, speak unscrupulously, speak recklessly, ignorantly, cynical, and indecent, thus offending the other person.

This quote also admonishes us:

Don't make promises easily when you are ecstatic, because when you are ecstatic is when you are proud of the spring breeze, you tend to overestimate your ability to do things, and you are in a happy mood, and it is easy to make a quick tongue for a while, and it is easy to make promises easily, which is often difficult to fulfill in the future, and in the long run, it is easy to leave people with the impression of being frivolous and shallow, and untrustworthy.

Don't write letters to others easily when you are angry and manic, because when you are angry and manic, you lose your mind, and you just want to vent your dissatisfaction, and when you are depressed, you are easy to say something unscrupulous, and you often offend others.

When you are extremely happy, don't promise anything to others, when you are extremely angry, don't answer other people's questions, most of the things you say when you are happy will not keep your promises, and what you say when you are angry is often undignified.

Don't promise to give things to others when you're particularly happy, and don't reply to someone's letter when you're particularly angry. When you rejoice, you will generally lose your trust. When you are angry, you generally lose your dignity.

Admonish people to cultivate their minds and be cautious in their words and deeds.

Interpretation: Don't promise anything to others when you're happy, and don't talk to others when you're angry. When he is happy, he often casually promises something to others, and regrets it when he calms down; It is easy to hurt others when you are angry, and it is easy to vent your anger on others when you write a letter to others, which will hurt others, and your words and deeds will be inappropriate.

Source: From Jin Ying's "Aphorisms Lianbi" in the Qing Dynasty.

"Aphorisms Lianbi" is a single book of Jin Ying's selection of aphorisms in his compilation of "Juejue Lu". After the publication of the book, there were different copies among the people, "the printing of the book was sloppy, the suppression was many, the inscription was noisy, and the copies were different." Chaoyang Guo Futing felt this, and took the old institute to revise the "Maxim Lianbi", "just pass through the people, add the survey, write in regular letters, and repay the fine publication".

Interpretation: When you are very happy, don't easily agree to send people (things), and when you are very angry, don't write letters to people. Because when you say something when you are happy, you are often easy to lose your trust because you regret it afterwards, and when you are angry, you write letters to others, and you often speak inappropriately (and offend the other party).

Source: From Master Hongyi's "Uncle Li's Quotations in the Same French".

This sentence also warns us: don't make promises easily when you are ecstatic, because when you are ecstatic is when you are proud, you tend to overestimate your ability to do things, and you are in a happy mood, and it is easy to be quick to make a promise, and it is often difficult to fulfill it in the future, and in the long run, it is easy to leave people with the impression of being frivolous and shallow, and untrustworthy.

Hongyi Master Li Shu is quoted in the same French.

Meaning: When people are happy, they will be fluttering, and they will often casually promise others to send something, and regret it when they calm down; It is easy to hurt others when you are angry, and it is easy to vent your anger on others when you write a letter to others, which will hurt others. Your words and deeds will also be inappropriate.

Li Shutong:

In the midst of joy, no characters are allowed. In anger, don't answer people's books. Words of joy are more untrustworthy. When you are angry, you lose your body. ”

The original text is from Master Hongyi's sentence. If the sentence is broken in this way, it will be easier to understand: "In the midst of happiness, do not allow characters; In anger, don't answer people's books.

The words of joy are more discredited, and the words of anger are more out of character. This means: When you are very happy, don't easily agree to send people (things), and when you are very angry, don't write letters to people.

Because what you say when you are happy is often easy to lose your trust because you regret it afterwards, and when you write a letter to someone when you are angry, you often speak inappropriately (and offend the other party).

From Master Hongzhi Belt 1 "Uncle Li Zaotong with French Quotations".

Don't make promises easily when you're happy, because when you're happy, most of them will misjudge their abilities and misestimate the difficulty of things. In addition, it is easy to be quick to speak for a while, and it is easy to make promises at this time, which is often difficult to fulfill in the future. It is easy to give people the impression of being frivolous and shallow, and untrustworthy.