After marriage, how to choose your first love, white moonlight and mosquito blood?

I choose White Moonshine. Because Bai Yueguang is the most beautiful person in my heart, I am willing to follow that innocent feeling.

If you meet your first love after getting married, I think you still have to be responsible for your marriage and your wife.

You can choose Bai Yueguang, after all, she is already married, and there is no need to go to her again.

The white moonlight is a symbol of beauty. It represents the sacrosanct woman, and represents the image of a girl who is as bright and pure as the moonlight in the minds of men.

Mosquito blood is a woman like a housewife in real life, representing a woman who is completely obedient to herself.

White moonlight and mosquito blood are from the novella ** "Red Rose and White Rose": "Every man will have two women in his life; married a red rose, and over time, the red rose became a smear of mosquito blood on the wall, and the white rose was still "the bright moonlight in front of the bed"; married a white rose, the white rose is a grain of rice on the clothes, and the red one is still a cinnabar mole on the heart. ”

White moonlight is a symbol of beauty, representing the image of a girl as bright, pure and moving as moonlight in men's minds. . .

Mosquito blood is in real life, a woman like a housewife, who can take care of you, but is not as beautiful as moonlight.

I understand it myself. -

The white moonlight represents the sacrosanct woman;

Mosquito blood represents a woman who is completely submissive to herself. (Because the blood of mosquitoes also sucks the man's own!) ）

I understand it myself. -

Could it be a woman who talks about two personalities?

White Rose vs Red Rose?

Is it an internet term? I don't know, I'm sorry.

White moonlight is virtuous and gentle.

Mosquito blood shrew.

Zhang Ailing is a female writer in modern Chinese history, what words come to mind when you mention this female writer Zhang Ailing? Cheongsam, intellectual, goddess? So what is her book "White Roses and Red Roses" about?

Zhang Ailing has a legendary life, and her life is full of strangeness and legend. Born in a family of eunuchs, it was a famous family at that time, but in her father's generation, the family began to decline, and her father remarried a new woman who was influenced by Western culture. Such a fragmented family is bound to leave a deep impression on Zhang Ailing, therefore, although Zhang Ailing was not from an ordinary background in the early days, she was influenced by factors such as the acquired family environment, and gradually formed her withdrawn, arrogant, and self-styled character.

As a young female creator in the new era, Zhang Ailing has left a lot of popular works, including "Agarwood Crumbs: The First Incense", "Agarwood Crumbs: The Second Incense", "Jasmine Chips", "Love in a Fallen City", etc. Today we will talk about one of them, "White Roses and Red Roses", in this work, the author takes China in the 20th century, which was affected by Western culture as the perspective, and shows the tragic life of traditional Chinese women under the influence of tradition and modernity, China and Western culture by describing the inner psychology of ordinary people.

This work mainly tells the story of a man in the traditional sense, who marries a wife and has children, and his wife is of the white rose type, but he yearns for a passionate and unrestrained woman like a red rose, and finally becomes a lover. The whole ** does not make strong type judgments and value judgments on the two characters of "Red Rose" and "White Rose", and does not say which type is the best.

Rice grains, from Eileen Chang's "Red Roses and White Roses".

There is such a passage in Zhang Ailing's "Red Rose and White Rose": Maybe every man has had two such women, at least two. married a red rose, and over time, the red one changed to a smear of mosquito blood on the wall, and the white one was still "the bright moonlight in front of the bed"; married a white rose, the white one is a grain of rice sticky on the clothes, but the red one is a cinnabar mole on the heart.

Red Rose and White Rose is one of the most widely circulated novellas in Eileen Chang's many works. The author uses delicate brushstrokes to describe the hidden psychology and complexes of ordinary people, shows people's emotions and marital life at the intersection of Chinese and Western cultures in the thirties and forties of the 20th century, and reveals the tragic life of women in a patriarchal society under the integration of tradition and modernity.

The book includes short and medium-length stories written by Eileen Chang from 1944 to 1947, including more than 10 works such as "When I Was Young" and "Withered Flowers".

Cinnabar mole, mosquito blood, white moonshine, and one more: white rice, which respectively represents:

Cinnabar Mole: Mosquito Blood: When a man gets a red rose, she becomes a smear of mosquito blood

It is mainly about the male protagonist who has two women he likes, but she doesn't know how to choose, so he marries one of the women, but he misses the other woman in his heart, so he divorces his wife and marries another woman, but after getting married, he starts to miss his ex-wife again.

Meaning: It expresses the eternal love of a man for a woman and the commitment of a man to a woman to stay together for a lifetime.

Eileen Chang wrote in "Red Roses and White Roses": "Maybe every man has had two women like this, at least two. Married to a red rose, over time, the red one changed to a smear of mosquito blood on the wall, and the white one was still"Bright moonlight in front of the bed"; married a white rose, the white one is a grain of rice sticky on the clothes, but the red one is a cinnabar mole on the heart.

"Red Rose and White Rose" is actually Zhang Ailing's own interpretation of love. She used unconventional selection techniques to outline the beauty of the whole work, meticulously described the hidden psychology and complexes of ordinary people, showed people's emotions and marital life in China in the thirties and forties of the 20th century when Chinese and Western cultures converged, and revealed the tragic life of women in a patriarchal society under the integration of tradition and modernity.

Rice grains, from Eileen Chang's [Red Rose White Rose].

The implication is that good things will pick on shortcomings after they are obtained, and things that cannot be obtained are beautiful even if they are ordinary.

It is often compared to the illusion that you don't know how to cherish and covet what you can't get.

Zhang Ailing wrote in "Red Rose and White Rose": "A man has such two women in his life, at least two. married a red rose, after a long time, the red one became a smear of mosquito blood on the wall, and the white one was still 'the bright moonlight in front of the window'. When you marry a white rose, the white one becomes a grain of rice sticky on your clothes, but the red one is a cinnabar mole on your heart.

It means that men don't cherish it after they get it. I don't want to be a sticky rice and mosquito blood, which means that I hope that after accepting a man, I can still be cherished as white moonlight and cinnabar moles.

As the name suggests, rice sticky refers to the weak who need to rely on others, the poor worm. And mosquito blood, as the name suggests, also refers to the weak who need to suck human blood to feed themselves. So in essence, I don't want to be weak. This is an era of the jungle, and the winner is king.

I don't want to be abused and bullied at will. In this world, the weak eat the strong, I don't want to be the weak side, I want to be strong.

Each of us has a long or short life, and our life is mainly divided into several stages, the study period, the work period, and the retirement time after getting old, and during our study period, we will meet a lot of classmates.

It can be said that the best time in our lives is probably our school stage, in which we live a carefree life and have a lot of classmates with us, all like-minded, working together every day, playing together.

This will become the best memory of our lives, and many times the white moonlight and cinnabar mole we encounter are encountered during this period, so let's tell the story of the white moonlight and cinnabar mole.

White moonshine and cinnabar moles. Zhang Ailing said such a sentence in the book Red Roses and White Roses he made, maybe every man has had such two women, at least two married red roses, and over time the red ones have changed and there are mosquito blood on the wall, and the white ones are still married to white roses by the bright moonlight in front of the bed, and the white ones are a grain of rice on the clothes, but the red ones are a cinnabar mole on the heart.

In fact, Zhang Ailing has already said very clearly, no matter who you marry, there will always be regrets, and once you get it, there will always be a loss.

And in our whole life, the so-called white moonlight is those people we can not reach, such as those good students with excellent character and learning that we secretly liked when we were young, their personalities are very gentle and pure, and they may be very introverted, they are the white moonlight that we can not hope for.

So what is a cinnabar mole, cinnabar mole, is those enthusiastic and unrestrained, every move is teasing our hearts, when we are with everyone, we feel very happy, but at the same time there is a strong sense of depravity.

And if you choose Bai Yueguang, then with the development of time, the original Bai Yueguang is likely to become an old woman with firewood, rice, oil and salt, and then you will feel that you miss the cinnabar mole so much.

And if you choose the experience of your youth, you will find that with the development of time, the original cinnabar mole will gradually age, and suddenly feel that the white moonlight of the year should still bloom with the light of wisdom.

From Zhang Ailing's "Red Rose and White Rose", white moonlight and cinnabar mole represent two different kinds of girls in it, after getting red roses, over time, red roses have become a smear of mosquito blood on the wall, and white roses have become white moonlight, white moonlight refers to elegant, pure, and girls who meet your fantasy of pure love. Get the white rose, over time, the white rose becomes a grain of white rice, and the red rose becomes the cinnabar mole in the heart, the cinnabar mole refers to the kind that is beautiful, open, and bright, and every move tugs at your heartstrings.

What Zhang Ailing said about white roses turned into white rice, but what she couldn't get was white moonlight, which was a quiet, beautiful and innocent woman; What the red rose gets becomes mosquito blood, and what you don't get is the cinnabar mole in the heart, a warm and charming woman.

Bai Yueguang generally refers to the first love, it is a woman that a man once loved deeply, and it may be a secret love when she has been together, and the cinnabar mole is the person on the tip of the heart, and it has not changed that it has always been this woman.

Bai Yueguang refers to a very good woman who will never forget it when we see it once in our hearts, while a cinnabar mole refers to a woman with a very distinct personality who can be remembered at any time.

In previous legends, cinnabar was actually a cinnabar mole, and he and Bai Yueguang could represent two women with very different personalities, cinnabar represented a lively and open woman, and Bai Yueguang was a gentle and elegant woman.

White moonlight refers to the purity and flawlessness of the person you once liked, representing the perfect love object. Cinnabar moles refer to objects that make a deep impression on oneself and are unforgettable.

Bai Yueguang refers to the girl she liked at first, but she didn't get it from a distance, and the cinnabar mole was obtained but not cherished.

Bai Yueguang refers to people who can't love, people who don't love cinnabar moles, no matter who it is, it's a pain.

In fact, these two do not refer to a certain thing, but to two kinds of people, one is a lively and open girl that boys prefer, and the other is the kind of gentle and virtuous.

White moonlight refers to someone you want to hug but can't, and cinnabar mole refers to someone you have hugged and never hugged again.