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It would be rude if, as you said, you walked down the street and stared carefully into the eyes of other strangers! People will definitely be unpleasant, and they will scold you if they don't get it right.
But if you're talking to someone, it doesn't matter if it's an acquaintance or a stranger. Looking into the other person's eyes when talking is a minimum of courtesy. When talking to someone, looking east and west, it will give the other person a feeling of being slighted, thinking that you don't take him seriously at all, and that he is absent-minded.
People will think that you don't even have the minimum qualities.
In short, it's not right to stare into someone's eyes all the time, but if you're talking to someone, you have to look into their eyes, which is the least polite.
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When talking to people! People will definitely be unpleasant, absent-minded, this is the least politeness, that will give the other party a feeling of being despised, you walk on the street and have nothing to do to stare at the eyes of other people's strangers, and if you don't get it, you have to scold you If it's like you said, it's not right for you to always stare at people's eyes. It's a minimum of politeness to look into the other person's eyes when talking, and it's definitely impolite.
But if you're talking to someone and you think you don't take them seriously, but if you're talking to someone you have to look them in the eye. People will think that you don't even have the minimum qualities.
In a word, whether it is an acquaintance or a stranger, look east and west.
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According to the norms of social etiquette, people should look at the eyes or triangles, but they should not stare at for a long time, and they should shift their eyes and come back at the right time, so as not to give people a sense of danger. But in the face of strangers, look at others to be generous, don't sneak around, give people a sense of unreality, why not be generous, if you can, greet with your eyes, or nod your head. In short, be respectful and avoid causing discomfort and stress to others.
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I don't think it's rude, but when we interact with others, it's not just that we should look each other in the eye when we speak.
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I don't think so! On the contrary, I think it is polite to look people in the eye.
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I don't think there's anything rude about it, it's just good.
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Personally, I don't think there's anything wrong with it.
People are curious.
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It's good to be happy, people are curious.
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I don't think that's rude.
I think that many people don't stare directly into each other's eyes when they talk to each other now, and I feel that staring at other people's eyes all the time will make the other person feel awkward.
I'm one of those people who feels uncomfortable when I'm talking and being stared at all the time.
First of all, I think that when talking to the other person, not looking at the other person is not necessarily disrespectful to the other person, for example, there are some people who are more shy, they will not dare to look at each other's eyes because they are shy, but they will still listen carefully to each other, I think this time, even if they don't look at the speaker's eyes, it will not appear rude.
Secondly, I think that whether you look into the other person's eyes when talking to the other party will not be used to judge the other party's politeness, on the contrary, I think whether the other party is listening to you seriously is the standard for judging whether she is polite or not.
When a person who speaks without looking into your eyes but listens carefully to everything you say and when he speaks, he or she looks into your eyes but does messy things in his hands, and I feel that the person who listens to me even if his eyes are not looking at me is more polite.
If you listen carefully to the other person's speech and occasionally have a one-time eye contact with the other person, I think this situation will not only not make the other person feel that you are rude, but also feel that you are just the right expression of your respect for a person.
It is said that the eyes are the window of the soul, and I think for people who are not particularly familiar, we don't need to give each other too much eye contact, after all, the window of the soul is not something that can be seen casually.
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When I was traveling in Xiamen, I saw a local old couple in a small house on the island, they planted a small medicine garden, the gate is often open, and tourists can enter and visit the ...... at willThere are a lot of herbs in it, and there are medical books and ...... in the houseThe old grandmother and grandfather are very kind and kind, when they speak, the tone is very gentle, they don't look at each other, but they know that the other party will listen carefully ......
The inside of the cottage is very simple, there is no wifi, no mobile phones, only such an old couple, with a room of medical books ......
That day, we casually talked about the place in Xiamen, and how much effort they spent on this small medicine garden......Give me the feeling that when I talk to them, we are talking heart-to-heart. But my eyes would wander around the house from time to time, looking around the medicine garden, but it didn't affect our communication.
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I don't think it really has much to do with it, I didn't like to look into her eyes when others talked, because I was sometimes afraid to look into other people's eyes, so after I met my husband, every time he spoke, he would let me look into her eyes, because he said that his eyes could tell if you were lying.
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Generally speaking, if someone does not make eye contact with you when talking to you, it is indeed an impolite behavior, and it is also a sign of contempt. However, it is not excluded that the other party is busy, or the other party feels autistic so they dare not look at you.
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I don't think so, if you talk to someone with your back to them or diagonally to them, it might be rude, if you just don't look at them, it's not rude.
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It's not rude not to look at people's eyes, you must know that staring at other people's eyes all the time is a very embarrassing behavior, which makes the atmosphere of chatting permeated with a kind of embarrassment.
When someone is chatting, you just have to pay attention to him and make him feel that you are listening to him. The important thing is that you listen to others, not to be very perfunctory, and whether you look at your eyes or not is your own behavior. Some people listen carefully without looking at their eyes, which is a sign of attention.
Don't pay too much attention to a detail when talking to someone, as this will make others feel that you are too serious and uncomfortable. Talking to people should be a relaxed atmosphere, not about the small details and neglecting the real chat.
But not paying too much attention to it does not make you unscrupulous and do whatever you want. It is a basic respect to change one's own behavior and listen to what others have to say.
There are also times when others are speaking happily, or there is no tendency to pause, you must not interrupt or interject, which is very rude.
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Yes, because looking elsewhere will make others think that you are not talking to him and that you are not paying attention.
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No, not looking into other people's eyes may just be due to your own shyness.
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It depends on what the environment is, what the object is. If you stare at a person of the opposite sex who looks better, of course, it is impolite, and there is nothing to taboo except for some.
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When talking to someone abroad, you must look at the other person, and it is insincere not to burn.
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It is polite to look at others only when communicating with them verbally.
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It's not polite to do this in everyday life, but it's interpreted differently on different occasions.
For example, it is polite to be polite on the following occasions:
1. Keeping your eyes on the teacher during class is a sign of listening carefully.
2. Look at the customer, you care about his performance, show that you have not ignored him3, in a crisis (with friends or relatives or strangers), looking at each other, you can give each other a sense of trust4, looking at your lover, it means that you are the only one in your eyes.
In most situations, it is polite to look at others, but also be careful not to look at strangers who you have nothing to do with you for no reason in your daily life, which may cause them to repuls. `(
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So what is polite to look at others?
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You're not shy, but you're afraid to look strangers in the eye, and I don't think it's a matter of mental size.
Because you are not shy, it means that you are not closed-minded, and naturally it is not a problem in your heart.
In my opinion, the reason why you don't dare to look into the eyes of strangers is because you care too much about their evaluation of you, and you want to be a perfect person, but "no one is perfect, no one is perfect"!
And I don't think that will give you the results you want!! Otherwise, you wouldn't be confused at such a stool!
In addition, you don't like to go to a crowded place alone, maybe it's a lack of self-reliance!!
You're afraid that if you encounter difficulties, you won't be able to help!
I'm short-sighted and may have said a lot of nonsense, but I hope to help you!!
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It's very helpless, it's a good hall. If you don't look into the eyes of your friend when you communicate, the other party will disrespect him, but if you look at his eyes, it will look very embarrassing. Let me tell you a little trick, you don't have to look him in the eye, you just have to look at the bridge of his nose between his eyes.
In this way, others will not misunderstand that you disrespect him, and you will not be embarrassed yourself, kill two birds with one stone.
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