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I'll say, how come I don't have anything to say, I have so many topics to talk to you about.
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When your boyfriend says this, does he feel that there is no topic to talk about with you, and then at this time you tell him that the topic is found by two people, and two people have a common pursuit and a topic.
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The boyfriend said that he had nothing to say with you, and this sentence was the prelude to the breakup, because when two people are together, the most feared thing is that they have nothing to say and cannot communicate.
Two people have nothing to say, they barely stay together, and both of them are in pain, so it's better to break up, because you are only in the love stage now, and when you enter the marriage, you will have even fewer words to say, and then divorce will have a greater impact on the two of you.
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Then he has nothing to say, otherwise he wouldn't have told you this sentence so stiffly, or it was more embarrassing to get along, because he was not good at words.
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Then you can tell your boyfriend that we will be together in the future, and we are willing to say things that can be said together, and don't say those unhappy words.
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In fact, two people have been together for a long time, and they are used to it, **There are so many things to say? There are not so many words, they are all like this.
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If you don't think it's right, plan ahead as soon as possible! Sometimes verbal hurt is the most painful.
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Then does your boyfriend mean to break up with you, so there is no topic.
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My boyfriend said that I can only talk about it together, so you can reply to her, if you feel that there is nothing to say, then there is no need to say it.
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A philosopher of love once said a sentence:
When the love is deep, there is nothing to say! "Let's experience it carefully, because the true meaning of love is "plain!" ”
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It is said that there is a seven-year itch, but even if there is, it can be overcome, as long as you don't give up, you will be able to keep the clouds open and see the moon.
Have faith and patience, and then two people have to understand whether they love or don't love in their hearts. (Of course, judging from your words, it should be still love), so you must try to make the two of you less antagonistic as individuals, and after this period of time, something will change.
I wish you a smooth pass.
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Maybe he doesn't feel the same way he used to be with you, or he thinks that you are already meaningful, so he feels that there is nothing to say, like my boyfriend, who is originally a person who doesn't like to talk, you sometimes think that he doesn't care about you, but he still cares about you, it's just that his way is different, or your boyfriend thinks that now everyone has registered, and he also feels that there is nothing to say, so he is too lazy to talk to you, like me, my boyfriend doesn't like to talk, so it's good that only I'm talking, It's okay if he's listening, just know how I feel about him, and if he cares about you, you can talk to him and feel a little bit more emotional.
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A relationship requires two people to trust each other, support each other, understand each other, and tolerate each other! More importantly, when two people are together, don't suspect each other, let alone deceive each other! Because it is destined that two people who love each other can walk together, so they must cherish each other!
When encountering difficulties, two people find a way to face them together and solve them together! Share the weal and woe, share the joy, and such feelings will last forever!
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Maybe he's under too much pressure.
Generally, men will be very sad after having a lover.
I wonder if I can make my lover happy in the future.
You have to give him a little time.
Or space. Encourage him often.
Why do you have to wait for him to talk to you?
Or find some time to hang out.
Relax and unwind.
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Two people who are together all day long will inevitably have a little contradiction and friction between their lives. When you are in love, you may think that these conflicts are nothing, but once the love period is over, these small conflicts that seemed not to be a problem before will turn into endless quarrels.
Both sides are venting their emotions and complaining about each other's faults, and neither side is willing to bow their heads and admit their mistakes, which are the reasons for the deterioration of the situation. So at this time, you have to learn to look at yourself from the other person's point of view, and learn to tolerate and understand the other person.
If two people in love have such common interests and hobbies, and there are endless topics to talk about, then such a relationship may be very beautiful. When two people complement each other's personalities, then this kind of relationship is definitely the most comfortable state to get along.
Two people with the same gentle personality live together, absolutely calm and never quarrel, and because of this, they lack that trace of expectation and enthusiasm when they get along. But getting along with two people with the same fiery personality turned what should have been a beautiful relationship into a "showdown", and in the end, one of them left the scene injured.
Learn to understand each other's personalities and find the right balance between two people, then the relationship will last a long time. On the contrary, if two people who can't reconcile are together, it will be an indescribable relationship.
Two people in love keep a certain distance from each other, and the appropriate sense of mystery and the establishment of independent personalities can make the two people who keep a distance be unfamiliar, and they can attract each other, so that love retains a sense of freshness.
Everyone has a longing and awe for the unknown in their hearts, while completely familiar things feel boring, and this is true of love. Maintaining that sense of mystery in a relationship arouses each other's curiosity and desire to explore, and because you are familiar with each other, you eliminate that awe and fear of the unknown.
Two people who originally loved each other have become more and more casual because they are familiar with each other over time. I forgot the respect I had when I was a stranger, but this kind of casualness doesn't mean that you can't disrespect each other.
In fact, love is just another expression of "friendship", the basis of maintaining friendship is respect for each other, love should also learn to respect each other, should not be in the name of love to control and restrain each other.
Love can also be "family affection", in the face of parents, we can be vexatious and unscrupulous catharsis, but not in the face of love.
Love is actually between friendship and affection, and we should be as close as we treat our loved ones, and we should also maintain the kind of respect for our friends.
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He doesn't speak, maybe waiting for you to speak, you don't speak, you're waiting for him to speak, you just be bold, and find a topic if you don't have anything to say. To be together is to communicate more, communicate more, and understand each other to fall in love.
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It should be a long time, or his feelings for you have changed.
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In fact, you are used to arguing, and when everyone quarrels, they don't want to let each other be conscious. It's really bad like this, it hurts your feelings, and after a long time, you don't care about each other, and if you don't consider each other's feelings, there will be problems. My suggestion is that you can really find a good opportunity, calmly and in line with the attitude of being responsible for love, open your hearts and have a good talk, and make three chapters of the law with each other, although you are already engaged, don't rush to get married, try to be together for a while first, and decide whether to get married according to the time situation. >>>More
Saying that your boyfriend feels that he likes you is a very simple thing, so he feels very happy with you and is willing to do anything.
People have been together for a long time and have a deep relationship, so they feel that only he is the most important, and nothing else is important.