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It may be that your boyfriend's mother is very superstitious, and a person takes a black dress from him to tell fortunes, and the other means to tell fortunes, depending on what kind of fate your boyfriend has.
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This thing is the superstitious beauty of the place, so there is no need to believe in it at all, only believing in yourself is the most useful.
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Your boyfriend's mom does this kind of thing, it means that he has some superstitious thoughts, there is no need to care about these things, he may especially believe in those things, but you don't need to believe it, and you don't need to care.
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This means to keep peace, but this is a superstitious saying, don't accompany each other.
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Maybe your boyfriend's mother is a very superstitious person, so he believes that this will be a good calculation of his fate.
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Some people are superstitious that black things can cover everything, and they can avoid some things that should not be seen and things that should not be carried, so he may have spelled such a statement.
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The average boyfriend took one of his mother's black clothes to tell his fortune, and I think it should be. Well, boyfriend he's special. Wanted to see his son.
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My boyfriend's mother took her a black dress to tell her fortune, this may be believing in superstition, I don't know that his hometown is **, it may be that their hometown has this kind of superstition, I can't understand it.
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In this case, you don't care about him, the elderly have feudal superstitions, and many things are like this, why bother him? Just live your own life.
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Maybe it's a local custom to take a black dress.
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This may be their local habit, I don't think it is impossible to believe that so many fortune tellers are not accurate, and you still have to control your own destiny.
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If you feel like he's going to take it, then you can ask, ask? What is the meaning? Since they are already boyfriends' mothers, there is nothing that can't be said.
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Why does it make sense? Because fortune tellers don't need to take black clothes, he's just a coincidence.
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Since you don't understand, don't ask more, some things will be better if you don't ask.
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What age is this, how can you still be so superstitious? And you take his clothes, what can this be counted? Isn't that nothing?
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Does this dress make any sense? Or maybe there is something wrong that will make him take this clothes to fortune telling.
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My boyfriend's mom took her black clothes and went to fortune telling, and this dream shows that you are very worried about your boyfriend's fate, and it shows that you also believe in fortune telling.
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If your boyfriend's mother wants to tell your fortune, she should want to know if you are suitable for his son, whether you have a bad fate, whether you will have a bad fate, whether you will have a bad fate or be miserable. He will ask the fortune teller to escort his son, which means that the fortune teller for you is also to not affect her son's future.
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If your birth time, in numerology, and the suitability of his day even helps his son, she will like you very much, if numerology, you are not compatible, even if you are not compatible with other conditions, it may be difficult to become her daughter-in-law.
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Some elderly people just believe in fortune telling, and they may want to calculate whether you are compatible with his son.
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Is it appropriate to calculate your generation of eight characters and his son? It's as simple as that.
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It shows that she is superstitious.
Calculate whether you get along with his son, I feel that this future mother-in-law is a bit abrasive, what age is it, and she is still so superstitious.
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Find a reason, make an excuse, do you love me or not? Ask your boyfriend.
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You have explained the details to us, which roughly means that your boyfriend's mother is very superstitious and wants to separate you from your boyfriend, and then drive you to a dead end, and the house in Beijing is also sold, leaving you homeless.
His sister is cheap enough, you are so good to her, she also drilled the horns of the bull, saying that she dressed herself up beautifully, and her boyfriend didn't dress up. In fact, women dress plainly to set off the man's taste, you firmly grasp your boyfriend's heart, grasp your own opportunities, women in Sichuan are indeed very good, of course, three years later he was 28 years old to get married has delayed your best childbearing period, generally between 25 and 26 there is a baby, my mother gave birth to me at the age of 26, my sister was also born at the age of 26 baby. I was very young, 11 years old, and I didn't know much about love, but my mom was there to make me type.
Three years is indeed quite a long time, two years is 730 days, if you do not change your mind in the slightest in three years, the facts prove that God is not deliberately tearing you apart, and it proves that your relationship with him is strong and indestructible. No matter how much his mother stops him, there is no way to do it, because how strong your love is, if you give birth to a big fat boy for their family after getting married, his mother will not treat you badly.
The TV series "Thirty Wind and Rain Road" is to write about how a rural girl experiences her love journey and how she becomes a strong woman in love.
Why don't you learn to learn from the female number one of the thirty wind and rain roads? I'm here for you.
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This kind of feeling is unnecessary, I feel that you have been wronging yourself. Moreover, I said you don't want to be angry, your boyfriend's behavior in your house, I think he is very uneducated, a person is uneducated, and even the relatives of the people he loves deeply are not respected, what is there for him to be nostalgic for you? Besides, can you pack a ticket and say that he is loyal to your love?
In my opinion, you are a good girl who is kind and accommodating, and their whole family, especially his mother and his sister, don't you think that you pay so much and they turn a blind eye? To put it bluntly, there is a problem with homeschooling. 28 years old, you will be 26 by then, are you willing to bet on the best youth?
What if he's all fucking and doesn't want to be with you? Think about your little bits, if you are not sure about his love, long pain is better than short pain. Finally, don't mind your tiger teeth, I like them very much, I think they are very cute, and I hope I have them!
The most important thing is to be yourself, don't wronged yourself, be strong!
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Hello, I want to know what your choice is, sister, I just saw this question now I regret that I couldn't comfort you at that time, I hope you have a good ending.
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To put it bluntly, his mother just doesn't like you to excuse this.
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As long as the two of you love each other, nothing will be a problem.
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Sympathize with you, it's a pity that he doesn't know how to cherish such a good girl, poof.
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First of all, the eight-character marriage is not a feudal superstition, and it is true that the eight-character marriage is very magical. Marriage first: the character of two people in marriage, if there is a problem with the character, then the family will definitely break down.
Marriage second: Marriage is the three views of two people, if the three views are different, then there is little common language and there will be no words to say, but there may be some disputes over big and small things. Married third:
After all, getting married in China is not a matter of one person, but will involve the relationship between two families, and it depends on the relationship between the two families. Marriage fourth: financial luck should also be seen, as long as one can earn money.
The above is the main content of the eight-character marriage, and the fortune tellers in the general 80% society generally cannot reach this level. If you can meet what you say, it's fate. The above meaning is to correct that fortune-telling is not feudal, let alone superstitious.
The truth is only in the hands of a few), and there are very few who have the ability.
At present, foreign countries attach great importance to traditional Chinese culture and regard it as a treasure. At present, most Chinese people think that this is feudal superstition. At present, there are more than 100 universities in Japan that offer feng shui majors, and of course, there are other countries, you say this is superstition?
There's a lot of content in this, so don't talk about it if you don't understand it.
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It's not something that can be said in a sentence or two, but you still have to look at what your boyfriend means, and it's better not to think about this kind of thing from your own point of view, it's better to think about it from the perspective of your boyfriend's mother.
Maybe then you'll find the answer you're looking for.
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It's normal, many people are like this now, but if you can't stand the character of their family, you should think about it.
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Discuss it with your boyfriend, think of a way, communicate more with his mother, or you find someone, talk to him first, let him be a fortune teller, talk more about your benefits, everything is under your control. The solution is a human figure! Go for it!
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Ay... Poor people, older people are superstitious.
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How can there be such a domineering old man, I really sympathize with you.
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It's up to you, what's the use of what we're talking about here
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Oh my God, you're so miserable. Sympathize with you.
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If he just thinks it's new and funny, then there's no need to care.
But if he's secretive, then it's time to consider whether or not to be with him.
Is there anything else he completely does to listen to his mother?
If you listen completely, then advise you to stay away from such boys, who have not been weaned, and may not be able to break for the rest of their lives.
Marrying him is the same as marrying his mother.
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The boy listens to his mother so much, you should carefully consider whether the two are suitable. After all, the future life will be lived by the two of you, if he doesn't trust you the most, but listens more to his mother, maybe there will be conflicts in the future that will not be biased towards you, and you will be the one who will suffer at that time. But my words are just for reference, and your relationship still depends on how you deal with it.
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There are a lot of parents like this! It's okay to ask for peace of mind.
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It seems that there is still no fate, so let's divide it. He doesn't love you very much.
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I think he may still not love you enough, how can feelings be easily given up. Or maybe he's a mom boy, so it's okay to separate, because he has no idea and only listens to his mother.
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Even if you count it, count it as soon as possible, and it's easy to divide it if the family doesn't agree.
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Let them do the math first. What if it closes. I wish you were married where you were.
If they don't agree and believe it, then don't. What age do you still believe in this?
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Maybe her family concept is more feudal and superstitious, so he didn't stop his mother.
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In fact, the eight-character thing is usually done by those superstitious women in the countryside. My mother-in-law is also like this, when I was dating my husband, she asked my husband for my birthday, and then went to the blind man to tell fortunes, fortunately, they were born with auspicious words.
But to put it in my heart, even if we are married now, we try our best to be filial to our parents, but my mother-in-law's thinking is still a little different from ours, and sometimes she will say a lot of ugly things in front of me, what whose daughter-in-law has children before marriage in them, that is glorious, what whose daughter-in-law hitched on the man before marriage, and didn't want anything after marriage, etc., these words are very harsh for a newly married, as a daughter-in-law of others, even so I didn't talk back to her, but my husband can't stand it, Therefore, sometimes I would quarrel with her, and he would try to communicate with my father-in-law so that he could be more considerate of us. In my father's words, it is not easy to raise children as a parent, even if it is wrong. The same sentence, when communicating with my father-in-law, I also gave it to my father-in-law, and he understood.
It can only be said that the in-laws did not give birth to us after all, and it is normal to have differences in our thinking, and I believe that time will make us run in with each other better.
In the final analysis, the most important thing is your future husband's attitude towards you, of course, in advance, you try your best to treat his parents as your own parents to be filial, he has no reason to find fault with you anymore, and he will naturally help you speak. Otherwise, it is up to you to sort out his problems first and let him understand you. In this way, even if it is really not good to take the eight characters of two people, he will stand on your side and fight with his parents.
In the same way, only two people's hearts are towards each other can create your own future together. If he insists on not understanding you, then choose again while he is young.
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Don't worry, you won't have a problem if you really count the eight characters.
In fact, in the eight-character marriage, there are very few mutual restraints, two people have a good relationship together, generally the eight characters will not restrain each other, mutual restraint is the aura is incompatible, it is difficult to talk about incompatibility, and it is good to run in after being together for a long time, indicating that the aura is compatible, that is to say, the eight-character will not be restrained. These refer to those who are in free love, who have experienced a long time, know each other, and can have a good relationship, so naturally there is no problem.
If you talk about marriage on a blind date, you may lack understanding, and you may not know whether the eight characters are grams, because you haven't experienced the run-in of time.
If you are together and have a good relationship, don't be afraid, if you have a good relationship, it means that you don't restrain each other, use your eight characters to count those people to calculate each other, that must be miscalculated, or deliberate.
So you have to have confidence in yourself, these are what the author has seen in criticizing the eight characters for so many years, and the two people who are compatible will not restrain each other. Of course, it means that they can still get along after being together for a long time, for example, for more than half a year, everyone has not hidden their shortcomings. It is the act of natural interaction, which will not be restrained.
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