AREN T THE PARENTS VERY JIAN NOW?

Feelings make people sacrifice.

The emotions of parents and children are connected by blood.

There is basically no reason for a parent's love for their children.

However, due to differences in people's personalities, differences in age at the time of responsibility, or differences in expression, there will be great differences in practices.

Let the child work to earn money, if the parents are for income, money, let the child drop out of school. Then I can only evaluate them: they are incompetent and do not respect an independent life.

As for why, perhaps their quality is not up to the standards of modern people, or the purpose of their children is to earn family income. There are so many possibilities.

But I believe that parents do not have an obligation to be responsible for their children if they are divorced from the law and morality. That's all human freedom. It's just that most parents have that kind of love for their children deep in human nature.

And then even willing to die for the sake of the child. I don't take this kind of parent for granted, but I feel extremely grateful. I am grateful that they loved me and sacrificed for me.

And as a parent, I take it for granted.

This feeling on both sides is very positive.

So I don't agree with you to blame the so-called from the perspective of a child"Incompetent"of someone else's parents.

Also, I disagree with the agitator upstairs. In his opinion, parents have children purely to be some kind of tool? I don't agree with that.

Because life is supposed to be an individual. Parents have given life without independent ability to become independent, and I believe that most of them do not want to report! We are truly an individual!

It's cheap! The cheap saving food Jane used to raise such a big child, and took the parents' money to post such p words on the Internet!

I didn't say it was you!

Why was the child withdrawn from school? His parents asked him to go to work, just to let him experience what it would be like to have no knowledge and no ability in this society, but just to make him understand that it was not easy for him to use every penny. Most of the children in rural areas are teenagers who work to earn money to support their families, are their parents jian?

Young? You have time to read books and see how many people are already famous and doing great things at the age of 16

No, my parents are fine.

What's wrong with today's parents? Why are you so used to children? Is it because I think the children are cute, so I hold them in the palm of my hand? In fact, it will only make the child more and more vulnerable.

1: Excessive concern for children's lives.

Parents nowadays seem to have become overly concerned about their children, many times even more than themselves. For example, when a child is sick, many parents will be very worried and often buy him some healthy food and medicine to take care of him; In schools, many parents spend a lot of time taking their children to and from school, even at the expense of affecting the progress of work. Little attention is paid to behaviors that can lead to trouble or unfortunate incidents. This makes the child an overprotective, spoiled child who is unable to do anything independently.

Excessive attention not only makes children delicate, but also detrimental to their independence and ability. Over time, children will become accustomed to relying on others, forming a cowardly, incompetent, timid and fearful character, and at the same time developing a state of unconfident psychology.

2: Disrespect for children and lack of trust and recognition for them.

Today's parents are overly concerned about their children and lack respect and recognition. They always try to control everything and don't let the child express his thoughts. This leads to children being nervous in communication and unable to have a normal conversation.

In addition, parents often accuse their children of a lack of independence and inability to complete tasks independently. These are all signs of disrespect for the child. First of all, parents believe that there should be a lot of responsibility for their children.

However, this practice not only weakens the child's abilities but also makes them feel very helpless. Second, parents force their children to do boring things that are difficult to succeed in. This will only make your child feel that life is not fun and it will be difficult for them to stick to it.

Finally, parents think that their children are not perfect and ignore the importance of cultivating good qualities in their children. If parents can treat their children equally, then they will not have much difficulty correcting their children's shortcomings.

In short, we should respect our children instead of spoiling them. Otherwise, it will cause them a lot of harm. It is hoped that parents will correct this misconception.

has been beating the child, not letting the child sleep, the father smokes and drinks and does not take care of the child, such as me, I am the target of domestic violence, slandering the game, all day long I am for your good, imprison the child in the Lunjin house, Lao Tong laughs and does not care about the child.

You can only accept it slowly. What seems to be a kind of "work" is actually a kind of "love" for their children, and parents will always care for their children in different forms. As the saying goes: pity the hearts of parents in the world.

On the one hand, the old man's desire to control his children is too strong, and he always wants to dictate the married life of his son and daughter, and wants them to live according to their own ideas, and this will also cause the disgust of the daughter-in-law or son-in-law, and then there will be contradictions.

On the other hand, the concept of the elderly and the concept and living habits of young people are different, generally speaking, a very good old man must live with his children and husband and wife, living together all day long, because of the existence of differences, it is inevitable that there will be various contradictions, and after the contradictions, the old people will cry and complain that their children are always talking to their spouses, saying that they have raised a white, in fact, in the eyes of outsiders, this is a bit unreasonable.

For the old people who grind the royal work like this, the children have grown up, have their own lives and choices, they have the ability and the right to deal with everything themselves, they should not interfere in their lives, to respect their choices, although this is difficult, after all, they have been in charge of their children for decades, they have been accustomed to the identity of their parents, and they feel that the children should listen to their own words, but this is not right, they must adjust their concepts and do what they want to do, instead of staring at their children.

In the traditional cultural atmosphere, young people should take the initiative to understand the elders, although there is no need to be as close to absolute subordination as in the previous social period, but understanding and respect and appropriate obedience have their existence value and basis, and "filial piety" as the first of traditional virtues, which also contains the value orientation of both filial piety and obedience. Therefore, the younger generation should take the initiative to understand that the older generation is the proper meaning of the blind chain rock in the question.

I feel that the elderly love to "work" is one of the manifestations of common emotional problems in the elderly, some of them are not only unhappy, but also often accompanied by physical symptoms such as fatigue, fatigue, dizziness, insomnia, etc. As the children of the elderly, we must first understand the specific reasons for the elderly's inner emotions, understand the needs behind their emotions and the unsolved knots, and then give certain support and guidance according to the specific reasons. Generally speaking, the elderly feel that they have no sense of worth, no hope for life, or they are worried about their health because they are lonely and hail.

Personally, I think that the worst parents I've ever seen are those who give birth to children but don't raise them. I have always believed that raising children prevents old age, but in the process of giving birth, I did not reach the passing line and gave birth to many children, but it often brought great harm to society. In fact, this kind of behavior seems to me to be the most inferior and irresponsible behavior, and it should be stopped and blamed.

In fact, this kind of thinking of raising children to prevent old age is not so common in some cities, but it still happens in most rural areas, that is, there are many families whose conditions are not so good, but for some reasons they have a lot of children, and after giving birth to children, they cannot do a good job of moral quality education, resulting in a great deviation in the values of some children. When they grow up, not only will they not be able to build society, but they will begin to harm it. Such a child is the last thing we want to see.

In addition, there are some children who may not harm society, but begin to harm the family, such as blindly pursuing vanity and realizing their own value in various ways. In fact, this practice is also an uncommendable behavior in our opinion. Overall, I feel like the worst parents I've ever seen are those who were born without children.

Such parents are actually quite common in society, but to different degrees. Personally, I think that in today's knowledgeable, educated and cultured society, it is quite free for a person to have more children, but what really reflects a person's quality is still to look at his next generation.

There are many reasons why we can become more and more distant from our parents. Here are some common reasons:

1.Hectic lifestyle: Modern life is fast-paced, and many people are busy with work, study, and social life and don't have enough time to communicate with their parents.

2.Generation gap: As people get older, their values, interests, and lifestyles may change. This generational gap may lead to poor communication and a gradual reduction in the connection between parents and children.

3.Disagreement with parents: Some people may have disagreements or conflicts with their parents, which can lead to alienation between people and their parents.

4.Moving: Many people may leave their hometowns as adults to work, study, or live in other places, which can also lead to reduced communication.

5.Immigration: In some cases, people may migrate to other countries, which can make communication more difficult, leading to increasing distance from their parents.

6.Personal issues: Sometimes, personal issues, such as family issues or mental health issues, can affect the relationship with parents.