Small children also have big troubles, what was your biggest worry in your childhood?

Every age group has different worries, and don't look at the young age of children, they have a lot of troubles at all. When I was younger, I had a lot of troubles. For example, why I don't have other people's things, why I do so much homework, why my parents always don't understand me, etc., these are all my troubles when I was a child.

However, as I grew up, these troubles were gradually understood by myself, and I began to understand the difficulties of my parents.

1. Why do others have what I don't have when I was a child, I always love to make trouble, thinking that what others have, I should also have. I didn't care about the family situation at all, or at that time, I didn't have a concept of the family situation. So I ran to my parents and rolled around, hoping that I would have the same thing.

And at that time, I always felt that what was in the hands of others was the best. Even if you have the same thing at home, you still want it when you see someone else holding it. It seems that if you don't have it in your hand, you really don't have it.

When I grew up, I felt that this kind of thinking was very naïve, and when I saw other people's children, I would always think of when I was young.

2. Why is there so much homework To be honest, I feel that when I was a child, I still had a lot of homework, and I often had to write it for a long time before I could finish it. Especially on Saturdays and Sundays, I am almost overwhelmed by homework. At the beginning, I always complained about why there was so much homework.

Now that I think about it, I don't have a lot of homework, mainly because I don't want to write, and I always wait until the night before school starts to work overtime to write. At this time, if you want to finish writing, you have to stay up all night and work hard. Sometimes troubles are not brought about by others, but created by oneself.

If I had done my homework on time after school every day, I don't think my childhood self would have been distressed.

3. Why don't my parents understand that when I encountered something when I was a child, my parents always thought it was my fault and thought that I should admit my mistake. But there are some things that are clearly provoked by the other party. Later, I gradually realized that some things are like this, even if you don't make mistakes, you have to admit it.

The biggest worry in my childhood was that other people's families were in very good conditions and could eat the food they wanted, but I couldn't, and I was always drooling.

I didn't study well, no matter how hard I tried, I just couldn't study well, and I was really worried to death at that time.

My biggest annoyance was that my parents and teachers made me very angry when I compared me to the neighbor's children.

The biggest worry should be that I can't eat my beloved lollipops, because my family was very poor at that time, and a two-yuan lollipop was a luxury for me.

My biggest worry in my childhood was that I couldn't learn math well, and I couldn't learn it well, which made me particularly troubled, until I grew up, I still thought that math was the most difficult to learn.

Small children also have big troubles, in my childhood, my biggest worry was to learn to be the first, but I couldn't be the first.

When I was a child, I was very fat, and I was often ridiculed by others because of my weight, and some classmates gave me a more ugly nickname, which was very irritable.

In fact, when I was a child, this is the kind of trouble you were looking for. When I was a child, I wanted to grow up, but I was anxious to be recognized by others, but how to be recognized by others? That is, to take some responsibility, to think about highlighting one's own value, so the trouble comes.

On the other hand, anguish means value.

Looking at it from another angle, in fact, people are bored with the current environment. It was like this when I was a child, and it was like this when I grew up. It's just that when I was a child, the depth of my thoughts was shallow, and when I grew up, my thoughts were deep.

When you think about the same thing, complain many times, or keep thinking about your own powerlessness, your mind is confused, and that's trouble. Troubles are self-conceived.

In fact, if you want to keep things simple, don't waste your mind on big and small things, then there is no trouble.

The boy doesn't know what it's like to be sad.

The Buddha said, "People come to the world to suffer."

Troubles increase with desire, and desire increases with thoughts, when I was a child, my thoughts were very simple and simple, thinking of **is**, I can't care so much; When we grow up, we have to face the pressure that our parents have to face at that time, clothing, food, housing, transportation, employment, health, etc., we have to face it ourselves, and when we feel powerless in some aspects, a sense of frustration arises spontaneously, which arouses our desires, and then frustration, and then the desire is stronger, and then frustration. It's a vicious circle, and if we don't get out in time, our troubles will grow more and more, and we will eventually overwhelm ourselves. Therefore, we should maintain the innocence of childhood, do not have too many desires, and look at the world with the eyes of childhood, we will find:

It turns out that life is so beautiful!

It was simple to be happy when I was a kid, and it's simple and happy now.

In childhood, there are also countless troubles, which adults do not know, do not perceive, and only we accept and endure in obscurity.

Parent signature: This matter is not a big deal for a good student, but it is a big deal for a bad student. Whenever a poor student takes the test paper to the parents.

At that time, the parents' reprimand and scolding were like a sudden thunderbolt from the blue. Even if it is an honor student, there is no winning general, and when asking parents to sign, some parents have a bad temper, and the children are afraid of causing trouble.

Assignments: This is stressful for every student. I see that Jean is teasing the mountains of homework, silently leaving sadness.

Through the glass, I heard the joyful laughter of children, and I played so energetically. I was faced with a lot of homework, and I couldn't stand it. I endure, I endure, I can't get rid of it, how I want to one day, let myself fly proudly in the vast blue sky, free, let all my fly, how beautiful it is, how happy!

People say that childhood is good, but who knows, childhood is so tedious, even boring, and occasionally so happy days, it will quickly disappear. Childhood is not so beautiful, in the psychology of our children, childhood, like a maze, trapped in this difficult road to find the exit, unable to find their own space, no freedom of their own. In this labyrinth, we didn't blurt out all the troubles, just complained in silence.

Please give us freedom! Please give us space! Please give us our own vast blue sky!!

Your troubles, 1In fact, part of it is a process of physical and brain development, and the physiological annements caused by the development of physical development IQ (just you don't understand it). 2.

Part of it is that you have a personality problem, you should socialize more with people, so that your social interaction is more perfect, so that people will be more cheerful (you can read books about socializing) Don't be afraid of being laughed at, people who are laughed at are actually the most popular, and they are liked... 3.And you shouldn't like sports, which will cause your IQ and personality to be less active, go out and walk more, exercise more, find a favorite sport and keep playing, so that others think you are sunny.

Hope it helps, thank you

There are many growing pains.

For example, the pressure of studying.

A lot of times people have such troubles.

Who doesn't have the pain of growing up?

It's just different.

Family affection ,、、 distressing many times.

I always feel that they don't understand you enough.

Actually, if you think about it with your heart, put yourself in your shoes.

You will find that the family is really good for us.

Friendship, who wouldn't have a small conflict between friends? Sometimes friends who haven't quarreled may not really be nice to you.

Love is bitter and sweet, and I believe that everyone's feelings are different. There are many growing pains, and it is also the only way to go through life.

*Friend. Hello.

Invisible troubles are brought about by life and society.

It's like you're seeing something.

There are annoyances when you think of anything.

The solution to this problem is to enrich yourself happily every day.

And every day you have to keep doing things to accomplish yourself.

This solves the troubles of your life in the first place.

And the troubles of society should always participate in meaningful activities.

Make yourself feel like you're not alone.

Let this society accept itself.

And help everyone around you to live like this.

You also have to set your dreams and goals from time to time.

Build your career and studies.

Find a little more interesting things and objects.

Regulates your own sensitive nerves and your own brain.

There should also be enough time to rest.

Do exercises that give rise to reason.

Change your perspective on the world.

Treat the right outlook on life.

Social outlook. Worldview.

Here's wishing you a happy day.

Be happy every day.

In the process of our growth, there are beautiful yearnings and small troubles.

Laughing as we grow up, there is the joy of success, and there are annoying frustrations.

In the process of growing up, there are innocent fantasies, and there are also realistic frustrations.