My boyfriend is married, and the bride is not me 5

How can he be like this, he doesn't listen to his parents very much, you let him continue to listen, do you think he loves you very much? If he loves you, why would he marry someone else? Do you want to get rid of your parents' arrangement after getting married?

Doesn't he really like his parents to arrange for him? What did he think of you again? If you really love each other, you should choose to be together, and you should be unable to stop it by any difficulty!

Do you think he is still "worthy" of your love?

The above is my question to you, when you understand, you will know what to do, others can only give you advice, not help you make decisions! It's up to you to choose! Ask yourself a few more times, "Is it worth it?" ”

It doesn't matter if he uses you as an alternate, the question is what do you think?

Your life choice, don't ask netizens, no one can be happy or unhappy for you, you feel and handle it yourself.

This situation... You'd better not trust him easily, even if his parents arranged it, he should drink and not say anything! Think about it, such a man is not very reliable!

If you don't tell you about such a big thing as getting married, what's the use of such love? See the truth at the critical moment and persuade you to let go, otherwise there will be a time when you will regret it in the future!

Do you believe that you haven't even held hands for a few months since you got married? If he really loves you, he won't accept his parents' arrangement to get married, he still doesn't love you enough, but he still thinks you're good after trying it with others, and to put it bluntly, you're a spare tire.

In addition to love, we must also have a sense of responsibility.

I haven't even held hands, who believes that IQ stays at 10 years old?

Can you believe it?

At that time, you will choose to listen to your parents' choice, and you may also give up on you for other reasons in the future. Careful..

Forget what you should forget, you send him a song It's a pity it's not you Don't believe him Don't be stupid Married without even holding his hand Is he a normal man It is estimated that you will believe it in the world No one else will believe it except you.

He loves you very much, you shouldn't listen to your parents and marry a woman you don't love, it means that he is just a puppet, the unhappy life of the newlywed, and he wants to continue to love you without listening to his parents, this kind of man is very insecure.

Don't believe him, this kind of person is very hateful, if you really love him, try to see if you feel it, but remember not to be fooled again, if no one really wants it, come to me for reimbursement.

My situation is the same as yours, I may have felt really sad before, but I also feel that you should also see him clearly, he is married, forget about him.

Your boyfriend doesn't want to get married right away, maybe he thinks about his current situation, such as financial ability, he feels that he is not financially good, and he is afraid that he will not be able to give you a grand wedding, nor can he give you a superior material life after marriage. Because he loves you very much, he doesn't want to wronged you and always wants to give you all the good things.

You can talk to your boyfriend to find out why he doesn't want to get married, and you can consider whether to break up or stay with him.

If your boyfriend is very casual with you, he doesn't love you enough, and the girl should break up decisively. The foundation of marriage must be the love of the two, only when the love is strong enough, the two love each other, cherish each other, will the married life be happy.

A girl's best youth is only a few years, being dragged by a boy like this is a waste of time, why don't girls leave such a boyfriend early, he is not your real destiny, pack up your mood after leaving, and meet the next love with enthusiasm.

Boyfriend feels that he can't give a better material life Girls after talking to their boyfriends, if the boy is afraid that his financial ability will not give him a superior life, it proves that this boy really reassures you. Girls can consider continuing to have a relationship with him, and they can make an appointment with him to get married, so that their boyfriends can work hard during this period and enter the palace of marriage together after having a certain economic foundation. Of course, if the girl feels that she can't wait, and she really wants to get married urgently, she can also consider breaking up.

However, once the breakup is proposed, I am afraid there is no room for maneuver, and girls must think about it carefully. It is not easy for two people to fall in love, and the exit of one party in the middle is two people who are injured, if you really love your boyfriend, it is recommended not to break up.

The other party is not willing to marry you immediately, it depends on the reasons given by the other party and the real psychological state of the other party as you judge.

1.The other party can't give you happiness right away because of his own conditions, and he wants to wait. If the other party has no confidence to give you happiness because of the poor material basic conditions, personal work is not stable, and there is no confidence to give you happiness, I don't want to delay you, and I am afraid that you can't hold your head up in front of your parents, relatives and friends, and want to use a certain amount of time to prove yourself, he has also made it clear to you that after you get along, you can also believe in your boyfriend's personality and feel that what he said is true, then you can give him a period of time, but not more than three years, if three years, he has not changed anything, If you don't have any success, then this person is not worth your wait, because a woman's time is very precious, and there are several or three years in her life!

2.If he is half-hearted, he has not yet made up his mind. Nowadays, the pace of society is relatively fast, and the pressure of life is relatively high, some people are forced by the pressure of reality, will not choose the true love in their minds, will abandon their lover for the sake of material conditions, and then use his wife's eyesight to create a career, and then look back to find his true love, such a person is a scumbag, so you have to figure out whether your boyfriend has this consideration, if so, then give up as soon as possible, if you can't be sure, you should also observe carefully, and try it.

3.Some boys just don't want to be responsible and don't want to enter the palace of marriage. If you meet such a boyfriend, you have to ask your heart, if you really just want to fall in love, then you can choose such a boyfriend, if the purpose of falling in love is to enter marriage, then such a boy is obviously not suitable for you, such a boy is not responsible enough, responsible, and will not marry for you in the future, because he can clearly tell you when he is in love now, he is not willing to get married, so this shows a problem, or he is using you, Either they treat you as a spare tire, anyway, they don't really love you, and such a boy should give up immediately.

Your boyfriend doesn't want to get married right away, there has to be a reason. You should have a good chat with him after you are born and find out the reason for not getting married, whether it is financial reasons, or whether you don't want to get married because you haven't had enough fun. If it's economic, it's understandable, you should be more tolerant, and wait for the strength of both parties to get married.

But if he doesn't want to tie the knot, it reflects that he is not mature enough to take on the responsibility of supporting his family. That's when you have to think about it more.

If he doesn't want to get married right away, talk to him and ask him when he's willing to get married. You can't keep dragging it out like this, can you?

If you don't want to get married, then break up, no one will delay anyone, and you will be the last to pit, you know?

If you don't plan to get married in a few years, then break up straight, trust me, I won't lie to you.

There's only one possibility, you're definitely his spare tire.

When the year comes, the conditions are ripe in all aspects, and it is time to get married.