What is it like for a relative to be seriously ill?

My father-in-law has been dead for almost three years, he has two kinds of cancer, both are terminal, we are both rural, my father-in-law has worked hard all his life, he is very kind and straightforward, my brother-in-law graduated from college not long ago, I married my husband for two years, the child was not two years old at that time, we married and owed about 100,000 yuan, my brother-in-law just found a good job at that time, the two of us are also working hard to earn money and pay off debts, human life is like this, if you get sick, you get sick, we heard the news, and we didn't sleep all night, Later, my husband rushed back on the third day, I also went back after ten days, when I just went back, my father-in-law was fine, my husband drove him around to check, as long as there was a glimmer of hope, I didn't want to give up, and then chemotherapy and radiotherapy, people were skinny and skinny, and the eldest sister was always with me, and in the end, the doctors said to give up, and the pain of my father-in-law could not be alleviated in the hospital at all, but my father-in-law couldn't even speak later, and still wanted to be in the hospital, thinking that as long as he was in the hospital, he still had hope, and two days before his death, he had to call 120He asked us to take him to the hospital to live, and he left within a day of coming back, and at that time it was the first time I watched someone die, and I called him loudly, looked at me, and then left. ‍‍

My relatives have a serious illness and feel very sad, so I can do my best to help

I'm very afraid of my parents getting sick, not because I'm afraid of spending money, because I'm afraid that I can't bear it, but this other aspect is also afraid of spending money, parents are afraid of spending their children's money, and they are busy reducing the burden for us. Another point is that there is a reason why parents are afraid of dragging you down, because it takes a lot of money, and if we happen to have little savings, it will be a disaster for a family! ‍‍

Of course, it was a very bad experience, looking at my loved ones who were suffering from illness, I was also very heartbroken, and I couldn't do anything yet.

One of my cousins used to be a doctor in a rural clinic, and I remember that when I was a child, my mother would take me to his clinic every time I got sick or had a cold. He had stomach cancer last year, and the last time I saw him, he was skinny and skinny, and it was scary. In the end, he passed away within a few months, so there is nothing to be sick with, nothing else is no money.

I feel very uncomfortable in my heart, and I have to find a way to help him**.

In December 2015, I received a WeChat message from my sister who was working outside, saying that my mother was hospitalized in the provincial capital. ‍‍

My grandmother had bowel cancer, and she used to be a very rich person, but in the end, she was very thin except for her big belly, and she looked very scary.

My second aunt had a fever at the beginning, and the hanging bottle in the clinic for a few days didn't work, and then she took the car to the central hospital by herself, I forgot what disease she had, anyway, it was pimples all over her body, she had high blood pressure, but the medicine for that disease conflicted with high blood pressure, and finally the condition worsened, and it didn't work in less than a week.

I had a distant relative who had liver disease and died after a long time.

In 2011, my father was diagnosed with cancer, and in 2013, my sister was also diagnosed with cancer, and I felt very helpless and at a loss, and then I was worried that my mother would suffer too much psychological blow, which would have a great impact on her body. Those years have been spent cautiously, honestly and fearfully, and even went to learn the Great Compassion Mantra. Fortunately, everyone is okay now.

God forbid!

Amitabha, when he was sick, only knew that health is precious and life is beautiful.

My aunt had stomach cancer, and when she found out, it was already at an advanced stage, and she went there within a few months, and it was very painful to go.

My uncle had pancreatic cancer, which was directly advanced. Hate the heavens and hate, what a good person.

My uncle's neighbor had a little boy of the same age as my brother, who was diagnosed with leukemia when he was four years old, and his family was not very wealthy, and this disease added a huge burden to his family, and his mother had a lot of gray hair overnight.

When I was first diagnosed, my mind was blank, I didn't believe how it could be like this, and I slowly calmed down a lot after a while, and every time I experienced a re-examination, I was very afraid, and it faded after a long time, so let's live every day, while fighting cancer, that is, I want to relieve myself by accepting my fate, to be honest, every cancer patient has different feelings and cognitions, and healthy people can't experience the pain in the heart of cancer patients. ‍‍

1. If a loved one is seriously ill, should you continue to ** or give up calmly.

2. You're sick! It's so distressing! May you be well.

3. My father is sick and hopes for tomorrow, and nothing I can say can be worth being with him at the bedside.

4. The only relative was also seriously ill.

5. I think your illness also leads to my heartache, hurry up.

6. God's injustice makes the common people, and it hurts the relatives the most. I wish my father a healthy life, and I weep on the side of the bed until dawn. A lifetime of hard work for children, saving food and frugality for the family. He did not repay the shame of the Son of Man, and pretended to smile with tears in his eyes.

7. The most difficult time in life is to see a loved one "sick" but unable to do anything.

8. After a lifetime of hard work and poverty, I was shocked to hear the bad news the day before yesterday. Although the Jishi hanging pot should be there, it is difficult to inquire about the rejuvenation skill. The generosity of the neighbors has been a pawn, and the dust is clean. A few sighs that good people often have a hard life, how can they endure and cry frequently.

9. When the life of a loved one comes to an end, how do we say goodbye!

10. The heart of thinking of my mother is often remembered in my heart, my mother's body is hurt, it hurts my heart, when can I return to my hometown to visit my relatives.