My boyfriend said that he was really compatible with his wife s personality, but he didn t feel like

He didn't realize the importance of you, my girlfriend and I, now my wife, my wife, when we were talking, she said: "I want to marry you" I said "not now" I really didn't want to marry her at the time, and even thought that if I ended up with her, I would find a better girlfriend, and then she took the opportunity to talk occasionally and ignored me, I felt so panicked, only to realize that she was already very important to me, I couldn't give her up!

This is my personal experience, of course, you can't look at it like a pony crossing a river, there are some things you have to grasp yourself, I hope it inspires you!

Ask yourself if you think he deserves love, or if you love him, if he is good to you, or what he has done for you... I feel that he doesn't want to get married in the near future, you can communicate with him directly, the man's expression ability is slightly inferior, it may be a misreading, ask him what he really thinks, if you remember to get married, you can try to ask him when he will get married, if it is just for love, and he doesn't want to get married, it is a waste of everyone's youth.

It's complicated about the feelings of marriage.

Love, as long as you like it.

Life has to be appropriate.

It's not just about having the right personality.

In addition, talk to him well, if he is old and he doesn't want to get married, ask him if he feels that his career has not progressed.

Or, what else is going on.

It's useless to guess by yourself, it will only make extraneous branches. Maybe even think about that more and more.

Be open and honest, don't rush him, just say what you think.

Communication is paramount.

I hope you're doing well

That is to say, he doesn't want to get married yet, he just wants to fall in love. Irresponsible people.

It's just that he thinks you're a good person, is getting married after all, it's a big deal, take your time.

Stayed with her boyfriend for two years. His family has seen me, and my family has seen him, and my mother has always been anxious. Look....Maybe he hasn't decided yet...Marriage is just a formality, and yours he cares more.

He's rubbish, I know you're going to be angry when you say that, but if you're in love, you're married, and since she doesn't feel it, then you don't feel it, and he says get married, and you don't accept it, torture him to death.

Didn't you ask him why he didn't want to get married? Isn't falling in love just to get married? An irresponsible person like this will take advantage of the early split up, and fall in love without getting married! What irresponsible!

Either he's not set the mold yet, or he doesn't love you enough.

He wants to be in love for a longer time, so that after getting married, the feeling of falling in love will gradually decrease.

I think your situation is more dangerous.

The young and beautiful ** time of the woman is only a few years, and your conditions are good, so give up so much for him.

And if he is good to you and loves you, he can't give you marriage, the key is that he is also very big.

So you have to solve the marriage matter immediately, and you have to be responsible for your family and you.

Tell him the reality directly, and you can't give any reason for him to drag it out. Ask him if he wants to marry you.

Don't delay the marriage period for too long, otherwise, your ** age will be slowly consumed, and you will become a leftover woman.

A man who truly loves you will definitely do anything to marry you.

A 33-year-old man who has not yet started a family has a young beauty, but does not mention marriage.

Don't you think it's dangerous? Someone who really loves you will take the initiative to get married and want to have you for the rest of their lives!

I am a man, to tell the truth, in order to be responsible for your family, responsible for your happiness, and responsible for your future family, you can't wait any longer!

In fact, you have already said it yourself.

Sometimes he jokes and says let me find a good person who is richer than him to marry, but when I heard it, I knew that he was joking, "A man who really loves a woman is the most nervous about this problem, and he is afraid of it, and he dares to make a so-called joke with you about this?"

I think he's dispensable to you, and there's no better than you for the time being, but I also don't think you're suitable, so let's talk about it first. For a 33-year-old man, marriage may be more important than falling in love, whether he is doing it himself or an office worker, he must belong to the larger group in the circle around him, and he himself has his own pressure, in this case, he is still unwilling to take the initiative to talk about marriage with you, which shows that the situation is too obvious.

Maybe you still want to exchange your true feelings for him, but I can tell you that men are all cheap, they just appreciate what they can't get or what they can't get, and what they get will never cherish. Although I am also a man.

If you can let it go, you can spread it out with him and say: either get married or say goodbye. You're already 25, and maybe you still have a year or two to be in style, but you're going to be 28 years later, I'm sorry, I guess you can't really find any good people after leaving him.

The most critical two or three years of your life, how did you spend it?

Good luck with you!

Agree with the statement of the first floor. If you say it directly and don't agree to get married, you can only end it immediately.

It stands to reason that you should break up decisively, but you can't say anything about feelings, it's up to you, you should understand, but you don't want to admit it.

Hello, how are you guys doing now?? Is there a good result.

How old is your boyfriend? How old are you?

Now that you know that he is machismo, you still quarrel with him every day? The successful one is to grab the man and let the man regulate the family relationship, what about you? Is it to catch your father-in-law and let your father-in-law teach you a lesson, do you think it's appropriate?

I have to say that you are very brain-dead, but I don't think there is such a stupid person in the world, unless it is intentional.

It may be that the personality is incompatible At first, your boyfriend may think that getting married and having children is to complete the tasks assigned by his parents Just met you It is suitable in all aspects In addition to the personality But the more you get married, the more your boyfriend finds that he can't bear it, so it will explode To put it bluntly, your boyfriend does not love you as you imagined I suggest not to marry him He has begun to be impatient with you Just forced to continue to be with you under pressure from your parents If you marry him If he breaks out after marriage and then mention divorce It will be even worse for you It's better to find someone who loves you and is willing to marry you.

Should you trust him? In fact, as long as a man really loves you, he can be strong enough to do anything for you, some small requirements can not be satisfied, so that you and the people around you can easily see his love, women are so delicate, will not ignore every detail in love, if a woman feels that her man does not love herself enough, then most of this man is really not loved.

People in love say that their personalities are not suitable.,It's just a tactful excuse.。。 If you don't have a tacit understanding with each other, what's the point of being together? Even if you get married, you won't be happy. When it is broken, it is broken

Everyone has their own habits and personalities.

If you often quarrel before you get married, it's really not recommended to be together.

Marriage requires mutual tolerance and understanding.

If you get married just because you obey your parents, you will only regret it for the rest of your life.

Who likes to quarrel all day long, even if they love you all day long, they will be worn out. Don't always be noisy and talk to him.

In normal relationships, they don't care enough about you, or the two of them don't see each other often, or rarely ask you out to hang out or something. Men are generally more careless, of course, by the majority, if he loves you, it is possible to be inconsiderate, but certainly not cold. What you said, ask your dad if he likes to drink, or buy a car to take you to a test drive, this is just a normal relationship, if you don't feel considerate now, you can point it out in person to see the after-effects, after all, you two are rushing to get married!

I don't know what you mean by being inconsiderate, whether it's because you don't care enough about you in a normal relationship, or if you don't see each other often, or rarely ask you out for hang out or something. If he loves you, he will definitely not be so cold, what you say, ask your dad if he likes to drink, or buy a car to take you for a test drive, it doesn't show how much he loves you, if you don't feel considerate now, is it necessary to continue?

He's not inconsiderate, but someone who doesn't know how to express it, he introduces you to his friends, what to do to take you along, that proves that he still likes you, but he's usually a careless person who is careless and doesn't understand the girl's mind, and most of the girls are people who like to care about your body.

Men don't pick and choose if they want to get married. Many men will not marry a girl who truly loves her.

This may be determined by the character itself, not necessarily that he is inconsiderate, but there are some different ways of expression, you should look at the advantages more, if the advantages themselves outweigh the disadvantages you can stick to your choice, if not, you can continue to investigate to see if there is better room for development.

Don't think about it, just be kind and tolerant of each other, Nan Wu Pharmacist Liuliguang is like a come.

Each person's personality is different, so the way of expression is also different. If we really go in the spirit of getting married, then don't cook, look at his least expression, mainly to see if he has it in his heart, whether you live in it, be considerate of you, care about you, let you, if he does it, it means that he loves you.

You have to consider whether you want to marry him, and whether you are suitable in character and thinking.

There are still some differences between boys and girls in terms of feelings, boys are usually more big-hearted, do not pay much attention to details, and many are not good at expressing their feelings, feeling that there is a other party in their hearts, and there is no need to talk about it every day. Girls are delicate and want boys to care more about themselves and pay attention to rituals in life, so sometimes there are two people who have different feelings. Two people together to trust each other, mutual understanding and mutual tolerance, in order to make the relationship better, it is necessary to communicate more, open and honest about their feelings about each other and their own expectations, two people on the basis of mutual respect and equality, more understanding, slowly run in, and gradually find a way to get along with each other, boys sometimes do not know what to do, girls are willing to accept suggestions, two people together is also a process of learning from each other and improving together.

It's really hard to talk about emotional matters. Your boyfriend is definitely the kind of person who is very introverted and doesn't care about people.

This person thinks it's not that your boyfriend doesn't love you, it's just that there is a gap between your requirements and your boyfriend's performance, and this gap may never be narrowed, because this thing is too subjective. I think your boyfriend loves you, otherwise he wouldn't want to marry you, but if you feel that he hasn't done enough, you can tell him what to do, or change another one that you are happy with.

Maybe the longer you talk, the easier it is for girls to rely on each other, the more insecure, you must communicate more, understand each other, and explore each other more to see if the other party has any troubles.

I think you have this feeling, not necessarily that he really doesn't care about you or doesn't love you, but he is not suitable for you for sure, because it is not suitable, there will be a lot of suspicions and contradictions, maybe it is a misunderstanding, maybe it is the truth, but in any case, this is not a comfortable state of getting along, how can it last long. How you feel is the most important thing.

If you feel that there is a problem in your relationship, don't think that he doesn't care about you anymore, you feel that he doesn't love you anymore, and you must talk about it calmly. Maybe he's just been ignoring how he feels about you lately. If you love each other, you need to understand and respect each other.

Love you on the one hand, marry on the other.

A person who doesn't consider your feelings and doesn't put you in the first place in his heart, what does he say that he really loves you, but in fact he doesn't, he doesn't think about your feelings when you are wronged, do you say that love is useful? Actions speak for themselves.

1, first of all, the male protagonist must feel that there is something he can't bear. And then I haven't told you, either I'm afraid of hurting you, or I'm afraid I can't break it. You've been together for 3 years, haven't you gotten to know each other well?

Isn't there too little inner communication. It feels like you don't quite understand his thoughts, and it feels like there are fewer divine friends. So some misunderstandings have not been resolved.

2. Or is it a material reason? Didn't negotiate about getting married? Bride price, what to dowry?

3. Or you really have some conceptual inconsistencies, he endured it for 3 years, and found that after these 3 years, he still can't accept some of your concepts, values, etc. So in the end, it was decided that it was better to separate.

All in all, you still have to talk to him well, you don't have to apologize, just get to the bottom of it, what is the reason, he can't bear it, and then see if you can change, if you can, then make a change to show him, see if he changes his mind, if not, then break up. There is no other rut.

The small contradiction in the Mid-Autumn Festival is just a fuse, get along for three years, each other's character, advantages and disadvantages, and their tempers have been understood by each other, he can make such a decision decisively, it is safe to say that your relationship has come to an end, and there is no possibility of turning back. Therefore, the girl is brave and strong to move forward, no one can live without anyone, adjust yourself, and find the next relationship that belongs to you.

It's easy to fall in love, but it's hard to get along. Long-term relationships are often indispensable for mutual tolerance and understanding. I hope you are happy.