If you take the initiative to break up, can you get out of it?

Updated on society 2024-05-28
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    At the end of a relationship, when faced with a breakup, there is always someone who speaks, so can the person who first take the initiative to break up easily get out?

    The answer is hard. No matter how a relationship ends, when we are together, we will not think of the word "breakup", what we will think about is whether there will be a lot of changes in the next life due to his appearance, two people can do some brave things together, plan to travel to different places, listen to their nagging when they are sad, and go to a big meal together when they are happy.

    You see, at the beginning of love, everything is beautiful and colorful, but life is not scripted, we can't grasp its direction, plus in real life, there are too many possibilities and insecure inducements.

    We can't walk anymore, facing a breakup, the person who proposed the breakup first must have used a lot of effort to finally make up his mind to leave, but the first to break up may not be able to completely erase the years with him from life.

    It's really difficult, so you have to take the initiative to say goodbye to the person you used to like. But two people decide to break up, and there must be a reason to break up at that moment, it may be disappointment, it may be that there is no end in sight, it may be that one of the parties has done something unforgivable......

    I like a sentence very much, in a relationship, except for consummation, everything else is separated, and everything else is sad, but when you take the initiative, you want to stop dragging mud and water, you want to be neat, you want to stop delaying each other, you are always brave.

    I hope that no matter what happens in the future, we will not be mixed in each other's lives, and with you, there have been good and sad, the past is indelible, but you can let go.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    No, I'm too emotional, I can recall. But it is impossible to go back, because the breakup I mentioned must be the point where I retreated to the point where I had no way back to mention the breakup, and I was disappointed too much and wronged myself. I hope that next time I can meet someone who pities me and cherishes me. Sincerity really comes only once.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    No, I still haven't let go of two years and still care about him, why did I mention breaking up in the first place, because I found that he was getting more and more cold to me, and his self-esteem was frustrated, and I felt that if I mentioned breaking up or he could realize the problem, he would care more about me, and there would be no result.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I once suddenly broke up with me for no reason, and I was confused, and then a few months later, I called ** and said that I had been keeping my WeChat and ** number and was reluctant to delete it! In fact, when you propose to break up, there is already an insurmountable gap. I choose to be okay and never see each other again!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I can't, I proposed to break up, and as a result, they got married on a blind date half a year later, and I was so sad that I died.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    No, the scum ex-boyfriend is almost seamless, and I feel like I'm the one who was dumped.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I never took the initiative to break up, I think that since I have begun to identify that person, no matter how difficult and tired it is, we must be together, no matter what it takes!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In the past, I took the initiative to break up, but this time I changed him, and I also wanted to experience what it was like to be broken up.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The law can divorce, why not break up.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I could, because he was dead.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Never see each other again, don't contact.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Unless you don't love him at all, or even dislike him, it's impossible.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Actually, I was in almost exactly the same situation as you after the breakup and thought about it for a long time. Really for a long time. I think that only love is enough for two people to be together, but in the face of real life, you can know that love is indeed vulnerable.

    The relationship is real, she liked you, you liked him, and they all have good memories. In fact, after the breakup, we all thought that we were hurting, but in fact, we were just complaining, complaining about why we didn't do the prince in her mind before. I've also looked for her after the breakup, she said:

    If you're good, I'll leave you.

    I haven't understood this sentence I love her so much that I did something wrong. It wasn't until yesterday that I watched a movie called "33 Days of Broken Love" and I realized that it was me who was wrong, and I was wrong because I didn't live up to the role she had in mind, making him sad and desperate. But you're complaining that you weren't given a chance, and you're wrong, and if you think about it, you have a lot of opportunities when you're in love, but you just don't do it.

    So, adjust your mindset and invest in the next relationship and try to do your best. If you want others to be happy with you, you must first be satisfied with yourself. And a little bit of "Never Say You Can't Do It".

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Dude, sympathize with you, women are fickle, since it's separated, let's look behind it, since she won't give you a chance, why should you wait in vain Pack up your mood and start the next story.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you can afford to take it and put it down, a woman who has changed her mind will not look back. Find someone worthy of your love again. Hope you find !!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you should put it away, she can put it, so why bother with it.

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