Why is this always the case!!

I was a bit like you when I was a freshman, but now I've come all the way and experienced a lot of things, and I've finally learned something. In fact, you don't have to blindly please others or seek grievances, respect is for those who also respect you, as for those who hurt you, although don't double the favor, at least a tooth for a tooth. People always bully the weak and fear the strong, so now if someone maliciously hurts you, stand up and resist, express your anger, and learn to refuse.

Students in college come from different regions, different families, and have different ways of living and dealing with people, so they should learn to be tolerant. If you always compare your own strengths with the shortcomings of others, you will feel that others are always inferior to you, and over time, you will be pretentious and become a lonely person, which is actually a very painful thing. Learning to be tolerant, learning to be patient, and learning to be humble is also a lesson for you, and learning it will make you feel that many of your troubles are found by yourself, and life can be so easy.

I wish you to get along with your classmates and have many close friends.

I'll call you a junior, I'm older than you!

In fact, university is originally a place for us to learn, not only to learn knowledge, but also to socialize, to tell you about my approach:

Being a man, sometimes there is a small loss at the bottom of the pool, that's nothing! As long as you are sincere to the people around you, there will always be a reward for your efforts! Be bold and be yourself!

You don't have to think about these little things all the time, it's not good for yourself or others! Usually help people more, but you must also have your own principles, don't let people violate it at will, and tell him clearly if you do! Living together, no one will want to always have conflicts with others!

For example, if the player is playing the game, you can tell him directly!

For college students, studying and making friends are equally important. Knowledge is the foundation of your life, and friends are the way of your development. As for how to make friends, first of all, it is natural to be honest and humble, but blind humility will not be exchanged for respect.

You must have your own character, and it is not impossible to say things that are criticized, and it is not impossible not to do things that offend people. It is necessary to be strong when you are violated, and to be humble after the incident, which will not isolate you, but will earn you respect. Human affection is like a bank, you have to deposit more and withdraw less, it's not that if you help others, others will help you, look at the open point.

The most important thing is to establish a small prestige, save more favors, and learn more knowledge.

Life needs to be experienced by itself, and it needs to be changed and adapted by itself.

There will always be good people in the world, it's just that you don't find .........

Insist when it's time to assert yourself! You can't just put up with it!

I'm a freshman in college, and I've been in school for almost half a semester, and I've been seeing people's hearts for a long time. I'm a fairly cheerful person, a little bit more serious, but as long as others don't hit me in the face when they say something, it's just no.

and then far away from the bad boys; You can't just make compromises, and sometimes let them know that you're not easy to mess with! As the saying goes, there is no need to endure it, but it is necessary to weigh the severity and everything in moderation.

Go your own way and let others do the talking.

Read more books, if there is anything you can share with your friends, wouldn't it be better if someone was with you?

Don't treat everyone the same, you want to make people who don't respect you enough feel angry and consequences.

That's how universities are, everyone has them.

That's how college life is, don't mind it too much.

Why do men do this? Women must see.