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Can a friend have the same requirements as a boyfriend? You are tolerant of others because you don't care much about what they do, and you can't tolerate them because of the weight they have in your mind.

In fact, sometimes, I don't think like this in my heart, but the words are often said in the opposite way of my heart. If you love him, tell him out loud, and then in peacetime, communicate more and don't turn the problem into a war.

There are times when a man doesn't love him, it's that he is too tired.

It's that there is no separation between you, you love him, of course you demand from him. Men actually hate girls who have nothing to do with tantrums, and you have to change it.

Actually, because of this incident, we have been together for too long.

But you have to understand each other to get it.

I agree with the third floor. Hey.

All people are unique. That's what you're saying about me, and I'm too, and if it's a brother, I'll tolerate it countless times, and I'll learn to tolerate it as an ordinary friend, and remember that it's not cowardice, it's humility, and you don't need to change, and remember that you're unique.

Evil is rewarded with evil, and good is rewarded with good. It's better to be kind, and in this way, you will have the whole world!

Personality dictates! Actually, it's good, it won't be annoying, so why change it?

If it is affection, your heart has been moved when you just say this sentence, it means that you love yourself and not him (her).

Be open-minded, tolerate small mistakes, be principled for big mistakes, empathize with each other, and most importantly for yourself, if you can't tolerate other people's mistakes, interpersonal relationships are difficult to deal with, and it is difficult to survive in society.

Is it that I have encountered something recently, and my heart is too stressed, which leads to a hot temper and wants to lower the fire.

There are no absolutes in the world! What is Black? What is White? That's in a specific historical context! Learn to adapt! Of course you can have your own principles! Have a forgiving heart! Get to know a new color – gray!

Machismo, do more self-reflection, if it is a different way to the same end, you might as well try to accept, think more about happy things, see the beauty of nature and open your mind, I believe you will understand.

Like me before, I have to adjust my mentality and treat people and things with a normal heart.

It's sometimes a personality issue, and you try to learn to be tolerant. I think the main thing is to learn from the good aspects of others, not to focus on the faults of others, people can never be complacent, when you reach a height you have to look higher, so that you will learn a lot, and you will gradually change this problem.

It's normal to have anger, which means that you are a bit of a perfectionist. When this kind of thing happens, it's okay to complain a little bit about anger in your mouth, don't take it too seriously. Try to do something to distract yourself.

People are not sages and sages, and tolerating the mistakes of others will show that you are broad-minded, making you more popular and respected. Even you make mistakes yourself, so when you see someone doing something wrong, think about whether you're doing it too.

It's that you are too demanding of yourself, you can't tolerate other people's mistakes, slowly try to calm your mind, if the economic conditions are sufficient, you can try to travel, climb mountains, or go to fitness, tired yourself, you will feel much better.

Learning to tolerate is also a substance, don't get angry easily, it's not good for others.

I'm like this, often the more I care about it, the more I care, I often remind myself to take it easy, everyone is different.

Have a heart that is tolerant and understanding of others, so that your generosity can be revealed. No one is perfect, everyone will make mistakes, learn to understand others.

Be lenient with others and strict with yourself. You need self-cultivation, forgiving others is forgiving yourself, and when your mind is stable, you will become wise. Otherwise, you can only be considered wise, not wise.

At this time, you can think about whether you will be able to, and if you can't, there is no reason to laugh. If you can, help them, and you can also make yourself more helpful.

You should learn to be tolerant of others, think about how they feel when they do something wrong, and think about it in relation to reality.

Also, you should take a look at this article - "Comparing Hearts to Hearts".

When others always base their mistakes on your tolerance, what else is there to tolerate, just ignore them and forget it Because you understand, you are compassionate

It's easy to adjust your mindset but it's hard to do, and sometimes you may be squeezed in your heart because of some trivial things. At this time, the best thing to do is to divert your attention, read the book, listen to ** or something. Of course, it is also possible that you are too demanding and can't tolerate the sand type in your eyes, then you are a person who is too controlling, and you need to understand what you really want, rather than being too demanding.

Pay attention to the methods and ways of empathy, and strive to do better. There is no best, only better.

Maybe you have a lot of faults, but you just don't have time to sort them out! Sort it out slowly, and you'll be tolerant of others!

That's when you encounter something that doesn't go your way, and you have to adjust your mentality, not everything is going according to what you want.

Yes, and people who make the same mistakes as themselves will feel like themselves and have a good impression.

Too grumpy. Learn from good people.

Low EQ and touching IQ. Alas, it is to review yourself more, pay attention to control your emotions, and don't get angry at every turn, so that no one wants to stay with you in the future.

Psychological problems!! You'll have to see a doctor.

Personally, I think sometimes you should reflect on yourself.

He "is not obligated to tolerate your temper and willfulness, and the reason why he can tolerate you for so long is because he likes you."

But even if they like you, who really likes to be angry all the time? After a long time, you will get tired.

In the 33 days of falling out of love, Lu Ran was very tolerant of Xiaoxian's meanness, but in fact? In the end, I was tired.

Although it is a movie, it is also worth reflecting on.

As far as I'm a girl, I hate being hung up on me, and I feel like it's rude, and I don't feel respected and valued.

Actually, if you think about it, aren't boys the same, and when you do this, do you think about how "he" feels?

How can you still be like this after all these years?" Don't you feel the grievances and sadness in this?

As for the polite words, I don't think he really wants you to say what you have and don't.

He may just complain that you don't pay enough attention to him.

Actually, he's already very sensitive, don't you realize?

Can people be sensitive for no reason?

I don't know much about the two of you, but judging from what you're writing, the problem is mainly that you have someone who loves you and tolerates you, and you have to cherish it, and don't take everything he takes for granted.

All in all, you have to remember that no one really likes to be angry, and the reason why they tolerate it is because of the love for you.

Even boys want to be respected and valued, they are sensitive, they are aggrieved, and they are tired.

Don't take everything for granted, don't think that your wayward temper is justified.

Cherish "him" and give him the attention and respect he deserves, and boys will also expect to be loved and cared for.

To quote a passage from Xiao S: If you are lucky enough to find a man who loves you, you must be grateful every day, treat him gently, look at him gently, talk to him gently, don't be a princess with a temper, say less annoying words, and say more that you thank him and love him! That's what makes it worthy of others' love for you!

Also, sometimes you have to talk to each other about your thoughts, and you have to try to listen to him, and it may be difficult at first, but don't rush, take your time, and it should change a little bit later.

Finally, I wish you all happiness.

Think differently. You have a lot of things wrong, if it were my girlfriend, I would have broken up with you a long time ago.

If you call him and say your mom is coming tomorrow, he'll do it"Oh"How do you feel?

It shows that you are a selfish person who only cares about yourself and never cares about other people's feelings, and people like you will never understand if you don't experience some things, even if you get married in the future, it is to prepare for divorce.

If you don't make a change, you just wait to cry!

Annoyed mood and heavy talking, reminds me of my former girlfriend who was like you, who has been good to her for 4 years, and everything is up to her. I still have to lose my temper every day, and after we are separated, I will be called ** every day for half a year, saying that my current boyfriend is not good, and I will accept her if I try to test it. Damn, what did you do earlier, and now I regret it, and I replied to her in a word"While playing"

I speak directly and please don't mind, your boyfriend used to tolerate you because he really loved you, but now he doesn't love you, it's just a little annoying, think about it, your boyfriend has tolerated you for almost 4 years, doesn't that mean he really loves you? It's normal for girls to have a temper, but you're always like this, boys are a little unbearable, you empathize with it, if it were you, would you tolerate him like your boyfriend tolerates you? So I suggest you reflect on it, you have been together for so long and have established a very deep relationship, so please also cherish not to lose your temper at every turn, talk to your boyfriend well, and pay attention to it in the future, not that you can't lose your temper, but that you have less hair, your boyfriend loves you so much, can you bear to toss him to lose his temper with him?

About his father, in fact, I understand you, you think there is no need to be polite anymore in such a close relationship, but your boyfriend is different, that is his real father, and it will also be your future father, you say something nice, you just say "oh" will make your boyfriend feel that you are an attitude that you don't care, I wish you and your boyfriend eternal happiness together.

When we first got together, we often didn't have a deep understanding of it, so sometimes whatever happened unpleasantly will be brought over, but after a long time, everyone gets to know each other, and the same unpleasantness will be refined, and your boyfriend's performance is too good for you, and the seven-year itch has you heard of it, think about it, you're both four years, and there are still a few years before seven years, don't think too much about this time, this is an inevitable stage, it's because of trust and understanding, and the dissonance arises, don't think too much about why, you should avoid these factors You must keep the feeling of freshness, don't think that everyone should be understood and understood because you have been with the object for a long time, then you are wrong, use your understanding of your object to perfect the relationship, and don't use understanding as a shield for you to make mistakes during the period of emotional fatigue, because if the two of you always stay in the previous way of dealing with a problem, after a long time, when the problem reappears, you will intensify the conflict at the same time, and the consequences are very serious, so don't think too much about some things, simply think about what is right and wrong, and correct if you are wrong, and keep what is right In this way, the relationship can develop smoothly.

Because time is passing, people's thoughts and personalities are also changing, maybe he thinks that you have not changed with him, so he thinks that you are not as good as before, or maybe he has encountered something troublesome recently, and he doesn't want you to annoy him, disturb him, and will show disgust at your concern or coquettishness.

Slowly change with him, know what he wants, and you will get sweeter and sweeter day by day.

Bless you

Women need men to hurt, men need women to care, you have developed a habit, let him coax you, but you don't coax him, men are the same as women, just coax it, don't do anything too much, change some of your bad problems for both parties, don't make children lose their temper at every turn, it's good to be coquettish occasionally,

Love is mutual, you can't ask him to tolerate you all the time, no one is born angry, patience is limited. Since you know that you are willful and have a temper, why don't you try to change it? Why does he have to tolerate you and tolerate you?

Judging from your account, the problem is you, and I don't see any problems with him. I think you should be nice to him, and the two of you can sit down and have a good talk, that's the solution.

Do you know why? The root cause is in you, because love is mutual, one party pays a single effort, and you will get tired after a long time, because you can't get a response from the other party, remember that men also need to be loved.

My boyfriend is like this now, but we can't all blame them, after so many years together, whoever takes the initiative for a long time will be tired, and occasionally empathize with it, everything will be solved.

It's because he thinks you don't value him, care about him, mature and should grow up, the older the person is, the more he should consider finding a mother who can do everything for him...

Not loving because of shortcomings or loving because of merits, this kind of love is purely materialistic. The real fate is that the two of them know that they are the right person as soon as they see each other, and there is no reason for it. In the eyes of a lover, the shortcomings will also be cute.

As long as the two have feelings, they don't care about the advantages and disadvantages at all, because whether they are good or bad, they are all their own. People who dislike you don't love you enough. And the people who love you will kiss your shortcomings.