Is the reality too cruel or is the imagination too beautiful?

The reality is brutal . Fantasy is too good . Reality is reality, and it cannot be changed. Fantasy is illusory, anyone can change it, it's up to you to want it or not;

You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!

When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;

The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.

Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!

No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?

Love is not possession!

You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.

In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:

Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.

You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.

The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!

knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;

Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.

When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".

In love, one thing is said and another is done;

The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......

Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.

It's that your question is too brainless.

You think that big cities are full of opportunities, and you can make a lot of money just by going there; Ye Ranhong, you think that marriage is all because of love, as long as you love each other, you can go to the end; You think that hard work will lead to achievement, and you think that you only need to do your own thing well and you will be rewarded......

All kinds of endings, but it's just what you think. Today's unemployment rate is far greater than the graduation rate, you think that the world is full of devastation, you think that the love of old age is just because of the suitability because of the parents, because of the children, and the effort you think is just cheap labor in the eyes of others.

Reality is always crueler than you think. There are so many worlds and so many people, but after all, there is only so much warmth. The ideals and warmth we are looking for may be broken by the cruelty of reality.

survived the cold winter nights, watched the spring flowers bloom, and finally was defeated by the scorching summer. It's ridiculous to think about it, a woman's intuition has always been a bit as sharp as Sherlock Holmes solving a case, and the uneasy mood is because she puts her own focus on others, and then does something unthinkable according to her usual judgment. It's ridiculous to think about it, many times we inexplicably turn ourselves into the kind of person we hate the most.

We always say that the current shooting is too cruel, and we always feel that we are too cowardly. Whether we want too much or don't work hard enough is not known ...... outcome

What you want is to fight for yourself, cherish it when you have love, and work hard when you have work. There is no need to regret the loss, it will pass anyway.

Because now the social philosophy is different, full of stupid ideas. Method. The views are not the same! I hope that the future "society" will not disappoint you! ~

Love is not sweet all the time, you just want to have more of its good side, and of course you will be disappointed.

Remember. Perfect love is only an illusory reflection.

Remember. Maybe your expectations are too high, but if you come to it, you will be at ease, and if you devote yourself to it, you will find that life is still so exciting!

When we are perfect, we don't cherish it It is the flaws that we continue to pursue and improve Unconsciously, we have learned a lot in love, and learned how to love someone better Good love is not always beautiful, but it teaches you a lot, and the ups and downs are all tasted The deepest memories are beautiful.

If you want to be beautiful in reality, you have to act on your own and make your life the same as the life you understand.

You can get involved in more school or club activities.

In fact, many people will understand that the goal is actually very romantic, but the reality is very skinny, and the points are good. To be a human being, you have to be real.

In your imagination, it may be beautiful, but this is the reality, and you have to learn to accept and understand the reality in order to live well.

Reality is reality.

To think is to imagine.

If you want to live in the imagination.

The only way is to die.

Actually, it's not very good.

True love is not something that can be expressed in words, it comes from the heart1, when you fall in love with someone your whole heart will be attracted to the person you love, fascinated by him (her), and concerned for him (her), but.

I hope that you can see him (her) every minute, and when you can't see him, you will always think about him (her), and when you see him, you will be excited and your heart will beat faster.

You'll feel warm and safe when you're together, really! Positive love.

One will be willing.

Take care of him (her) care for him (her), give him (her) everything he (she) wants, see the person you love happy you will be happy, see him (her) troubled you will also be troubled, but you will do everything you can to make the person you love happy and happy.

True love one.

Personally. If you want to grow old with him (her) and get along with him (her), you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, and you will also get another happiness in this process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, without him (her) it seems to have lost something, with him (her) I have happiness.

Feel it with your heart (despise theft articles).

It can't be said that the idea is too naïve, and the reality is too cruel.

Your idea is naïve because you don't know the world, but this is not a naïve idea, after all, you have your own basis for thinking about it, it's a good thing, don't retreat because of the cruelty of reality, brother, people just have to have a dare to think and dare to do, what about naïve thoughts? It's a good idea that I can make a result.

In fact, the reality is not cruel, the current world is fair to everyone, this is an era of wisdom, all rely on their own wisdom and their own hands to create everything, unlike the previous slave era or feudal era. Although the reality is cruel, but we live in reality, then we should live realistically and strive for what we want. Worthy of your own life, worthy of your own efforts.

Imagination is based on personal subjective conjecture, and most of the content is based on personal will, that is to say, most of the imaginary things are what you are willing to accept and want to accept, and are biased towards personal preferences; In most cases, reality is not based on individual subjectivity, reality is a social group activity in which many people participate, integrating many factors, and the individual only accounts for a part, reality sometimes reflects the individual, but most of the time it is a comprehensive embodiment of the group.

Let's talk about the reality first, people say that the ideal is very full, but the reality is very cruel. Indeed, reality is full of cruelty, because in reality, all kinds of situations are intertwined, fish and dragons are mixed, individuals can not completely control the behavior and will of others or groups, coupled with the external environment, so the reality will be different from the will of the individual or even deviate, and beautiful situations often rarely appear in reality.

It is precisely out of dissatisfaction and disappointment with the reality of the situation that people will look forward to something better, which is imagination. This kind of imagination is the yearning for beauty reflected by the dissatisfaction with reality after experiencing reality, and this kind of imagination will naturally be much better than reality. There is also a kind of imagination that before reality, starting from the subjective self, thinking that the grasp of a certain state of affairs is more comprehensive, thinking that the consideration is more thoughtful, or the individual is more confident or even conceited, then from his own point of view, he thinks that the reality that is about to happen will be very beautiful, that is to say, the imagination is very beautiful, but in reality, due to the influence of various factors, coupled with the inadequacy of his actual preparation, the reality is often not as beautiful as imagined.

In fact, people always yearn for beauty, which is why imagination is always better than reality.