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The relationship between a dormitory can't be too far away, but the relationship between three people is not stable after all, in fact, the relationship between men and women, the best is two people together, especially between girls.
Find someone who can talk to you and be together without being particularly tired.
My best friend and I weren't in the same department, not in the same dormitory, but our relationship didn't change throughout college, and it was always good, in fact, sometimes a little distance is a longer relationship.
That's how people are, if you get too close, you get to know each other too well, and when you know too well, you find a lot of shortcomings, and getting along with each other at a little distance will make it easier for each other.
Don't think too much about it, people with similar interests will definitely come across it, hehehe.
The relationship between three people will be tired, if you really don't like it, don't force yourself, if there are three people, there will always be one person who will be particularly tired, if you really can't stand it, it's better to let go quickly, don't say that you won't be friends in the future, it's just not so close.
A person's best friend can only have one, don't be too greedy, hehehe.
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To be open, don't worry too much, this will be more comfortable, our high school teacher once said that to suffer is to take advantage.
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Yes, we are also three people, and we get along very well!
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You don't have to put all your feelings into it, they don't really treat you, and you don't need to be too nice to them. You can make more friends other than roommates, do more other things, and it's much better not to face them every day. Hopefully my advice can help you.
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Nope. A real friend will not have this problem, and if you have this problem, you will definitely not be a real friend! True friends are altruistic and think about each other, and when there are conflicts, they will consider each other's perspective, understand each other, be considerate of each other, and support each other.
A real friend will not say that it is because of three people, and then he will exclude one, he will not think that he has many friends. Three people have the advantage of three people, although two people are more likely to make each other feel their hearts.
However, as long as she treats you as a friend, then she will definitely maintain a good relationship. You won't let a third person out unably, unless you really don't fit to be friends, and they may reject them. The more you think about it, the easier it may be for Hu Tingchai to make people reject themselves!
As long as it is true friendship, no one is superfluous, and to think that there is one person who is superfluous is to think too much.
Notes:
Whether it's with friends, family, or colleagues, you should learn to respect the privacy of others. Everyone has their own little secrets, and not gossiping about other people's privacy is the best cultivation.
In this world, everyone is a subdued individual, everyone has their own ideas, don't just judge others from your own point of view, sometimes what you think is not necessarily true, learn to empathize.
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Not necessarily. Friendship is based on mutual trust, respect and understanding, and if all three people have a good relationship, can trust and support each other, and spend happy and difficult times together, then the friendship between three people can be beautiful. Everyone has different personalities and characteristics, and in such a relationship, everyone has the opportunity to be supported, enlightened, and grown.
Of course, there are times when one of them feels redundant. It can be due to factors such as role changes in relationships or personality differences. However, this situation is not inevitable, and depends on the specific situation and the dynamics of interpersonal relationships.
Understanding and communicating with each other is the key to a harmonious relationship. If you feel that someone is being excluded or psychologically unbalanced, you can try to understand his or her thoughts and emotions, and communicate with him and her more often to help him and her integrate into this friendship circle.
In short, a truly good and genuine friendship benefits everyone and adds a new color to their lives.
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There is no fixed answer to the question of whether two people can be ordinary friends after breaking up. Because every person and every situation is different. Some people can do it, some people can't.
First of all, it depends on what the reason for the breakup is. If it is because of some small things that cause a quarrel, then there is a good chance that two people will become good friends again after a period of calm thinking. After all, these little things don't affect each other's feelings and friendships.
But if the breakup is caused by serious betrayal, cheating, etc., then the trust between the two people has been destroyed, and it is difficult to return to the original state. Even if they were able to continue their joint hail bondage, it would be difficult for them to be as close as they used to be.
Secondly, the loser depends on the personality and emotional state of the two people. Some people are naturally more cheerful and open-minded people, and even if they break up, they will not have too many emotional entanglements with each other. Others, on the other hand, are more sensitive and emotional, and need a certain amount of time to adjust their emotional state after a breakup.
If both people are able to accept each other's personality and emotional state, then it is still possible for them to become ordinary friends.
Finally, it depends on the relationship between two people and the frequency of interactions. If two people are already good friends during their relationship, it is easy to maintain the relationship even after a breakup. But if two people don't have a deep foundation of friendship during their relationship, it will be difficult to become ordinary friends again after a breakup.
In addition, if two people interact with each other very infrequently, such as only occasionally saying hello or texting, then it is difficult for them to become good friends.
In short, whether two people can become ordinary friends after breaking up depends on many factors. But in any case, we should respect each other's decisions and feelings, and not force each other to do things that we don't want to do. If two people really have fate to become good friends, then Chashu time and fate will bring them together again.
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As a child, the reason for becoming friends was simple. Maybe I have a common interest in hobbies, Jun lives in the west of the village, I live in the east of the village, and when I want to play table tennis, I can make an appointment at school from afar. It may also be because of the proximity to home, the ability to talk about everything, and the farm work can often be done together.
Because I know enough, I feel at ease.
1. Along the way in life, there are many people who have met Tu Zhiduan, and there are also some people who have made friends. But later, some friends became passers-by, some friends turned against each other, and some friends never saw each other again, which was sad. There is a saying, this time, that time.
No one can stop in the past, and no one can stop for you.
Growing up, I found it especially hard to be friends. The years have changed, people's hearts are changing, and the former "dragging the family to meet each other" is just a later sentence. Your life is very different from his; What you want to talk about is not on the same channel as what he wants to hear.
2. No matter where you go, as long as the other party can leave a warm memory in your heart, so that you can recall it, and still feel that those years were not in vain, it is enough. It's not that they are separated for no reason, but the three views have long been different, and their hearts are gradually estranged, and they slowly withdraw from each other's worlds.
Don't be surprised at the fragility and transience of friendship, when the tide of time dissipates and the stone that symbolizes the truth of adult friendship comes to the surface. The truth of dating for adults is just three words: light, cold, and far. Friends, less is less, more often.
3. When you miss the days when the two of you used to stay together, you should also understand that such two parties are destined to separate, and it is better to let each other go than to force them together to increase their disappointment. Just say goodbye quietly, and go to each other's path before the two have a greater conflict, but leave the friendship at its best.
The reason why friends are friends is because they understand each other and take the initiative with each other. He keeps an eye on your news and is willing to listen patiently to see what can be done for you when you have something. And you, too, always remember each other and keep in touch.
4. In the end, many relationships are based on interests and each other's values. To this day, the truth is still the same. Under the interests, it is difficult to have true friends, whether we are willing to mature or not, the other party may have matured a long time ago.
Gradually, it disappears, just a symptom.
5. When a person no longer meets your needs, and a person can no longer keep up with your pace, you will consciously or unconsciously abandon him, and at the same time, you may also be abandoned by others. We will eventually become the old people of the mountains and rivers. What is a friend?
People who come together based on similar emotions or common interests. Therefore, it is also possible to drift away due to the divergence of interests and emotions that are no longer there. "Don't drag your friends on the road, look for friends on the road.
Everyone has a personality and a direction in life. If you force yourself to walk with someone, you will lose yourself. As a person who focuses on reading, if he devotes a large part of his energy to managing the world, he will be disturbed by the world and will not be able to be a "bystander of the world".
It is difficult to have pure friendship between men and women, because there are too many factors that affect it, first of all, the psychology of both parties must not have other ideas, and the psychological tolerance must be strong, and secondly, their boyfriends and girlfriends must be generous, or they will not have a great impact on this friendship, and then there are friends around, and other factors must be considered, so the friendship between men and women should pay more than the normal friendship between men and women and men, and it is more tiring! Think about it!!
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