Can t you love someone too well for her?

— True love is a kind of giving.

When love comes, it will feel very sweet, sweeter than honey;

But when love is far away from you, it will make you feel painful.

Even so, you won't regret that you once loved, because love has brought you a special sense of happiness.

Love is blissful, yet it is also painful.

But love will still be an eternal melody!!

You'll get to the bottom of it.

It's inevitable to be too nice to her, the main thing is what she thinks, I think if you're good to her, she'll seem uncomfortable, yes, so you don't have to be too nice to her, because she's not worthy of your love, she's not going to want to be with you for a long time, so you can give up.

The key depends on what kind of person the woman is.

If she doesn't like two people to be tired of being together all day, then being too nice to her is a burden, and if she is the kind of little woman who relies on others, being nice to her is to give her a sense of security.

Love someone too much.

Excessive doting.

Prone to self-loss.

And in the eyes of the people you love.

It is easy to lose the value it deserves.

But it's not just hot and cold.

The most important thing is to grasp the temperature of love.

It's too good, it's going to be doting, it's going to be spoiled, it's going to make him too egoistic.

It should be measured.

Recall your parents' nagging, that's a kind of coddling.

If you love someone, you should be good to her! If she is tired of it, then she may not love you very much anymore!

Love is like flying a kite, it's good to have a piece of string to hold, don't be too tight, otherwise it will break, and don't be too loose, otherwise you won't see each other's hearts. Grasp the measure, just right!

You can be nice to your girlfriend, and rightfully so. However, while being good to her, you must have your own dignity and your own standards.

There is nothing wrong with love. If you love him very much, why do you care? It's right to be nice to him. Do you still care about what you give to him?

If she's bored, she hasn't realized how much you mean to her!

Maybe it's the truth, but it's hard to grasp.

Well, you got it too lateShould learn to lose her appetite.

I want to get away with it..

Far and near, it is the most perfect.

A good premise is not to stress her.

Hot and cold will be cherished.

The more unconditionally you treat a person, the more that person feels as if all this is taken for granted, and gradually takes you less seriously.

He doesn't know that you are responsive, not because this is what you should do, but because you value this feeling.

If you are too good to someone, the attitude of others will change from gratitude at the beginning to habitual, this is human nature;

If you can't bear it anymore and don't treat everyone well, they will overturn all your previous goodness, this is the reality!

Never be too nice to a person, because when he gets used to taking from you, forget that you don't owe him either.

For the rest of my life, love and hate at will, whoever is sincere with me, I will pay seriously, and whoever pretends to treat me, I will not care about him!

To be a man, you must first learn to love yourself, and don't be too good to others, unless this person is also good to you, and he deserves to be good to him. Don't put yourself too low in your relationship, he will definitely be good to you if he loves you, you have to understand this thing. There's no reason why you should go the extra mile for someone else to do you a little bit better.

Why do you ask such a question, is it because you have been hurt? I think that if you love her, you have to be kind to her. But sometimes what you think is good may not be in the eyes of others.

Each of us is different, some people are wise, smart, and there are many others, sometimes they can be too good to them, but they can't be too good.

Yes, don't be too nice to people. If you are too good to a person, he or she will naturally take your good looks for him or her for granted. When you don't have the energy or ability to be so good to him or her one day, look at it, your relationship is not estranged and it's just a hell of a life (of course, there are some absolutes, but 90% of people are definitely fine).

For example, if you like a girl in particular, try to be nice to her. Stuff her with 100 yuan today, buy her an Adinec dress tomorrow, invite her to eat KFC the day after tomorrow, and buy her a gift the day after tomorrow. Over time, you find that you have no money in your wallet, so you buy two broken steamed buns for her lunch, and you see how she treats you.

Don't be too nice to him except his parents.

Without that, there are very few people who will take revenge.

Because of love, love, true love is to give regardless of return, what to ask for?

Well, you don't know what kind of society it is.

True love is selfless. Have you asked your parents if they have room to be nice to you?

To love a person is to learn to accept all his bad, love is a very tolerant thing, he must tolerate the shortcomings of the other party, appreciate the strengths of the other party at the same time, but also need to have a tolerant attitude to face things.

will you accept all the bad things about him? So what is it that depends on his badness? If he's not good, isn't it a big deal? Then you can forgive him, accept him, and love someone means accepting everything about him, good and bad.

It will be accepted, because I feel that everyone will have their own shortcomings, so loving someone should not mind too much.

I won't accept all the bad things about him, because I think that since there are bad things, I should correct them, instead of accommodating each other like this, and finally a conflict will break out.

I won't, because I think that since I know his badness, I should let him correct it, rather than let it contradict him in the end.

It's good to love someone for 7 points, the most important thing is because if you give all your love to each other, you won't get a good return, most people have a certain amount of rebellion in their hearts, so you should catch each other's hearts at this time.

Six or seven points is fine, because while loving others, I love myself more, and I hope that I can live better than my other half.

If you love someone, you should love each other by 8 points and yourself by 2 points, and you should not devote yourself to a relationship, which is also very harmful to yourself.

Personally, I don't think it's okay to be too good to a person, so it's very good to love someone if you can reach 7 points, and you have to keep a little bit to love yourself.

It's better to love someone with 7 points, and you have to keep three points for yourself. So that having a mind of its own will not be abandoned.

In the process of interacting with others, it is always easy for us to fall into the trap of our own preconceived ideas. I always feel that sincerity is the result of gold and stone. As long as you give sincerity, you will definitely gain sincerity. But in fact, how can life be so simple?

There are some people who appear in your life just to tell you what a son of a son is. In the face of such a person, you are still struggling to pursue and try to find opportunities and reasons for him, which is not kindness, but stupidity.

Of course, whether it is a friend or a lover, in the process of getting along with each other, there will definitely be a lot of contradictions. In the face of these contradictions, you should analyze rationally, is it just a disagreement, or has he never really treated you?

Generally speaking, when a person will often do this to you, it is disgusting with you, hurry up and block it, don't continue.

1.Often speak ill of you behind your back.

People who treat you sincerely, it's too late to defend you, how can they slander you?

A person who slanders you, even if he shows a very warm attitude in front of you, is only an illusion created by him.

The real situation is how bright he smiles when facing you, and how much he dislikes you when he turns his back to you. Make friends, fall in love, what you want is sincerity and sincerity, if you don't want to treat me well, then why should I be merciful to you?

Therefore, when a person will often slander you behind your back, put all kinds of labels on you, and smear your reputation, then no matter how long you have known each other, even if your relationship is deep, it is better to quickly block and delete it! Otherwise, your sincerity will only be viciously smeared.

The harder you try to maintain the relationship with each other, he will only trample on it again and again, so what is the need for your kindness?

2.I always borrow money from you, and I don't pay it back.

No one's money is blown by the wind, and even if you are really rich, you should spend it on people who deserve it, not on those who are cheap and sell well.

It is normal for friends and lovers to help each other. However, if a person treats your kindness as a donkey's liver and lungs, and treats you as a wronged person. Then the most important thing you should do is let him roll as far as he can.

Therefore, if a person always borrows money from you, but never pays you back, the difference is thirty or fifty, the most is three or five hundred, or even thousands, tens of thousands, hundreds of thousands, but he never mentions the matter of repaying the money. Moreover, once you remind him to pay back the money, he will instead call you stingy, say that you don't trust him, and that you don't look at your friends' feelings. Such a person is actually relying on your kindness to him, being unscrupulous towards you, and shamelessly demanding.

In the face of such a person, you must ask him to return the money to you, or let him pay the due price, and then block him immediately. Otherwise, in the long run, the last person to suffer is destined to be you.

Hello, a person can't, because of the lack of love when he was a child, he doesn't know how to love others when he grows up, he must constantly improve himself, he must know how to love himself, learn to love himself, he will have the ability to love others, he can not affect his life because he was a child, he must have his own goals, change himself, and make his life better, he must work hard to do his own life and have a goal. Have a plan to achieve your life goals and pay attention to perfecting your personality.

Love can be done by one's own nature, or it can be romantic, but in the face of marriage, we need to be a rational person.

So don't copy what you did when you were in love into your married life.

In marriage, you need to perfect each other's personalities.

If one person has a stubborn personality, the other person will learn to tolerate it at the right time, and even if they quarrel, they can reconcile in time;

One person is sensitive and fragile, the other person is thick-skinned, and going out will also make the other person feel a sufficient sense of security.

However, if the personalities of both parties are too similar, such as being more self-assertive, when dealing with conflicts or encountering problems, it is equivalent to missing a solution, or even-for-tat.

In intimate relationships, most people only see each other, not themselves.

Therefore, the sense of need is very high, and I can't extricate myself from negative emotions, accusations, and complaints, and I ignore the importance of doing my best.

If you want to better adapt to your new married life, you have to try to adjust yourself a little.

Although it is said that you should not lose yourself in marriage, you must also remember that in marriage, you cannot be stubborn about yourself.

Two: learn to live with each other's shortcomings.

What attracts us when we are in love is the advantages of the other party, marriage will magnify the shortcomings of the other party, and the process of running in between two people is the process of accepting and tolerating each other's shortcomings.

Everyone tries to find a perfect person, but unfortunately, in the end, you will find that there is no perfect person in this world.

I always believe that even if a person is good, I still think that he must have shortcomings.

When you are in a relationship, you only care about the good in the other person. Even, you will magnify the advantages of the other party ten times and a hundred times.

However, when it comes to getting married, it's very different.

All you see at this time is the other party's shortcomings, and the more you look at it, the more angry you become, and you are so angry that you can't wait to get a divorce and find another one.

So many times, as long as we are strong in our hearts, be a confident person, and know how to love ourselves, we will have the ability to know how to love others.

No, it's totally okay to love.

Uh-huh. Now many people don't cherish it.

So....It's not worth it.

Love is stubborn.

Sometimes when you identify a person, you can no longer take your eyes off your admiration. Many people say it's a kind of dedication, and some people say it's a kind of paranoia.

There are different opinions, and the person who is dedicated will only love one person in his last life; Paranoid people end up turning their love for a person into resentment.

Recently, I rewatched the TV series "Do You Know If You Should Be Green, Fat, Red and Thin", and I always felt that if the little grandfather could be braver, maybe Minglan would really be with him.

The first love between the little grandfather and Minglan when they were young was so beautiful that it made people's hearts pound.

But what touched me in my heart was that the little grandfather learned of the Chengyuan fire and went to fight the fire regardless of all secular prejudices

When I should have spoken out to her clearly, I didn't make it clear, when I should have gone forward, I didn't move, she suffered so many cold words for me, can't I save her once? I'll just go over and take a look, and if she's okay, I'll be back. ”

If the little grandfather feels guilty about Minglan feelings, it is better to say that he can't rest assured, he is like seeing that he is okay, and he will be relieved. The little grandfather hopes that he can give up once for the person he once liked, and protect her bravely and fearlessly.

If you are well, it will be a sunny day", this is the most ardent desire in the heart of the little grandfather.

To love someone is: if she is doing well, it's okay.

There is a saying that goes like this:

Love likes to be far away, secretly staring at your figure, if you are well, I will be at ease.

Loving someone can be without hesitation, loving someone can also pay silently for you, as long as you live well, it is the best.

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