My boyfriend had to wait until the house was better in 2 years before getting married

Hey, he said that he got a marriage certificate, isn't that enough?

After getting married, the two of them will share ups and downs.

Or, you can hold a simple ceremony first, and when the house is ready, you can dress up a grand and take a good wedding photo, and then maybe you have a baby, you can hold a wedding with the baby, and take wedding photos together, isn't it more perfect.

Parents care about the superficial form, but for a woman, he proposes to you and marries you home, which is already happier than anything else.

Nowadays, men are also under a lot of pressure, and men love face, he takes care of his own face, and on the other hand, he just wants to give you a better wedding. You don't care if you don't have a room to get married, he cares. I think it's more important for a man to have a house than to have money and a car. That gives women a sense of security.

You are worried that in 2 years, you will be old, but he has already said that you will get a marriage certificate first, and you will be his wife, are you still afraid that he will not want you?

If the two parties can't understand and understand, when the time comes, or the marriage is blown, then you will still get older and older, and then you will have to find another one, wouldn't it be a waste of youth.

The most important thing is that two people should cherish each other, happiness depends on your own grasp, whether the ritual is not a form, for the world to see, not to mention that he does not give you a form, and happiness or unhappiness is the most important thing.

Alas, is it bad to have a baby 29? You're 26 years old now, and you still want to have more young children. Unless you want a child now, you can give birth at the age of 27. Nowadays, many women get married later, and they are about the same age as they have children.

The ritual is actually just a formality, done for others to see, of course it is very important for women, women think that this is a once-in-a-lifetime thing, so from the bottom of their hearts I hope she is perfect, but your situation is a bit complicated.

You think that marriage is a kind of security, and you say that you are old, you can't follow him to toss, you can express your meaning gently, your attitude can't be tough, your voice should be gentle, it's best to show your weakest side, if it really doesn't work, you have to consider whether your boyfriend really wants to marry you.

If you can ignore the form of marriage, I think it is okay to have a make-up wedding with children in the future, sometimes I think it is quite interesting, and there are several couples in the world who have this honor.

I hope you can get your best in the end.

He has a strong self-esteem, so he will be more stubborn, and if you don't learn to be "soft", it is easy for cracks to appear between you. But you might as well trust him, you can see that he cares about you. And the reasons are also very reasonable, not like perfunctory.

Alas, the final statement: support for family planning!

My boyfriend is the same as yours, this month the house is going to be renovated and finished before getting engaged, then 24 years later, 25 years later, I'm also 26 years old, and he communicates with him he is still stubborn to wait until the end of the taste to arrange for both parents to meet and talk about engagement, we have been to his house for a year and a half, but his parents have not once asked when to get married and engaged or something, very distressed, I feel that his family is hanging and does not give a clear attitude, and my heart is very bottomless, And my family often asks him if he has said that he will get engaged or something, and the family has no bottom in their hearts, and they can't figure out what they mean, which is really troublesome.

Be considerate of the man. There are many men who really don't have the money to have a wedding after buying a house! Men have a good face, and after getting married, relatives and friends can't come to your rental house to see, right? Convince your family that it is more reliable to get the marriage certificate first!

I'm a man and his situation is similar to mine, trust us!

Getting married, buying a house, and ceremonies are actually several different things, and they don't need to be connected.

Worrying is superfluous, and if you choose, you can only treat one path sincerely.

There is no way to anticipate or prevent it in advance.

Otherwise, there would be no word for divorce at all.

Get pregnant first. insisted on having a child, and his family would definitely agree for the sake of the child.

Actually, I feel that you are very conflicted. It's not a question of getting married or not, it's a question of whether you want to get married or not, and it's a question of whether you want to get married or not, and you're not very happy with some of your boyfriend's conditions.

First, I personally tell the truth, it's actually best to find a fan to love you when you get married. It hurts you. Be cautious and hold it nicely, and you'll be a little more relaxed.

Second, if you get married, you have to think about it clearly, either you will get married or you won't get married. Married for a lifetime. Because divorce will have a great impact on children in the future. I won't talk about this, you can understand it yourself.

Third, if you haven't had a good love, you can have a love and wait until you're tired, and you won't have so many thoughts. You will cherish the people who love you more.

Anyway, I don't know if it's useful to you. But you have to think carefully about getting married again, it's a lifetime thing.