Who can help me analyze my life choices? 5

If you don't have children now, I strongly agree with your idea that even if you are married, you can discuss with your wife to have children later. But now that you have a complete home, both old and young, you say that you have enough savings that can be used for your family's expenses during your school years, but as a family, do parents, wives, and children only need money? Yes, you said that you would often go home to see, I don't know if the university you chose is far away from home or close, even if it is close to home, even if it is in the same city, I still ask you, how many times a month can you go home?

In four years of college, you still have to take the postgraduate entrance examination and study for a doctorate, and you yourself said that it will take a few years? How many cities do you need to get around? Do you think you'll be all the best if you use your savings to support a family?

What about emergencies? What about the unexpected? The key is that you have to think about your children, sometimes money is not everything, you have such great ideals and ambitions, why do you get married so early, if you have enough savings, you will bring this home to **, or even if you get a degree, you will not have a successful life ......

You've got big ambitions, that's good. You are already 30 years old, 35 years old after finishing college, 4,1500 yuan after graduating from college, and now you are working in a state-owned enterprise. Units will be useful, and they can also be verified, and these units will increase wages.

It is also possible to elevate. It is not cost-effective to leave your employer to go to college and find a job when you come out. Now it is difficult for state-owned enterprises to enter.

It shows that you are not willing to be ordinary and have great pursuits. Wife and children, family can't bind you. You're ready to go. Family responsibilities must be shouldered. Support you to have pursuits and don't affect the family. Your subjective consciousness is to improve the present moment.

Just go as you like, you are not willing to be an ordinary person in your heart, and you should think more about the constraints of your family, but how many 30 years can you have in this life, or fight while you are young, if success will completely change your current situation, why not try.

If you are not in business, and my personal advice is to still work, and you are admitted to university and then admitted to graduate school, will you be able to change your job? What about age? Do you want to?

4 years of college, at least 4 years, 8 years? You're all 38 and you're starting over? Everything is unknown, it is not recommended to go to school, what do you think when you are young, life is like a high speed, you miss it, you want to go back, can you go back to age?

If you're 20 years old, I suggest you go to school. But you are 30 years old, and when your family really doesn't need you to earn money, your children and wives don't need you to raise, you can do whatever you want, you miss it in life, you miss it, you regret it, you can't go back, and start again, everything will be different from what you think, 40-year-old people and 25-year-olds grab jobs, what do you think your advantages are, age? Does the company recognize the training of young people or the training of you?

I can't even recognize myself. Go to your class with peace of mind, you can consider learning everything, what the company can use, and what is closely related to you, don't dream

In fact, you are very stable working in a state-owned enterprise, and your whole life is relatively comfortable, if you are always unwilling to accept the status quo, want to find a new way out, often in the end is not as good as the current situation, so it is best to think about it and then do it.

I think you should still find a stable job, because after finding a stable job, we will definitely have a good salary, or after retirement, the treatment is better.

Whether you are working at **, you mainly rely on your own ability, and secondly, rely on your own interpersonal relationships, mainly rely on your own hunger, and only your own strength in all aspects is more mature. to be able to gain a deeper foothold.

This depends on your own choice, because for state-owned enterprises, if there is no background and no backer, I am afraid it is difficult to go further, so choose according to your own actual situation.

In this kind of life, you should decisively choose a life that you can stick to.

After a while, friends, there are many choices in life, and it depends on your own efforts to analyze, to change others will not help you, and you don't know your real situation.

I think you can study at the same time as you go to work, and the two are not in conflict.

Personally, I think that since you have a dream, you have to let your ideas fly.

Be calm first, analyze the problem well, and then make a choice, be people-oriented, and don't violate morality.

First of all, you have to know what you really want.

Du what, don't be in a hurry to give yourself a label dao, take your time, give yourself a deadline to allow yourself to face your heart peacefully, it is best to let yourself know what you want, how to do it, be sure to give yourself a plan, when it comes to this major choice, see what role this choice plays in your planning, in this process, you can talk to your friends, talk to your relatives about your thoughts, elders are indeed people who have come over, Some of what they can tell us are indeed experiences and shortcuts, but you also have to be clear, just some, even if you understand these experiences and shortcuts, but maybe you know these and will not do it according to your family's experience, and your later life path is to verify these experiences, but you also have to understand that some experiences are the best time and place and the latter summary, everyone has their own time and place, I think there are some things that cannot be replicated, but some history can be repeated, I hope that no matter what choice you make, you will not regret it, you must be worthy of your own choice, remember: life seems to be in the process of doing multiple choice questions, you have to make any choice with a peaceful mind to decide, go with the flow, but you must have your own attitude towards life, life values.

Hope it helps.

Be calm and listen to other people's advice.

It is necessary to talk about the problem itself.

Be sure to be calm, judge the pros and cons, and make a choice.

It is understood that at present, the proportion of high-skilled talents in China is far from that of developed countries, and the gap in high-skilled talents is huge. Nowadays, looking around, the most lacking in all walks of life is probably not college students with a college degree or even a master's degree or even a doctor's degree, but a large number of front-line applied talents who not only master professional knowledge, but can also start working immediately when they come to the enterprise.