How many people don t want to live after marriage

There are no specific statistics on this, but if you look at the fact that many people get married now, and then the divorce rate is also very high, you can see that most people's married life is unhappy, so many people are actually not ready for marriage, and they don't know if they don't want this kind of life.

The higher the expectations, the greater the disappointment.

If you feel that life will be very stressful after marriage before you get married, but when you find out that he is a second generation after marriage, and the pressure in your life is not as great as you imagined, then you will feel very happy.

If you think that after getting married, you can also get a house, the bottom of the car, and his meticulous love to make you a princess, but after you get married, he goes to work early and returns late every day, and has no time to accompany you, then you will feel that this is not what you want.

The human heart is not enough to swallow the elephant, and I still think that when I get married, I can take a rocket to outer space for my honeymoon! But can this be done? So be realistic, not everything you want can get, sometimes put your expectations down and you will find that someone can pour you a glass of water, and you are really happy.

In the end, I love you, if I can only give you hugs and not let go of your hand in this life, would you be willing to go with me.

Cool Teng.

Based on my own experience, I estimate that at least 90 or even 95 percent of people feel that their married life is different from what they imagined.

Most people don't know what they want, and some people want more when they get what they want. There are also some people, even if they get what they want, but they will miss what they lost. Similarly, there are many people who are depressed because they can't get what they want, but they don't know that what they get is what many people want.

And whether the other party can give it or not, and how much it can give you, actually does not depend on the other party, but on yourself.

The human heart is not enough to swallow the elephant, think about which one you are?

Maybe half of the people are married and live a life that they don't want, the imagination is beautiful, but the reality is cruel.

How many people have a married life that they don't want, and I believe that now for a married woman who has to take care of a child at home, most people will feel that this kind of life is not what they want.

Ninety-five marriages of one hundred people are unhappy, and many of them are improvised!

If you don't want your married life, then why did you get married in the first place, it's a very strange question.

Life is inherently plain.

Marriage is still a bit far away for me, at least I don't want to get married now, which will make people feel more scared. However, what I want to do after marriage is for two people to live alone, without inviting superfluous people to join, and simply living a better life.

I am a person who does not want to quarrel with others, and I am more afraid of living with each other's parents and afraid of quarrels between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so I hope that after marriage, life is two people alone. Nowadays, most young people are reluctant to live with their parents, after all, living habits and eating habits are different, and it can be tiring to be forced together.

I don't plan to get married right now, but if I do, I want it to be relatively simple and nothing superfluous. Two people go home from work normally to do housework together, and then go out for a walk together after dinner, and can go out on dates on weekends, so it's good to live simply. I don't want to compare, I don't want to compare with other people, I just want a simple happiness, only the other person loves me and can live a good life.

After getting married, life will definitely be very different from the past, and many times two people are needed to create happiness, so I hope that after marriage, the two friends and tourists will work together towards a happy life, not a one-sided effort. Both men and women should bear their share of responsibilities, so that people will feel that they are valued and that they are happy people.

For me, I can follow my own ideas, rather than becoming a vassal of the other party, and I am even more reluctant to live with a large family, so that I will feel like an outsider. In fact, the married life I want is very simple, as long as two people work together, there is no need to create too much value, health and happiness can be.

The married life I want is very happy, and I am very loving with my other half, and the two of them live very happily every day.

The relationship between the husband and wife is very good, and they can cook together in their spare time, they can celebrate and travel together, and the two of them will also create some surprises for each other, this is the married life I want.

It should be very fortunate to be blessed, quietly shouting that the two of them care for each other very much, the lives of both of them are very easy, and the two of them also have enough time to accompany Qiye to accompany each other, this is the married life of my dreams.

1.You may enter marriage because of society, because of your parents, because of the pressure brought by age, but with the obscurity of your external form of security satisfaction, your inner emotional needs will become more and more obvious. But you are afraid of losing control, so you don't dare to put emotions and responsibilities on the same body You will definitely meet the so-called person you like after you get married, the person who can meet your emotional needs, and then you don't dare to take responsibility for the person you like and end the marriage, and you can't give up the so-called spiritual lover who can make your heart move and meet your emotional needs, so you are repeatedly entangled and increase the pain.

2、 I am afraid that the emotional needs of the heart will be realized by the brain, because I know that there is no way to meet them, and if the emotional needs are not met, I will be uncomfortable and painful, so I will choose to work hard to close my feelings, ignore the emotional needs of self-stimulation, try my best to focus on the solution of objective practical problems, work hard to make money to raise children, be responsible for the family, and live as an empty shell to live in the future, you will find more and more that it seems that it is very boring to live, you can only keep comforting yourself, work hard, take care of the family and take on your role and responsibility, don't think too much, now life is not a good life, and then spend your life like this。