Can anyone help me analyze whether there is something wrong with my psychology?

The mood is determined by the mentality, the mentality is determined by the environment, the same environment appears many times, the psychology will inevitably produce bad emotions, such as (fear, worry, anxiety,) and subconscious resistance and resistance after the appearance, instinctively make some irrational actions, people with fragile feelings will be psychologically afraid of the first few failures, and the psychology is very negative. On the contrary, it will control the psychological contradictions of resistance.

A new relationship means a new beginning, forget the previous unpleasantness, don't keep thinking about the previous rights and wrongs, it's all over, and mention that it will make you very painful, because you are unwilling to fail, you will dig up all kinds of everything to comfort yourself or alleviate your psychological damage, in fact, you don't need to.

If you can't control it, then the performance (you are a person who is very emotional, you can't let go of it, you will always remember it) This example shows that your boyfriend backs himself, and I personally think that it is not worth your nostalgia, and if you can betray for the first time, there will be a second and third time, rather than deepening your wounds everywhere, it is better to forget that it will be useful to you.

This is the reason why you are not with him in your will, but you are still worried about being with him psychologically. Tell yourself to let everything go with the wind. Live your new life.

Because you care too much about him, take it easy.

Don't rush into another new relationship after a breakup.

Why do you want to rub salt in your wounds and stab your boyfriend in the chest?

The Three Realms are idealistic, and the Ten Thousand Laws are only knowledgeable.

The phase is born from the heart, and the environment is created by the heart.

Sickness comes from the heart, and disaster comes from the heart.

Consciousness determines existence, and what kind of consciousness there is, what kind of life form and living environment there is.

Our own confusion lies in the confusion of our own consciousness, the confusion of life lies in the disorder of our own consciousness, our pain mainly comes from the pain of our own consciousness, and our uncertainty lies in the fact that our consciousness is not clear, and we do not know ourselves and what we need.

Most of people's pain, frustration, anger, hatred, disappointment, despair, and other negative emotions come from the ego consciousness, "this is my home", "this is my person", "this is my ......Rather than dealing with the endless troubles of my mother-in-law and mother in my life, it is better to get out of the consciousness of the ego and go straight to heaven.

As long as the consciousness of breaking through the walls is broken, there is a new scene.

Faith has an incredible meaning. Faith is a state of the same frequency of the mind, a meticulous, rigorous and meticulous thinking structure, and a perfect symmetrical system that can react in an instant. Faith is the attribute of God, the belonging of gods and Buddhas, the quality of immortals, and the pursuit of sages. As long as people live with faith, no matter what kind of disease, blindness, leprosy, paralysis, and so on, can be cured without cure.

Jesus is the embodiment of faith and he clearly tells us that if one has faith, one can uproot a tree and plant it into the sea. Buddha Shakyamuni also said that as long as a person has a true belief in the "Diamond Sutra", he can become a Buddha, and if he can reach the state of "no appearance", he can become a "true bodhisattva".

A person who is confident in himself can generate infinite spiritual power; A person who wants to change the world will have wisdom; A person who wants to become a master will inevitably have a strange fire in his heart; A person who has an infinite yearning for life will surely find a true guide.

I wonder if you believe in Chinese medicine?

The theory of Chinese medicine can explain your psychological problems, and it can also be the best of the best.

You are suffering from "bile qi deficiency" in Chinese medicine. As long as the deficiency of the gallbladder meridian is cured, it can be cured.

Traditional Chinese medicine believes that if a person's gallbladder meridian is deficient, it will make the heart meridian chaotic, and once the heart meridian is scraped, it will be timid, or sleep is not deep, or even sleep poorly. Because he is timid, he is always suspicious; Because you are suspicious, you are worried; Since you have been thinking too much, several of your questions have appeared.

You go to see a Chinese medicine doctor, it's very easy to eliminate.

You have compulsive tendencies, and the root cause is an insecure inner situation. This is a psychological problem, and it is already more serious according to your description. Psychological problems are mainly "imagined" by oneself.

And this kind of "imagination" is "abnormal" in the eyes of normal people. However, it is "relatively normal" in the eyes of the patient.

I can illustrate your problem with this sentence, which is "not afraid of 10,000, just in case". If something goes wrong, it's bad. This is a very small, very small chance that you will live in worry and fear every day, and your life will be devoid of joy and happiness.

And people with OCD are still desperately emphasizing "what if this problem arises"?

You know the story of "unfounded worries". You think about it; We could be hit by a car tomorrow, we could get cancer tomorrow. Although the odds are small, very small, you can't say no, right? So, excessive worry leads to a serious decline in your quality of life.

People with obsessive-compulsive disorder don't believe in anything, they don't believe in science, they don't believe in logic, they don't believe in psychiatrists. What do they believe? They believe in the "worries, fears, fears" in their own hearts. They believe in "10,000."

1. What if".

In fact, anything has the possibility of happening before it happens. Tomorrow the Earth will**. As long as it's not over tomorrow, it's possible.

Unless, tomorrow comes, tomorrow is over, the obsessive-compulsive person can say with certainty; O, March 12, 2011 Earth does not have **. However, tomorrow you still have a lot to worry about.

When you think about it again, you tell yourself; This is obsessive thinking. This is caused by a lack of inner security, professional psychologists have told me with vivid examples of the harm of this kind of thinking, I don't need to think like this, such thinking is really redundant, a waste of time, a waste of life, my quality of life is seriously reduced by my own worries and fears.

I have dispelled this worry and fear with my wisdom and understanding, with my abilities and talents. I've used a shredder to get rid of those worries and fears. Little by little, I became stronger, safer, more confident, and more optimistic.

When you often do this kind of positive imagery; When you become confident and strong little by little; When you make the problem clearer and clearer little by little; Your psychological problems will all disappear!

Bless you!

I think you have some mild obsessive-compulsive disorder.

Being too yourself and not accepting yourself too much.

You can try to go out into nature and relax your mind, let go of some other stresses and thoughts, and listen to some soothing thoughts.

When you have these thoughts, tell yourself that it's not your real rational thinking, it's obsessive-compulsive disorder, and then switch your attention.

Good luck with you**.

A little obsessive-compulsive, very insecure, very worried about what will happen, if you feel that it really affects your life, go to the psychological counseling center, don't go to the mental health center. If it's not very strong, it's okay not to look at it, and if you endure the symptoms, you will subside, and you don't need to control yourself and don't think about it.

Mild obsessive-compulsive disorder Change your mindset, which is your mindset, and let yourself imagine the worst-case scenario, and in the worst-case scenario, you can still face it calmly and easily.

Obsessive-compulsive disorder, a short-term illness may be caused by one's own mind, but if it is long-term, it will become a disease. Sometimes you can't control it by yourself without the help of **, you also want to control it, but you can't control it, right? Don't put too much pressure on yourself, don't worry, go to the hospital to see, Chinese medicine is very good, Western medicine is too big, in addition, you have to control it, don't think too much, relax, it will be fine soon.

Analysis: Hello, this is a psychological problem, and the cause may be related to the environment in daily life.

Advice: It is recommended to consult a psychologist**.

It's because you're overnervous, and you think on the bright side, there's nothing in the world that can't be solved.

The lack of a sense of belonging from an early age, the lack of fatherly and maternal love that children of the same age need, will inevitably lead to a separation between the responsible person and the premises, and the younger brother associated with it.

People have some degree of obsessive-compulsive disorder, mostly mild enough to be ignored. You belong to this category too, and don't be presumptuous about the whole personality of the self.

You haven't lost your temper in front of outsiders for years, and your scars are buried deeply, but even in the rocks at the bottom of the sea, there will always be a grain of salt condensed from tears.

The boyfriend's sunshine is warming the heat-melting-dispelling these ancient teardrops. Brutal, willful, vexatious, angry, and tantrum! Any action that deviates from everyday behavior is written from a wound.

Fortunately! Note! The good thing is that you are a girl with a sound mind and an emotional intelligence higher than IQ. Being able to dig into the depths of the hidden rocks of human nature here, and let them bask in the sun, even though it is a portable rush of netizens, is actually no less effective than you are in **psychological counselor**.

First, don't be presumptuous, you don't have any mental illness, and you don't have obsessive-compulsive disorder. The second is to insist on "basking in the sun", regardless of the current four schools of psychology in the world, the first school, the first ...... the sand tableIt's all based on your own silent practice of basking in the sun.

Because you have been wandering around your relatives' houses when you were a child, it makes you feel insecure and feel that they left you in the first place as a sign that they don't love you. In fact, you know it, you have to feel it with your heart, and don't refuse to admit it because of what you experienced as a child.

As for your boyfriend, you have been at a relative's house since you were a child, so naturally you don't feel pampered, so now that you have a boyfriend, you want him to spoil you and love you to make up for what you once lacked.

Personal analysis ha

As you can see from the above, you have been left with a relative because your father ran away from home, your mother was inconvenient to work, and she left you at a relative's house, which made you insecure and hindered your communication with your parents. Many of you have experienced your situation, but when you live in a relative's house, are you very moved because your relatives are a little nicer to you? Actually, I used to be in a similar situation to you, so I spent more time with my grandmother and aunt than with my parents.

In my eyes, my grandmother, aunt, etc. are the closest people, and my parents are just a synonym for strangers. But when you go through everything, your mind suddenly becomes clear. For example, when I was in college, I thought I had a second job, I cried with red eyes, and told my uncle by **.

My brother-in-law told my parents. The moment I received a call from my parents, I suddenly found that my parents' voices suddenly aged a lot, and at the same time they seemed helpless. Later, although it was confirmed that it was an oolong that I did, my parents still sent me money to go to the hospital to see, and I was so moved to death at that time.

Even after many years, I still remember the scene and the mood at that time. I am telling you this today to tell you that parents will always love their children, but sometimes they don't know how to express it, and it is only when their children are sick that their love will be so great. My parents almost never beat me, and almost all of them hit me, but we get along very well now!

Be sure to go to the toilet three times before going to bed, that's what your own psychology is hinting at, and it's not a big problem, you just change it slowly. Don't think too much about anything else!

Maybe you lack love, so you are very demanding of your boyfriend, and you only have the closest person to show the most authentic self, your boyfriend should be that person, your parents are farther away from your boyfriend in your heart, your boyfriend should be more dependent on you, generally good-tempered people outside are not very gentle at home, I am also this kind of person, maybe the outside can really go to their hearts, there are too few people who can make friends. This kind of obsessive-compulsive disorder is a little bit of a problem for everyone, the main thing is not to think about it anymore, and don't always feel sick about it.

There is indeed a tendency to compulsion. As you just said, when you go to the toilet three times, you will often check to see if the door is closed, obviously delaying bedtime, waiting for your parents to come to see you or for them to come back, and this behavior is due to unfulfilled wishes. Now think that they don't love you before you want them to pay more and make amends.

Hostility to your brother may be due to the fact that the family situation was different from before when your brother was born, and there was constant companionship from parents. And you're going to mention your boyfriend, and I think you must have a vague idea of why you're doing this, and your boyfriend's current role is not only your boyfriend but also your parents. You can talk to your boyfriend a lot.

Lack of parental care, slowly discover the warmth of your parents' good feelings, and you rely on your boyfriend to do this.

Girl, you are not sick, and your psychology can be adjusted. Work or fall in love, and get married

Actually, I have ...... this questionThe main thing is, insecurity. Hehe, it's actually as simple as that.

In fact, everyone has a weak place in their hearts that cannot be touched by others, and you must learn not to touch your scars as much as possible.