Why do people always know how to cherish after they have lost?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-13
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

    Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

    How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

    Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

    When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

    Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

    Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

    The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

    There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

    He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Only after losing it do you know that you should cherish it! In fact, people are like this, what you can't get is always the best ......You may not think it will be like when you have it, but when you lose it, you will know what heartache is.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

    When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you.

    There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

    They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

    In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

    If you find.

    If there are such people around you, please cherish .......

    Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

    In this world, everyone has one.

    Those who want to look for it, once they miss it, they will not come back.

    If you fall in love, don't let it go easily.

    Abandon. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. Experienced love.

    The life of love is beautiful, and the love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Oh, life is like this, you regret it and want to start over, but time will not be reversed, what happened in the past will not be erased by time, and there is no regret medicine in the pharmacy to sell, so you don't want to start over, the most important thing is to face the future life, you should think about how to live in the future, try to do something that you don't regret, after all, people always have to look forward. Remember, the past is in the past, and the important thing is the future, hoping that you can make yourself happy and the people around you happy.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    What is lost is often the most beautiful.

    Maybe before you get this love.

    You will work hard to fight for it, and you will work hard to win.

    But when you've got that love.

    You lose your original self.

    You just want to try the joy of this success.

    When love is far away from you.

    You just realize.

    The things you fought so hard for are gone.

    All you have has come to naught.

    The most precious thing in the world is not 'unobtained' and 'lost', but happiness that can be grasped now.

    I hope everyone can grasp their own happiness.

    Don't let happiness perish in your own hands.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hehe: Probably this is an immutable law

    Maybe it's because of the problems I have experienced, and after I have experienced them, I will really understand this problem, and I will understand how to cherish it

    Hehe, cherish everything in front of you now

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It should be said that all of them are gained.

    After all, cherishing is a feeling.

    Didn't experience regrets.

    It's a blessing that won't really understand this.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Witness that people are confused and ignorant in the face of love, because people will make the same mistakes, that is, they don't know how to cherish the people in front of them, and they always feel that what they can't get is the best, the most beautiful, in fact, they are wrong, the reason why there is such a feeling is that you will have a very beautiful fantasy about him (her), so when the dream is broken, you know that you have already broken the heart of the person in front of you, so you have to leave, at this moment your heart is also clear, know who is your favorite, but I tell you that it is not too late to know, Because that's also your memory, the best memory, a memory that belongs only to you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't push yourself, don't put too much pressure on yourself, people should always look forward, the road they have walked, the people they have loved, they will not come back after the past, and coming back is no longer the original scenery and original mood, love is a sad fairy tale.

    Anyone who has read it has been left with regrets at one time or another.

    When we finish reading, we will understand a truth, that is, in the world of love, fate dominates everything, if there is fate, time and space are not distances. If there is no fate, even if we get together, we won't be able to understand, so let's let everything go with the flow.

    。Everyone has their own journey, there will be a variety of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience everyone is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have happened, time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as the beginning, adjust the mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future...

    Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

    Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun...

    Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you?

    If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

    Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars ...

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    After losing, I know that I have to cherish, people are like this, what I can't get is always the best, so people always deliberately pursue those things that can never be obtained, and often ignore the people around them who have been silently loving themselves, when they realize who is really worth cherishing, but things have changed, and people have gone. If you are in true love, then don't break up easily, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it. At that time, the pain was unforgettable.

    There are many people in the world who only know how to cherish when they lose, we should cherish the people we have around us, and don't lose an opportunity or a lover because of others, so we will lose a lot.

    In the face of our lover, we should treat it with a tolerant heart, no matter what happens, we should tolerate each other and think more about each other's good, so that the relationship between two people will last for a long time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    What is lost and missed is always the most valuable!

    What you can't get seems to be the best thing ever!

    In love, the more you want to get it, the harder it is to get! The more afraid you are of losing, the easier it is to lose! What is easy to get is easy to lose!

    It's yours that no one else can rob you! It's not yours, no matter how hard you ask, it's useless! Because life is all about going with the flow!

    Even if we have it, don't give it to others easily, because what is easy to get, others often don't know how to cherish it! Too generous, sometimes too stingy! You may not get what you give, and you may lose what you get!

    However, when we have the opportunity to have it, why do we often not know how to cherish it? The past can't be repeated! Even if you can do it all over again, who can guarantee that you won't miss it again?

    It's just that when we fall in love, don't let go of the opportunity easily! Loving and being loved are equally hard! Just as happy!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You didn't enjoy the time you had before you lost it! And you are inseparable from it, and you have lost it. Of course, I felt that something was missing, and I was uncomfortable. All or a lot of energy will think.

    Possess that period of time! Normal, if only you understood what you said now! You'll cherish it later.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's dripping, because when love is in front of us, we don't know how to cherish it, and we don't know how important it is to ourselves when we lose it.

    I regret it very much now.

    Because there is someone who loves me very much.

    I love him too.

    We didn't know how to cherish it at that time.

    Now we all regret it.

    I'll tell you.

    As long as two people truly love each other, they must seize the opportunity.

    Don't let yourself know after you lose that it's best to drop.

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