How did you discover your interest in life?

Some life pursuits may be a state of mind. But the more you see, the more you think, the more you know, and the more you ask. Desire is endless, why not live like this?

When I grow up, I suddenly have to face study, further education, employment, marriage, family, reputation, and interests. Speaking from the heart, how many people can be indifferent and calm? Understand that some things can only be gained by giving, and do not suffer from gains and losses.

In the face of something that cannot be changed, you can also look directly at it and laugh it off. What love and hatred, what joys and sorrows, what life and death, what fame and fortune are just a passing cloud. When you can think like this, you will feel that your mood is flat, like a pool of lake water, and you will feel that life is very ordinary, like a clear spring, but how many of us can go like this!

Some life pursuits may be love, but love is not the whole of life. At least before the mental and physiological maturity, love did not exist, she was killed halfway Cheng Biting Jin, beating people coldly, making people dizzy, and then went to a grave. She is the flu in the spring, and after a period of time, she will eventually leave, leaving a more immune body, and then the human experience is more family affection and responsibility.

Love is neither the whole of life, nor is it enough for us to feel the whole of life, she can only be a beautiful stroke in life, a profound knife in life. Relative to most people, this pen is not enough to kill, we can only say that there are sharper pens, and sharper knives waiting for us.

I used to like to be comfortable, but now I yearn for busyness. Of course, the premise of being busy is for what you like. Therefore, my pursuit of life is not so much the pursuit of something as concrete, but the pursuit of a state of work that is always on the way forward, the pursuit of a process leading to what I think is success!

Of course, the most important premise is that you and your family are in good health, united and harmonious.

Everyone comes to this world with their own pleasures, whether they are skilled or ordinary. When I was a child, I may have felt that the pursuit and the dream were the same, so I wanted to be a scientist, but as I grew up, I felt that the pursuit may be different from the dream, the dream can be very beautiful, but the pursuit is often more realistic, so I now want to work hard, break out of my own world, and let the people I love live a good life.

Everyone has something they want to get, and it may be from the moment they leave society. I just want to get a thousand yuan salary, but I feel too tired when I actually work. Looking at others with cars and houses, there is special envy.

When I was working outside, I especially wanted to have the dream that others had, that is, I wanted to be an actor. But you can't get it, you can't do it, maybe you want to get something all the time.

The joy of life is to live a little better than your parents. As an ordinary person, as a post-90s generation, I have no ability or ambition and feel that I can succeed, but I also absolutely believe that I just need to work hard and not become the worst person.

Now it is drifting north in Beijing. Living in the basement, but the environment is also good, although it is not too rich, you can worry about food and clothing.

Some life pursuits may just be wealth. Some people do their best, and a gentleman loves money in a good way, and works hard for numbers all his life. Some people dig out their minds, people die for money, birds die for food, and lose everything for numbers.

The pursuit of this type of person may also be for themselves, their families and society, with different positions and different destinations.

I want to have a stable job that is relevant to my interests and has a good salary to live in the city where I live. There is a happy family, a wife who is gentle and cares for the family, children and children, and parents who are healthy. Have a harmonious relationship with friends and colleagues, be able to have common thoughts and hobbies, and share blessings.

Some time ago, I felt a lot, so I updated a few articles in a row, when I shared it, some said that I felt the same way, and some said that my feelings were sincere, and people have always been unable to withstand praise and exaggeration, so complacency came to my heart. A sudden comment made me turn cloudy from the sunny inside, and after a polite reply, I began to think. The content of the comment is probably:

The whole article is my own confession, so if someone I don't know reads it, can I feel that a little bit of it is about the reader or can help the reader? "When I saw this comment, I was unhappy at first, because I thought that the commenter didn't know what the starting point and purpose of my article was, and that writing an article was not to be simple, to write about true temperament, and what was the point of considering so many people.

Yes, I've always been like this, it's hard to accept some good advice from others, even if others are right, they won't accept it very positively, they will always go to a few words first, and then slowly think about it, and then accept it silently when they feel that it is really beneficial to themselves.

Everyone's personality is different, the age group is different, the experience is different, so of course the view on things will be different, in order not to let yourself be troubled by this matter, I also discussed with my friends some points of view about writing, some said to go your own way do not care, some said to see what the purpose of writing the article is, listen to the different opinions or still need to think about yourself. I have been bothered by this problem for several days, because I care too much about my own impression in the minds of others, and because everything must have a result, so I pay great attention to everything in life that can have this information. When you have been thinking about something, you will find that this thing will always come to you like magic, reading the second chapter of "The Parchment" at noon, the knowledge of interpersonal communication, when I saw this title, I was not much interested, when I saw the text, it was mainly told with a number of stories of interacting with people, undoubtedly curiosity drove me to continue, and when I saw this chapter, all the previous confusion was lifted.

You're right, when I started to pay attention to my performance when I interacted with people in life, when I looked at the words I used when I wrote articles, it really fit my performance, people are most interested in themselves, so the whole article is about themselves, all confessions, it seems to show themselves to all people, to gain the recognition of others, to gain more praise and praise. At the beginning, writing articles was on the one hand to find an outlet for my emotions, on the other hand, I hoped to help others, and in the process of implementation, I only cared about myself.

When you want others to do to you, do that first and foremost. When you want to be recognized and liked by others, talk more about them than about yourself. If you can learn to listen carefully to others and talk more about topics that others are interested in, you will make a good impression on others, and you will no longer be so self-absorbed and only care about yourself.

Everyone is most interested in themselves, and this is also where the great knowledge of interacting with others lies.

I can't completely deny this behavior, because something that can fascinate me is not only because of the happiness it brings me, but also because of the self-confidence in my heart, whether it is from family and friends, or myself, the reason why interest is interest, not how much contribution this thing has to society and others, but that you can't see its value, but other things can't replace its existence, this is everyone's difference, but when your vision is broad enough, and your experience is rich enough to your interest, That's where it's not just interest, we can call it"Occupation"The leaders in each field, their success is to rely on interest, innate talent, acquired efforts, plus the rendering of time to create today's brilliance, no matter how many percent of talent and effort, as long as they can still be ready in the face of setbacks, this kind of "".Career interests"That's where it finally succeededStepping stone.

It's possible that it's just a temporary liking.

For most people, maybe interest can only be found in continuous attempts, it is undeniable that everyone has the most suitable thing for themselves, but can clearly understand, and find the person who finds her, basically stands at the top, that is to say, such people are extremely rare, for ordinary people, I think I can only cultivate interest, and try to find fun from it, starting from the simplest and smallest part, little by little to accumulate a sense of achievement, just like there are so many people in a major in college, no matter in **, Especially in an environment like China, it is impossible for everyone to be suitable for the current major, and the funny thing is that it seems that the meaning of our university is to pass the exam, and get a scholarship ...... through hard workI don't have time to think about it, cultivate and discover my interests, and spend all day in the library and self-study room learning those "knowledge" that we have to learn, and it is undeniable that these "knowledge" are also very important, because we don't know what we want to do, at least we can rely on this "knowledge" to get a graduate school, a doctorate, and a school ...... in the futurePeople should be a little adventurous, especially during college, dare to try new things, maybe the next time you try you will find that you are unconsciously engaged, will not feel tired, unaware of the existence of others, forget ......That's right! This is called interest, strive to discover such a moment, four years of undergraduate, can cultivate one's attitude towards life, discover one's interest, absolutely envy others, sooner or later will succeed, professional knowledge is available at any time, but the attitude towards life is not a ...... that everyone can cultivateIn the end, I think that any genius and outstanding person is not born in competition, they are dominated by something called "enjoyment", enjoying what they are doing and enjoying the beautiful ...... of lifeSooner or later, competition will create divisions!! So, all you can do at the moment is:

Try, keep trying!! The above is purely a personal opinion. ——Focus makes people sublimated, and complexity makes people go crazy, and even ruin their lives!

You can go to the society to practice, and slowly find out what you like to do, what you can do, how to do it, when to do it, etc., I hope it will help you.

Then you try to close your eyes and ask yourself, "What do you want to do?" and your first reaction is what you like, good luck.

It may be useful to you, see about my answer. Interest also, the interest is fun, you said, hehe, it's about yourself and you don't realize that you have a lot of interests. At least you're asking questions now, and you're wise at the beginning.

Subconsciously always want to do something.

01 If we want to discover our own hobbies, then we must dare to try different things, such as dancing, swimming, basketball, table tennis, badminton, volleyball, running, painting, singing, paper-cutting and other different hobbies, and make reasonable choices from them.

02 After daring to try, we have to find the feeling, find the most suitable interest for your hobbies, and see what you are really interested in, this is our second step, find interest, see if you have the highest interest in that, and take the highest one as our hobby.

03After finding a hobby, it is time to practice and play reasonably. Stick to doing a common thing in your life, like sleeping and eating, which is something to be done every day, determine your hobbies, and do it as a daily behavior, which is a process of turning your hobbies into your own specialties.

04 hobbies still need partners, they are very lonely alone, we also need competition, so that we can progress, competition is the best way to progress, so we need to find people with the same interests to play together, progress together, this is the second step to turn hobbies into their own specialties, and it is also a more important step, in the back you need your own efforts and persistence.

1.Motion. Exercise releases endorphins and dopamine in the body, neurotransmitters that can make people feel happy.

2.Read. Reading allows people to relax, reduce stress, expand their horizons, and also learn new knowledge and skills.

3.Socializing. Socializing with friends, family, or colleagues can increase people's social networking and self-esteem and provide people with an enjoyable experience.

5.Volunteering is pure. Volunteering can make people feel self-worth and a sense of social responsibility, and that feeling can also lead to joy.

All of the above methods can help people find their own interests and meaning, and make themselves feel happy in their ordinary lives.