After marriage, I found that my husband was very macho, how to get along?

For a macho husband, a woman must have a certain opinion, and cannot fully listen to his opinions, must have her own ideas, and know how to resist, otherwise he can easily manipulate his wife's life.

When a man is a towering tree, a woman must turn into a finger twister, and she must give a man enough face in front of outsiders, but in private, she must tell a man what she likes, and she also hopes that men will defend themselves in front of outsiders and show masculinity.

I think this requires two people to communicate more in the process of getting along, and respect each other more, give each other enough faces, and say what they really think, so as to solve the problem.

You can discuss with him about the role reversal, and then play his usual role at home, let him feel the atmosphere and pressure, and believe that he will slowly understand you.

Be sure to share something with him every day, so that there will be no problems in the relationship between you and your husband and wife.

Issue 10: How to Peacefully Coexist with a Macho Boyfriend.

1. When you encounter a contradiction that cannot be resolved, you must not be hard-hitting. Since machismo people prefer to save face, if there is a conflict, both parties will not give in, which may lead to the worsening of the problem, which is not conducive to the continuation of the relationship or the relationship between husband and wife.

2. Don't quarrel in front of outsiders. If a wife or girlfriend condemns him in front of everyone, counts him down or argues with him in front of everyone, it will stimulate his machismo and impulsively do wrong things, making things irreparable.

3. Properly express your inner dissatisfaction. It is necessary to express dissatisfaction appropriately and choose the right time for effective communication to promote the sublimation of feelings.

Machismo is influenced by the family, formed for a long time, and is not easy to change! Communicate with him as much as possible, and disagree with him in what he says, continue to do what you want, correct it slowly, and let his machismo have nowhere to go! I'm sure it will improve!

The so-called "machismo" is inseparable from the feudal culture that has been inherited in China for thousands of years. In ancient times, the idea of male superiority and inferiority of women was deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and with the emergence of male ploughing and female weaving, men supported the whole family outside, and women taught each other husbands and children at home, which also determined the status of men in the family to a certain extent. Moreover, machismo is also determined by the level of productivity at the time, in which case the husband has the absolute right to speak, and the wife must obey the husband.

But times are advancing, and people's minds are becoming more and more open-minded. In today's society, where the idea of equality between men and women is becoming more and more common, I believe that traditional machismo should be discarded and new machismo should be promoted. In other words, when a man takes on his responsibilities, he must also protect his wife, and at the same time, he must also give his wife enough respect and right to speak.

As you can see from your question, your husband is a traditional machismo: he doesn't take your feelings into account when he does things, and moreover, he wants to control your mind and influence your behavior.

Now that you have a clear sense of the other person's intentions, I suggest you sit down with him and have a good talk to see if there is any room for manoeuvre in this matter. Although the nature of the country is easy to change, and the character of people is difficult to change, the power of love is also great, and sometimes we may change some of our own things for the sake of our beloved. However, if good communication doesn't work, I think you need to think about a tougher approach.

After all, marriage is a lifelong affair, and you are responsible for your own happiness.

Machismo is a common problem of men, how to get along with each other, of course, also depends on the character, women are water, use the most gentle side of women to guide him, change him, it is not recommended to-for-tat, I have more than ten years of experience