What are some heart wrenching experiences you have that are worth sharing?

My uncle is a very good person, not only do I think he is good, he is a good person who will be praised for putting **. As long as others have something, he can put aside his own things to help others. Some people may say that good people are not good for their families.

Otherwise, my uncle has always been kind to me, and he bought a lot of clothes when I was a child, and of course he was richer at that time. It has been more than 2 months since he died, and I still remember his hand before he died because of poor blood circulation, because when I saw my uncle, my uncle only had his right hand in his body, so the other hand was covered by the quilt. He died the night he returned home, and I didn't know until noon the next day.

I can't remember how I felt at the time, because when he came home I was ready for him to leave us soon, but I didn't expect it to be so soon. So when I got to my uncle, I was really heartbroken.

I don't think the word "heartache" is a good way to express my emotions anymore. It was a kind of despair, like facing a pitch-black abyss, about to be swallowed up. I feel like I'm sinking deeper and deeper, but I can't get out of it.

Every day I lose the motivation to live well, I don't want to do anything, and I don't want to do anything. Every day is like losing your soul. Walking and walking will fall on the ground, going to the toilet will almost fall in, going upstairs without looking at the floor number and walking casually, my mind is blank.

I used to love a girl very much, I began to pursue it constantly, and then I was accepted, but I was suddenly pushed away. I don't get discouraged, then I continue to pursue, to be accepted, to be rejected, and eventually to become cold and silent. The whole process lasted half a year, and I almost exhausted every bit of enthusiasm in my heart, and I had no confidence and anxiety about the new day.

During this period, all kinds of joys and sorrows made me feel painful, and the pain was nothing more than that, and I suddenly lost what I gained, and fell from the clouds to hell. This is the normal state of life.

First love, it was he who took the initiative to chase me, and I also had a good impression of him, so I agreed to him. As a result, when dating, I found that there was no feeling of love at all, and I was always very indifferent to me, not active at all, a few days after the breakup, he began to chase another girl, after chasing her, his attitude towards her was completely different from that towards me, he was very good to her, and asked her out to eat and watch movies every day. I hehe, his whole family, for him I fell out with my friend, lost my first love, only in exchange for him a sorry and I was impulsively sorry.

Now he dangles in front of me every day with his partner, and it really becomes a knot in my heart.

One day when you were 14 years old, after you came home, your father told you that your parents were divorced, and your mother said goodbye without knowing that she had gone. You cried for two days, and you've been a different person ever since. Two years later, they all have a new family, and you, a freshman in high school, start to live alone, face the night alone, and they, your parents, give you living expenses, from the age of fourteen, you have never had a birthday, and when you have a birthday, you receive their WeChat transfer, and you will always be late.

For the first ten years, I was careful to stay by your side, afraid that you would leave. In the second half of my life, I cautiously escaped from your sight, afraid that you would approach. I know too well what kind of life you want, too much of your desperate lack of security, too much of your love for me.

So, when I slowly live my life as you expect, when I am no longer afraid of heaven and earth, when I am willing to lose you, finally, I forgive myself, I can't even feel the pain, how can I love you. Now, the most heart-wrenching thing is not the loss of you, but the loss of a heart that can feel love and pain.

You and I were talking and laughing happily, and we made an appointment to get married, thinking that we would be together forever in this life. Suddenly you said to me, "We can't be together, you have to go." It was raining outside, and you turned and rushed into the rain, and I followed out, but you disappeared in the pouring rain.

I yelled and cried in the rain, tears and rain blurring my face. I fell to my knees in the muddy water, looked up and looked in the direction you had disappeared, but it was dark. It turned out to be just a dream.

Touching his eyes, tears soaked his pillow.

He said he liked me, but he didn't like me. After passing by a stranger on the street, my eyes were red, and only I knew he was using the same perfume as you. Well, there is no need to brew feelings at all, this is the reflex you left to me.

The deepest impression of love on many people is probably the heartache. I'm a person who has a hard time liking other people, but I'm also looking forward to love, and in my junior year, I finally met the boy I thought I was excited about, and I fell in love. But what I didn't expect was that the boy barely told me the truth, and even unintentionally belittled me, making me feel as if I was terrible, and I was basically compromising on everything.

I was exhausted in this relationship, but I didn't know anything at the time, and I always felt that if I liked someone, I had to learn to tolerate him, and then slowly change him, until the moment all the lies were exposed, I didn't know that I was really stupid. Later, I broke up, and at the moment of the breakup, I felt that the whole world was going to collapse, and during that time, I also had insomnia all night long, and I often cried inexplicably, and this state lasted for a long time, and in the end, I probably felt too tired from the pain, so I slowly accepted the fact of breaking up.

I'm a bit of a melancholy person in my bones, and I don't feel much pain myself, but I feel very uncomfortable looking at the people around me. My original family was not harmonious, and when I was young, my parents were not around, and I was always bullied by other children, and over time, my temperament became more and more gloomy. I didn't feel happy when everyone else was laughing, and I used to ask the people around me what happiness was.

When I grew up, this depression did not subside, and I tried to take a lot of drugs last year, when I was lying in the hospital in a daze and listened to my mother crying on the sidelines, and I suddenly felt very painful.

I think that pain is probably the normal state of life, if you can't get by, it's an abyss, and if you can get by, it's the sea and the sky. Sometimes you can actually give everything to time, those who can't figure it out, feel pain, then don't go to the tip of the horns, time will always dilute everything, and then when you look back, you will find that there is really nothing, but those pains have taught you to grow.

Four years ago, my ex-husband and my best friend had an ambiguous relationship, and it really hurt me to see that moment at that time, and it also made me lose my family and friendship from that moment.

If I didn't do well in the exam, I asked the teacher to criticize the whole class, without giving any face, verbally abusive, and beating people.

That is the death of a parent. They raised me, trained me to study, helped me marry a daughter-in-law, just like the song goes, gave me all their love and gave me the world. Both parents died of serious illnesses.

I feel thankful that I was there to take care of them when they died. There is a ** on the Internet, which is a middle-aged man in Taiwan, holding his elderly and thin mother, and seeing a doctor in the hospital, which is very touching and sought after by netizens. And I did this when my mother was seriously ill!

Carrying my mother to the hospital. Now my parents have gone to heaven. But I have a small luxury, hoping to be hugged by my parents like a child again.

If there is an afterlife, I want to be their son again!

At that time, I had just been admitted to No. 1 Middle School, the highest school in the county, and I was about 50 miles away from home, and I needed to live in the school. Lying in the new cotton quilt at night, like a small stove, warm. On the first day, when I returned to the dormitory after class, I found that the new quilt was missing, and I couldn't find it no matter how I looked for it.

I really didn't expect someone to steal quilts at school. The thugs on the street went to the dormitory to demand meal tickets for the students, and they threw quilts one after another, which made me feel that the school management was very chaotic, and I couldn't study quietly, so I had the idea of quitting school. But when I think of the words of the primary and secondary school students in the rain, the classmates in the class were so enthusiastic, helped me find a quilt, took me to the same school's accommodation, and gave me the courage to continue to study hard, and did not bow my head in the face of difficulties and setbacks, but fortunately I persevered and became one of the only four in the class to be admitted to university.

I met a girl half a year ago, and from the moment I met her, I knew that I was in love with her, which is love at first sight! Really care! At the beginning, we can talk from six o'clock in the morning until half past eleven o'clock in the evening to sleep, that feeling is that we can't do without her news, if a few minutes late will be cranky, will be absent-minded, free time will go to her place even to see her, are content, every day is indispensable is greetings and love, day after day never perfunctory, the poison of love is deep-rooted, the wine of love is drunk with a drop, and the lover's heart is broken when touched!

After all, love is still beautiful, it can make me happy and happy, the moment with her is always a happy smile, and I don't regret it if I love, because with her, at least what I see in this time is beautiful, full of sweetness! I believe in love because I really love her very much!

The first time was when I broke up with my boyfriend who had been in love for four years, the second time was when I broke my leg, and the third time was when my grandfather died. The last two happened this year, and I feel that this year is really bad, and I hope that it will be the new year soon, and I hope that everything will be fine.

Eat alone, go shopping alone, cook alone, watch movies alone, walk along the main road alone. There may be people who feel too lonely, but in fact, I'm fine, alone time, lonely, but not lonely. I have very good friends who have regular dinners and get together, but growing up has always been a lonely person.

The loneliest thing is that now that I have just entered the society, I am making every choice by myself, weighing the pros and cons, I don't know the result, and I am bearing it anyway. None of them gave me advice as someone who had come before, and that was what made me feel very lost.

Although the scar is good, there is still a sore spot, once I was hospitalized due to illness and spent all my savings, and then because no one helped me, I felt helpless about human warmth and coldness; The things that were hanging in my heart before, the current story, the love is all heart-wrenching love, and finally I can't do anything about it, how short life is, that's it, I have to continue to walk tomorrow ......

When a friend is in trouble, he lends him money to get through the difficulties, when we are in difficulty, we don't ask him for help, we just hope that he owes us back, and when he begs his grandfather to tell his grandmother that he only wants money, he wants to die, and suddenly feels blind.

How do you come up with your problem? 》

Heartache is unavoidable, depending on what you are for. Why do we all have heartache? Some are in love, some are in the workplace, and some are friendship.

Because you treat it with your heart in love, but you don't get it in return; Because when you are full-time, you don't know that you are favored by your boss, or when others say that you are faking a fight, etc.; When your best friend betrayed and bruised you, when you weren't on your side when you were most lonely.

Everything is because we have loved, done, and treated with our hearts.

At the same time as your heart aches, you should also think about it, is this person worth your heartache?

I think that true forgetting is not simply forgetting and avoiding, but faced, and when we can calmly face everything that has happened after coming out of the pain, maybe we have achieved true forgetting. Everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by along the way, every relationship and every experience everyone is a mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted. Only in this way can we learn to give up, remember what should be remembered, forget what should be forgotten, and transform the pain of the past, so that it can become a kind of understanding, an experience, and a memory of life, not just pain, so as to truly forget.

The best thing to forget is to cherish everything that has been and is now, let time go to the wounds of the past, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust the mentality, life is short, life is short, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

Because of some special reasons, two people who love each other very much can't be together, this seems to only exist in the distant past, I think as long as you love each other, love each other very much, even if there is a big obstacle, there is no way to stop you from being together. Unless it's love that's not deep enough...Regardless of whose reason, the problem lies in your own, there are too many such things, in fact, you don't have to be sad, you have to believe in fate, since you love each other, you can't be together, maybe it's your fate, you can't be together, but you still have a relationship, and a good memory, don't you, you think, memories are also a kind of happiness.