How to understand taking is ability, giving is realm ?

If there is a deviation in your choice, you must give up appropriately, you must insist on what you should insist on, and give up what you should give up, which is the great wisdom of choice. At any time, you need to give yourself a clear bottom line, because many times some people will wear down your bottom line little by little, and when you don't have a bottom line, you are completely controlled by others.

There is a give-and-take. Yes, to achieve success, it is necessary to gain strong ability through hard work, but to be able to achieve "giving" is a different realm. This is true of movies, and so are our lives!

For example, if you are currently engaged in a job with a salary of 6,000 yuan a month, but it is not what you like, and the job you like can only earn 3,000 yuan or less a month, then would you be willing to give up the job with a monthly salary of 6,000 yuan?

In life, if we blindly want to get something, and we don't want to give up anything, we can only show a person's selfishness, but if he gives up something when he has something, it can only mean that he has reached a certain level, is more open-minded, and is not so calculating.

It is to cling to all the phenomena in the world with greed, which is the root of all suffering, and there is nothing that is incapable of powerlessness here. Giving away is not taking from the phase, away from greed, that is, giving away, not there is a realm called giving away.

Giving is sometimes a kind of gain.

When we encounter some unhappy things, or when we hurt our own interests, it is useless to blindly complain, even if we complain more, there is no way to change things, it is better to find a solution from it, to change ourselves, so that things become beneficial to ourselves, it is meaningless to fulfill what we get, only if we give up a part, the benefits in exchange are the greatest.

A person can forgive you, not because he is generous, but because he is reluctant;

A person can accommodate your temper, not because he is too tolerant, but because he cares about you very much.

A person can tolerate your nonsense, not because he has no bottom line, but because he is willing to compromise with you alone.

Such a person understands what the meaning of existence is.

What kind of exercise a person goes through, what kind of cultivation and benefits he will get. The wings can carry the eagle far and wide, but it is made up of slight feathers. Try to minimize contact with people who are withdrawn, gossipy, complain, and have a negative mentality.

Don't be too careful about people, if you are too careful, you will have regrets!